Hello again
So I consider mom having to wait to be put to bed, when I was and still am able to do so. To wait for 1/2 sitting in her chair, in filthy diapers, is considered abuse. To take away something that one is accustom to is abuse.
Two days in a row mom has had to wait for at least 1/2 hour. I am writing it all down. The exact time that I have mom ready to be transfered to bed and then the time she is actually put into bed. For the complaint, of course,. The more ammunition I have the better.
Then this bitch LPN Joane, was mouthing me off tonight. At approximately 6:30 PM. Telling a new trainee LPN that I should have security called on me. Her exact words were " If there are any problems, you should call security, especially with this guy" Then she laughed.
She just doesn't get it. I will not bite. I will just document it and continue being the polite individual that I am. And for the fact that I have an eidetic memory (Tonal), I remember all conversations I have.
Now that we have to wait, and I write down exactly what mom is feeling about this, I started to read her a book. Might as well spend the time constructively.
Other than this mom ate very well this evening. And she is doing very well.
A care aid was complementing me on what I do for my mother. Telling me that she has talked to her parents about me. That people don't care for their parents or don't have the time. But this man does what other's only dream of doing. I thanked her
It is time to go again
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Mom today
Hello again
I start this today by saying I really need to move. I have a roommate who has been taking things that I bought to make mom dinners and is to cowardly to even face me. He is hiding. He took a half dozen eggs plus other items. I bought another dozen eggs and got home tonight to find them gone. He knows I can't eat eggs and that they are for my mother. So pay back time.
This is what happens when one lives with an alcoholic. They are losers. I may be broke and on Welfare, but I am doing something worthwhile with my time.
I have not been able to put mom to bed. So mom has to suffer. Tonight she was sitting in her chair trying to get out to get to bed. She was telling me to just put her to bed. But I had to say I couldn't.
This is abuse, mom is suffering. She can't go to bed when she is use being put into bed when she wants to.
The abusive nurse is on this weekend. And mom had to wait over 1/2 hour tonight before someone came to put her into bed. She now has to sit and wait, in her own filthy diapers.
I got in touch with the. It is called the patient care quality review panel. And I am waiting for a case manager to call me back. It is the start of the process. I have started it and will go until the desired result is achieved.
I will, also, on Monday, be going to the MLA in White Rock and making a formal complaint about this.
IT IS ABUSE TO MAKE MOM WAIT LIKE THIS.
Well I have contacted the funeral home where mom's parents are laid to rest and I have an appointment with them next week.
NO, mom is fine, she is healthy. But my sister's want as much as they can get from the inheritance. I hope mom uses it all before she passes. And mom does not want to be cremated. And I want mom to be buried as well and dad's ashes put in the coffin with mom.
Yes this is a very hard thing to do. Arrange, or at least find out how much a funeral is going to cost.
I have seen a very lot of death over the years. Not only someone I know being alive one day and the next day coming in to find out that they passed away overnight but I have also seen many people pass away while I was in the room with them. As in mom's past roommates.
Anyways, I will be speaking with this funeral home. Getting an idea of how much it will cost. Then I am going start a fund raising campaign on Gofundme. I will let you all know when that takes place.
All money raised is going into trust for just this reason. A funeral for mom. And it will be dual signatures that are needed to remove the funds. I will hire a lawyer or someone like this for the other signature. . I have to do something. Mom's religious beliefs state that she be buried and I have to honor this.
This nurse, Joane, likes to give mom her meds early, so by the time dinners rolls around, mom is falling asleep. It only happens when she is working. And this bitch is on, for the next three days.
It is Sherry and this LPN who I am going after.
Mom has rights as a resident of Al Hogg and with this she has rights. And part of those rights is for mom to make a decision on who can provide her with health care. And since mom is not able to do so, it falls on me to make these decisions. As I am the one who is their all the time.
I do all this for mom as I want to be able to make a difference in at least one persons life.
I need to go...
I want to be up when this asshole roommate gets up to take a shower at 3 AM. To confront him. But revenge is mine saith the LORD. So I will pray for him. But I will confront him and will be phoning the landlord again. He has to go.
OK I owed him some money, but I had this in my drawer for the last week. I fixed someone's computer last weekend and did some other things for them. And I was paid for my work. I put his funds aside. I just haven't seen him all week. Then after this I owe him nothing. I have to replace everything he has taken.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
I start this today by saying I really need to move. I have a roommate who has been taking things that I bought to make mom dinners and is to cowardly to even face me. He is hiding. He took a half dozen eggs plus other items. I bought another dozen eggs and got home tonight to find them gone. He knows I can't eat eggs and that they are for my mother. So pay back time.
This is what happens when one lives with an alcoholic. They are losers. I may be broke and on Welfare, but I am doing something worthwhile with my time.
I have not been able to put mom to bed. So mom has to suffer. Tonight she was sitting in her chair trying to get out to get to bed. She was telling me to just put her to bed. But I had to say I couldn't.
This is abuse, mom is suffering. She can't go to bed when she is use being put into bed when she wants to.
The abusive nurse is on this weekend. And mom had to wait over 1/2 hour tonight before someone came to put her into bed. She now has to sit and wait, in her own filthy diapers.
I got in touch with the. It is called the patient care quality review panel. And I am waiting for a case manager to call me back. It is the start of the process. I have started it and will go until the desired result is achieved.
I will, also, on Monday, be going to the MLA in White Rock and making a formal complaint about this.
IT IS ABUSE TO MAKE MOM WAIT LIKE THIS.
Well I have contacted the funeral home where mom's parents are laid to rest and I have an appointment with them next week.
NO, mom is fine, she is healthy. But my sister's want as much as they can get from the inheritance. I hope mom uses it all before she passes. And mom does not want to be cremated. And I want mom to be buried as well and dad's ashes put in the coffin with mom.
Yes this is a very hard thing to do. Arrange, or at least find out how much a funeral is going to cost.
I have seen a very lot of death over the years. Not only someone I know being alive one day and the next day coming in to find out that they passed away overnight but I have also seen many people pass away while I was in the room with them. As in mom's past roommates.
Anyways, I will be speaking with this funeral home. Getting an idea of how much it will cost. Then I am going start a fund raising campaign on Gofundme. I will let you all know when that takes place.
All money raised is going into trust for just this reason. A funeral for mom. And it will be dual signatures that are needed to remove the funds. I will hire a lawyer or someone like this for the other signature. . I have to do something. Mom's religious beliefs state that she be buried and I have to honor this.
This nurse, Joane, likes to give mom her meds early, so by the time dinners rolls around, mom is falling asleep. It only happens when she is working. And this bitch is on, for the next three days.
It is Sherry and this LPN who I am going after.
Mom has rights as a resident of Al Hogg and with this she has rights. And part of those rights is for mom to make a decision on who can provide her with health care. And since mom is not able to do so, it falls on me to make these decisions. As I am the one who is their all the time.
I do all this for mom as I want to be able to make a difference in at least one persons life.
I need to go...
I want to be up when this asshole roommate gets up to take a shower at 3 AM. To confront him. But revenge is mine saith the LORD. So I will pray for him. But I will confront him and will be phoning the landlord again. He has to go.
OK I owed him some money, but I had this in my drawer for the last week. I fixed someone's computer last weekend and did some other things for them. And I was paid for my work. I put his funds aside. I just haven't seen him all week. Then after this I owe him nothing. I have to replace everything he has taken.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
And it begins
Hello again
I have not written in the last few days as I have been writing a letter of complaint to the Patient Care Quality Office of the Fraser Health department.
This women Sherri has pushed me over the top and I will now take action. I am done dealing with these individuals.
Lack of respect, doesn't listen to anything anyone, I mean me, says. When I make a decision, she will go behind my back and call my sisters, for their decision.
Lack of respect for the law. The law states that the person who makes the health care decisions is the one who is their. And that is myself.
This women had all day today, to call me, but chose to do so when I was traveling and most likely not be able to hear the phone. I called her back and she was making up stores on what happened. She got the date wrong, and she was telling me mom was hurt. I quickly corrected her and told her mom was not injured, that she fell on me and I am the one who was injured. And by the way, my foot is killing me. The cut just stopped bleeding today. I was going to go and get stitches if it didn't stop bleeding today. My leg hurts like crazy.
Maybe I should contact a lawyer and sue. I know Fraser Health will settle quickly.
I simply asked her is she was their. No response. She barked orders at me. Not even willing to discuss anything. I told her that mom is not going to be sitting in her chair for an hour while someone decides to put her into the bed.
I don't even care if they change her, right away, but she is to be put into bed immediately after dinner. As I do with her.
Mom wants her spa treatment and I need to be on a bus at a certain time to get home before midnight.
And of course this bitch doesn't care.
She makes threats. As in: If you want to continue to be part of your mom's health care! Or if you don't like the way I do things, Move your mom. Knowing full well that seniors at this point are very fragile and it is difficult for them to be moved.
Than she thinks that I will back off. And allow myself to be manipulated into not doing anything. Under the fear that she will try to ban me from seeing my mother.
I will not be threatened by anyone. All anyone has to do is ask Riverview or the PGT. I will not back down once I am threatened, as I have now been.
So I have been writing out my complaint. I have already contacted this agency this morning. And someone will be contacting me tomorrow.
Other than that, mom is doing well. She ate allot for dinner this evening. I did get her into bed right after dinner. OK one of the care aids put her into bed right away. And than came back latter to change her.
I have been putting mom to bed for two years now. And never an incident. Until this impatient and rude care aid was on and distracted me. On top of this I have been caring for my parents and grandfather for over 12 years.
I love the fact that mom is so happy to see me when I arrive and all she wants to do is hold my hand.
I love my mother and yes, I have a very good education. But I have made a decision that looking after my mother is more important than money or anything.
I need to go now. I wasn't even going to write this evening, but I thought I should, considering I haven't written for a few days.
Sorry everyone
GOD bless and goodnight
Kris Schmuland
I have not written in the last few days as I have been writing a letter of complaint to the Patient Care Quality Office of the Fraser Health department.
This women Sherri has pushed me over the top and I will now take action. I am done dealing with these individuals.
Lack of respect, doesn't listen to anything anyone, I mean me, says. When I make a decision, she will go behind my back and call my sisters, for their decision.
Lack of respect for the law. The law states that the person who makes the health care decisions is the one who is their. And that is myself.
This women had all day today, to call me, but chose to do so when I was traveling and most likely not be able to hear the phone. I called her back and she was making up stores on what happened. She got the date wrong, and she was telling me mom was hurt. I quickly corrected her and told her mom was not injured, that she fell on me and I am the one who was injured. And by the way, my foot is killing me. The cut just stopped bleeding today. I was going to go and get stitches if it didn't stop bleeding today. My leg hurts like crazy.
Maybe I should contact a lawyer and sue. I know Fraser Health will settle quickly.
I simply asked her is she was their. No response. She barked orders at me. Not even willing to discuss anything. I told her that mom is not going to be sitting in her chair for an hour while someone decides to put her into the bed.
I don't even care if they change her, right away, but she is to be put into bed immediately after dinner. As I do with her.
Mom wants her spa treatment and I need to be on a bus at a certain time to get home before midnight.
And of course this bitch doesn't care.
She makes threats. As in: If you want to continue to be part of your mom's health care! Or if you don't like the way I do things, Move your mom. Knowing full well that seniors at this point are very fragile and it is difficult for them to be moved.
Than she thinks that I will back off. And allow myself to be manipulated into not doing anything. Under the fear that she will try to ban me from seeing my mother.
I will not be threatened by anyone. All anyone has to do is ask Riverview or the PGT. I will not back down once I am threatened, as I have now been.
So I have been writing out my complaint. I have already contacted this agency this morning. And someone will be contacting me tomorrow.
Other than that, mom is doing well. She ate allot for dinner this evening. I did get her into bed right after dinner. OK one of the care aids put her into bed right away. And than came back latter to change her.
I have been putting mom to bed for two years now. And never an incident. Until this impatient and rude care aid was on and distracted me. On top of this I have been caring for my parents and grandfather for over 12 years.
I love the fact that mom is so happy to see me when I arrive and all she wants to do is hold my hand.
I love my mother and yes, I have a very good education. But I have made a decision that looking after my mother is more important than money or anything.
I need to go now. I wasn't even going to write this evening, but I thought I should, considering I haven't written for a few days.
Sorry everyone
GOD bless and goodnight
Kris Schmuland
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