Friday, October 5, 2012

Need to

Hello again

So we know I have been dealing with the roommate issue with mom. That I spoke with the manager a few weeks ago. And she said she would do something about it.

Well nothing has been done and mom is getting more and more tired each and everyday. This is now affecting her health. Mom is not eating much of her dinner. She is just not hungry. Mom just wants to go to bed when I get their at 4:30 pm This is not very good for mom's health.

So today I tired to get in touch with the residential care coordinator. Left a message and she never did get back to me this day. I tried a few times and no luck

I get to White Rock and the manager Corina was in. She is the one I spoke with a few weeks ago. Now I bring this up again and she has the nerve to ask me if I am sure it is the roommate issue, not her disease. She then started with an attitude. I put a stop to this.

I am the one who spends time with her. I know my mother better than anyone their and as a matter of fact. I know mom better than anyone. Including anyone in my family. How could they know anything about mom, when all they do is spend an hour a week with her. And don't do anything else to make sure mom is healthy and happy.

No they spend their time, writing negative things about me on twitter and facebook. I get tweets from followers telling me about them.

I don't have the time, nor the inclination to even bother wasting my time reading them, watching them or anything.

This just proves my previous statements about how my family are just idiots. And they care more about writing these comments about me, than actually doing something to help my mother out.

There is the issue of the roommate, the fact that they leave mom in soiled diapers for hours and hours. And there are so many other things that mom needs.

But, again this side of the family has no idea what mom's disease is like and what she goes through on a day to day basis'. No, lets just make things up about the only person who actually cares about her, And lets just try to ruin his reputation.

Not going to work. People see what you are.

I forgive you family. You know not what you do.

And Judge not lest you be judged. KARMA and GOD knows the truth. And I know the truth of exactly what you have done to my parents. How you would not have anything if it were not for them and this is how you treat her. Ignoring her, not doing anything for her. Or even asking me, what mom is like in this disease

That is OK For I do know the truth and so does GOD

GOD bless and good night

Kris Schmuland

Sunday, September 30, 2012

It is unbelievable

Hello again

So I want to start today by saying this. The only people who are stopping mom from getting her photo's of her memories are my two sister's.

The only thing that side of the family can do is complain and bitch about what I write and do for my mother. They complain about money, money and money. Nothing else. Classic narcosis's Only concerned about themselves. As it was evident by their little tantrum the night of the dance.

I am there everyday. And I never see anything brought for my mother. No drinks, snacks, flowers,nothing at all.

There was a picture of someone, who is related to them, it broke, and I fixed it. Of course I would. Now, it is not like I want to keep them for myself.

I have said on numerous occasions, that I would make copies of each photo, copy them to disk and give each of the two sister's copies of everything. The photo's and the disk. But that is not good enough for them. They are simple greedy. Period. Write me you piece of &*^%*(%%)( and complain. I don't rent space for haters and those who only complain and do nothing to help.

Mom is getting skinny, she is not eating enough. Mom does not like the food. I bring her what I can. I will go without groceries to make mom some nice dinners.

I do this all the time. I go without eating and have on many occasions to make sure mom gets her fruit, snacks, cheese she likes and some home cooked meals. Without a problems. My bitch is there is not resources out there for anyone that is going without. Or cannot eat certain foods, as they make them sick. Which is in my case.

No dairy, no products made with flour. So what is left for me to eat. I go to the food bank and all I get is things I cannot eat. Then what. I can't afford to eat raw whole foods. So I go without. I have lost over 70 lbs in the last year and a half as a result of not being able to eat everything that most people can eat. What I am suppose to do.

No answers out there from anyone. I keep trying though. I am not trying to take advantage of my mother, on the contrary, I am here to make sure she is well looked after.  I fight to get her home cooked meals and her snacks. Over and above what I can afford. I will give everything to make sure mom is healthy.

Now here is another thing hat really pisses me off.

Would anyone in the world let a baby sit in soiled diapers all day. No, I don't think so. But the staff at the Al Hogg pavilion will let a senior sit in their diapers for hours on end without a care in the world. This is disgusting. And this is  ABUSE!

I just ask my sisters to help mom out or sign over legal rights to me so I can do what is needed  to make sure mom's rights are upheld, without the hassle of dealing with them.

I have lots of issues with my sisters, but I just want to get mom's photo's and have committee of person for mom. To make sure mom's life is happy and fulfilled.

GOD bless and good night

Kris Schmuland