Hello again
So tonight mom had to wait over an hour again before she was changed. This is due to the nurse that threatened me.
I can't believe nothing was done to her. No actions taken against her at all. So let me explain what goes on their. They can continue to make threats, as in telling me they will stop me from seeing mom. This happens every time they speak with me. The nurses can threaten me. And nothing is done to them.
They screw mom over by making her wait and sit in her own filth, for a long period of time. Without any thought of anyone else.
I don't want this nurse to go near mom. I don't want her to touch mom, give her medication or anything.
Now what do I do, I have paid rent for the place in White Rock. I haven't paid rent for the place I am in now. I don't have the money to do this, either.
This is a very hard decision for me to make.
I can't feasibly move to an empty place. With absolutely nothing in it and no money to buy anything.
I need $3000.00 minimum. And that is not even great stuff. This will barely cover the cost of filling up a entire one bedroom apartment. It won't even cover this, actually. I have checked prices all over the Lower Mainland and added everything up and the cost is way more than the $3000.00 I mentioned above. I don't even have any money at all, let alone what I need to move.
Everything was all worked out, a bed, moving costs, furniture. And then the ministry changed it's mind. And the PGT won't keep any of the promisses they have made, over the last 8 month's As in assisting me with dental work. Which I asked for those funds instead of using it for dentures, to use for this move. To get what I need, to make a place to bring mom over. Right away was my plan. I guess I am not allowed to make plans.
Or if I do, they don't work out. Well at least this plan.
I stay in Coquitlam, I have forks, knives, plates to eat off of. A couch to sit on. A kitchen table. And the most important is a bed, dresser and desk.
The new place I don't even have a fork or a plate. No TV or anything to sit on, eat off of, sleep on.
As you can see I have not a clue what to do.
I need to move to be closer to mom, and do more for her, and with her. Now I have no way of moving my belongings. What little I have. The couple of dozen boxes of misc. things I own.
Now tonight I brought mom this nice salad with prawns on it. She loves this salad. ( She has salad, I have a few dollars for her, but not for me to spend on myself) She ate allot of it, but not all. And I also brought her a Papaya, and she loves this, but only ate half of it. I think she is getting sick, or her tooth is really bothering her. And for me to get anything for pain, for mom, I need to speak to the crazy nurse. I am going to half to do this.
Now on Tuesday, I have been asked to be out their for 11:00 am to be their for mom to have an xray done on her tooth, but they aren't going to remove it. They have to do both. But I will still be here in Coquitlam, And I don't get home from White Rock until 11:00 pm Then I don't even get to bed until 3:00 am. It is three hours to get their.
I am going to try to be out their. Then I don't know what to do, until her dinner. Mom takes a nap in the afternoon.
I am screwed, it seems that everything I am trying to do for mom, OK to get myself out their is failing. Badly. Nothing is working out.
I don't know what to do anymore. I can't sleep on the floor. As it is I don't eat much and to not have pots or pans, a plate etc.... I will go crazy in an empty place. I will have lights, and cable ( no TV) and wireless Internet.
So mom is wandering when I am moving, I don't know what to tell her. She is wandering when she can come over. Again, no clue what to tell her. I need to tell her something.
I just wish these individuals, who make promisses, would keep them. Then all would be good.
So I pray that someone, who reads this, tells someone, who might be able to help me.
I am the only one at the Al Hogg pavilion that actually spends this much time with their loved one's. And in the 10 years I have seen no other male or actually female spend as much time as I do with their loved one.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
