Hello again
So I walk in and mom is dressed like she is poor. She had allot of nice clothing until, last week. Then we all know what happened.
No more. Monday I go to the police. Tomorrow I write a letter for ..................................... we will not include this right now...
Mom was hungry and she wasn't. She wanted to eat and yet she didn't. It was a little hard tonight. She didn't know herself.
I brought her some cheese pasta and stuffed chicken breast. Plus a slice of chocolate cheese cake. She ate some of each of it. But not everything. A bit of this and a bit of that.
She didn't even eat the entire papaya. Still sick.
She just wanted to go to bed. Very tired. I really hope she gets better soon. She is not even drinking as much as she usually does.
I didn't tell her about Mrs Elliott, yet. I want her to get better first. I will have to tell her. Maybe tomorrow. We will see how she feels.
I will, however make sure mom gets allot of fruit. I have a few different types of cheese as well.
I need to live out their. I need to do as much as I can for mom. She is alone. I travel 6 hours a day. Which I could be using this time to do more for mom.
I made a decision. That I will dedicate my life to GOD in order to help mom. As it is I don't date. Not
fair to whomever I date.
Don't get me wrong, for the strangest reason, I have been getting asked out allot. At least once a month, someone asked me out. Very weird. It is OK makes me feel good
But my main focus is to look after mom. And do everything I can do to make her life as exciting as possible. To take her out.
I feel really guilty about not getting mom to see her friend before Christmas. I brought this up to the PGT and nothing was done.
He even said to me that no one can predict death. But I know when I need to do things. And their importance in the big picture of life. When I feel the need to do something. It is always the right thing to get done. It has an importance.
I have had a gift since I was a child.
But mom is lonely. I can see this. Even though I am there everyday, for 3 or 4 hours each day. And I love every minute of it. I want to do more.
In order for me to do this. I need to be living in White Rock/South Surrey I don't do anything for myself. Well, just the bare minimum. So I can live. I do everything else I can do for mom.
I pray and pray for mom's health and for me to get the help ( financially) to move to White Rock/South Surrey
I will continue to pray and expect goodness to happen.
I am tired and need or want to just watch something. I really don't even know what I even want to watch.
So good night to everyone
GOD bless
Kris Schmuland
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Friday, January 11, 2013
Still sick
Hello again
Mom is still sick, and now many more people,where she lives, are sick as well. Even though I have been saying for three days now mom is sick. But, once again, they don't think I know my mother at all.
Isn't it strange that of all the nurses and aids, that not a one of them, noticed that mom's eating habits changed, that she was very tired. Had the symptoms of the flu.
Even noticing her mood is different.
But now mom is getting better, the other people are now sick, and they have sent samples off to be checked for symptoms of the Norvoflu.
Mom now has a headache, part of this flu. Still not eating much. Not even drinking much. I do have to get more liquid into her. Giving her Ginger ale, soft foods, that are easy for her stomach. Getting her into bed early.
So when I got home and turned on my computer, I received an email from my mothers best friends daughter in law.
Very bad news. Mrs Elliott, passed away this morning. She was a very nice person and mom's best friend for 40 years. It has only been the last 6 years that they have not seen each other due to their illness's. It is a shame.
Before Christmas, I wanted mom to go and see Mrs Elliott. But the PGT would not accommodate the situation. I knew mom needed to see her.
I know things, well in advance. Call it a gift or a curse. I knew mom needed to see her friend before it was to late. And it is.
I am not sure if I should be telling mom about this. She was her friend and mom might want to go to the funeral. I should really let her know. I don't want mom to get to upset, or even think that all her friends are gone and maybe it is time for her to let go.
This is to hard to imagine for me. Mom is healthy. And if it was not for her daughters she would be happier.
This makes it far more important for me to move to White Rock now. To be able to get mom to do more and to enjoy herself.
I will have to pray on this.
I am very sad. She was a nice women.
I am very sad for mom, as well. I don't know how she will react.
There is other things I wanted to write about. But it is all irrelevant now.
I need to be closer to mom. To make her life great.
Pray for me, that something happens that I am able to move to White Rock, into my own place. That the needed finances come to fruition
GOD bless and good night
I pray for Mrs Elliott's sons, daughter in law, and her grandchildren. That they may find peace, that Mrs Elliott is in a better place. Free of pain, troubles. That she is with her family now. Her heavenly family and the loved one's that have gone before her.
Kris Schmuland
Mom is still sick, and now many more people,where she lives, are sick as well. Even though I have been saying for three days now mom is sick. But, once again, they don't think I know my mother at all.
Isn't it strange that of all the nurses and aids, that not a one of them, noticed that mom's eating habits changed, that she was very tired. Had the symptoms of the flu.
Even noticing her mood is different.
But now mom is getting better, the other people are now sick, and they have sent samples off to be checked for symptoms of the Norvoflu.
Mom now has a headache, part of this flu. Still not eating much. Not even drinking much. I do have to get more liquid into her. Giving her Ginger ale, soft foods, that are easy for her stomach. Getting her into bed early.
So when I got home and turned on my computer, I received an email from my mothers best friends daughter in law.
Very bad news. Mrs Elliott, passed away this morning. She was a very nice person and mom's best friend for 40 years. It has only been the last 6 years that they have not seen each other due to their illness's. It is a shame.
Before Christmas, I wanted mom to go and see Mrs Elliott. But the PGT would not accommodate the situation. I knew mom needed to see her.
I know things, well in advance. Call it a gift or a curse. I knew mom needed to see her friend before it was to late. And it is.
I am not sure if I should be telling mom about this. She was her friend and mom might want to go to the funeral. I should really let her know. I don't want mom to get to upset, or even think that all her friends are gone and maybe it is time for her to let go.
This is to hard to imagine for me. Mom is healthy. And if it was not for her daughters she would be happier.
This makes it far more important for me to move to White Rock now. To be able to get mom to do more and to enjoy herself.
I will have to pray on this.
I am very sad. She was a nice women.
I am very sad for mom, as well. I don't know how she will react.
There is other things I wanted to write about. But it is all irrelevant now.
I need to be closer to mom. To make her life great.
Pray for me, that something happens that I am able to move to White Rock, into my own place. That the needed finances come to fruition
GOD bless and good night
I pray for Mrs Elliott's sons, daughter in law, and her grandchildren. That they may find peace, that Mrs Elliott is in a better place. Free of pain, troubles. That she is with her family now. Her heavenly family and the loved one's that have gone before her.
Kris Schmuland
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Why Oh Why
Hello again
I am still very upset that these two grown women would do this to their mother. WHY Mom can't fight back, or even argue with them.
My parents did everything for them and more. Because of them, my parents both suffered financially and they suffered with their health.
They were moved to a farm, in the middle of nowhere, They could not even walk anywhere. They were robbed of their Independence. Of their dignity and respect. Left to rot in the basement of this farm. Without even a kitchen to make something. Or even a closet in the bedroom.
And after my parents doing everything for them. They come and take mom's nice belongings and leave her with older clothing. I should know, I bought everything for her. Knowing they were not to do so.
Karma will get them. Trust me I know.
Mom and I have about the same amount of time left on this planet. Give or take a few years either way for each of us. This is why I don't date. No point.
I believe in Karma, and I believe in God's punishment. "Vengeance is mine saith the Lord"
Now we have management of Al Hogg 3 who don't even care what anyone says to them. People are afraid to complain, as their loved one's care may suffer. ( I am only going by what I hear)
You ask and ask, and all one gets is lame excuses. They refuse to respect the law or any decision the main health care decision maker, makes.
Mom's health is being affected, by the lack of proper sleep. She sits in soiled diapers for hours. I say from the start, not to give mom's daughters any of mom's belongings. They still have not returned my call.
Now tonight mom was not very hungry. I believe she is sick with the flu. She hardly touched her dinner or did not even eat the papaya. OK, mom only likes the Red Papaya, not the Yellow Papaya. And she didn't even want to eat the avocado. I tried to get mom to drink, and this was even hard to do.
She motioned to have her spa treatment, as soon as I arrived. And was getting angry that I did not take her to her room, right away and put her into bed. To the point where she took a swing at me. I was not quick enough. I got the punch right in the mouth and nose. She was made. I still tried to get her to eat some more and drink some more.
I finally gave up and just took her to bed. And gave her the spa treatment. She was very tired and wanted to sleep. I covered her up. And made sure she was warm. I sang our good night song and said good night.
I made sure I gave her a big hug and kiss, before I left.
Off I went.
I don't know when I will be able to replace the Bio Therm products. Hopefully soon. As I am almost out of the samples I had at home.
The only good thing, if you can call it a good thing, is that at the drug store. They have a Bio Therem club card. When the card is fully stamped, you get $50.00 off your next purchase of Bio Therm products. Plus another card that is almost half way stamped. 10 stamps gets one the $50.00 off
It was and is pouring rain out today and night. Plus it is very cold out. I had layers upon layers on today. Yet I was still very cold I am always cold these days.
So it is 11:05 pm and I am going to try to get to sleep before 1 am. I just have two shows to watch I downloaded.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
I am still very upset that these two grown women would do this to their mother. WHY Mom can't fight back, or even argue with them.
My parents did everything for them and more. Because of them, my parents both suffered financially and they suffered with their health.
They were moved to a farm, in the middle of nowhere, They could not even walk anywhere. They were robbed of their Independence. Of their dignity and respect. Left to rot in the basement of this farm. Without even a kitchen to make something. Or even a closet in the bedroom.
And after my parents doing everything for them. They come and take mom's nice belongings and leave her with older clothing. I should know, I bought everything for her. Knowing they were not to do so.
Karma will get them. Trust me I know.
Mom and I have about the same amount of time left on this planet. Give or take a few years either way for each of us. This is why I don't date. No point.
I believe in Karma, and I believe in God's punishment. "Vengeance is mine saith the Lord"
Now we have management of Al Hogg 3 who don't even care what anyone says to them. People are afraid to complain, as their loved one's care may suffer. ( I am only going by what I hear)
You ask and ask, and all one gets is lame excuses. They refuse to respect the law or any decision the main health care decision maker, makes.
Mom's health is being affected, by the lack of proper sleep. She sits in soiled diapers for hours. I say from the start, not to give mom's daughters any of mom's belongings. They still have not returned my call.
Now tonight mom was not very hungry. I believe she is sick with the flu. She hardly touched her dinner or did not even eat the papaya. OK, mom only likes the Red Papaya, not the Yellow Papaya. And she didn't even want to eat the avocado. I tried to get mom to drink, and this was even hard to do.
She motioned to have her spa treatment, as soon as I arrived. And was getting angry that I did not take her to her room, right away and put her into bed. To the point where she took a swing at me. I was not quick enough. I got the punch right in the mouth and nose. She was made. I still tried to get her to eat some more and drink some more.
I finally gave up and just took her to bed. And gave her the spa treatment. She was very tired and wanted to sleep. I covered her up. And made sure she was warm. I sang our good night song and said good night.
I made sure I gave her a big hug and kiss, before I left.
Off I went.
I don't know when I will be able to replace the Bio Therm products. Hopefully soon. As I am almost out of the samples I had at home.
The only good thing, if you can call it a good thing, is that at the drug store. They have a Bio Therem club card. When the card is fully stamped, you get $50.00 off your next purchase of Bio Therm products. Plus another card that is almost half way stamped. 10 stamps gets one the $50.00 off
It was and is pouring rain out today and night. Plus it is very cold out. I had layers upon layers on today. Yet I was still very cold I am always cold these days.
So it is 11:05 pm and I am going to try to get to sleep before 1 am. I just have two shows to watch I downloaded.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
To be
Hello again
Tonight mom was really tired. She was leaning to one side. This is a sign of her being tired. I brought her some stir fry, but mom did not even like it. It is OK. We all don't like everything. But her dinner was decent. BBQ chicken, mashed potatoes and squash. She did eat allot of her dinner. And of course a avocado.
As soon as I arrived, mom was motioning for me to give her the nightly spa treatment. She runs her hand over my face. I just said we have to eat a little bit. Eat as much as you can. But I know you will eat the papaya. And of course she did. She ate as much as she could, and the papaya. Off we went and into bed she went. What I do say is that mom was sitting in her soiled diapers for who knows how long.
And, while waiting for mom to get changed. I held her hand and she fell asleep. Only to be awoken when the staff came into change her. Afterwards mom was wide awake. Being woken up from sleep to be tossed around.
I sang our good night song, talked to her for a little bit, and just held her hand while she fell asleep again.
Mom is healthy, and somewhat happy. As happy as one can be, being stuck in a wheelchair and completely dependent on everyone for everything. This is why I do what I can for her. And I will do even more. As I can.
Now all I want to do is look after mom. Make sure is gets treated well. Gets lots of nutritious meals, fruits and is happy.
12:00 am and it is time to go and watch some TV that I downloaded tonight
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Tonight mom was really tired. She was leaning to one side. This is a sign of her being tired. I brought her some stir fry, but mom did not even like it. It is OK. We all don't like everything. But her dinner was decent. BBQ chicken, mashed potatoes and squash. She did eat allot of her dinner. And of course a avocado.
As soon as I arrived, mom was motioning for me to give her the nightly spa treatment. She runs her hand over my face. I just said we have to eat a little bit. Eat as much as you can. But I know you will eat the papaya. And of course she did. She ate as much as she could, and the papaya. Off we went and into bed she went. What I do say is that mom was sitting in her soiled diapers for who knows how long.
And, while waiting for mom to get changed. I held her hand and she fell asleep. Only to be awoken when the staff came into change her. Afterwards mom was wide awake. Being woken up from sleep to be tossed around.
I sang our good night song, talked to her for a little bit, and just held her hand while she fell asleep again.
Mom is healthy, and somewhat happy. As happy as one can be, being stuck in a wheelchair and completely dependent on everyone for everything. This is why I do what I can for her. And I will do even more. As I can.
Now all I want to do is look after mom. Make sure is gets treated well. Gets lots of nutritious meals, fruits and is happy.
12:00 am and it is time to go and watch some TV that I downloaded tonight
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Sunday, January 6, 2013
Freezing rain
Hello again
So I should start by saying that I should not of used the word stole from mom. Instead I will use the word misappropriate the clothing of mom's with a value of over $500.00 Knowing full well they were not to take it. And the staff of Al Hogg knowing, and were given instructions not to give anything to them. This is the second time they have done this. And they were not the one who purchased the clothing The first time they took at least $500.00 worth as well. And some were mine as well.
I don't just walk into a store and purchase something for mom. I look around and always buy on sale. I, for an example, will get her a $80.00 pair of pants for $30.00 or a $60.00 shirt for $25.00 Not a $30.00 shirt for $20.00 I purchase quality over quantity ever time.
Mom and dad clothed them when they were well, and now I am doing it. Come on I am the one with the least of any of them. And yet I find a way to make sure mom dresses well. I do, have to go without, that is OK. I would rather mom look good, which makes her feel good.
I said to them, through my blog, that next time I would be going to the police and doing whatever I can to make sure they are charged with theft. I will not back down, and will not tolerate this kind of action by anyone. And I will no tolerate threats by any staff member at Al Hogg. I will be going to the police. And if I can I will have a no contact order put in place against them and all the members of their family.
They are useless. It is not them who wipes mom's nose when it is running, feeds her or even loves her. Gives her a big hug when she is down. Or holds her hand while she falls asleep because she wants me too.
And her son in law writing me and telling me that they don't do these things. Here we are, they misappropriating mom's belongings again.
Then to not show up during Christmas, only to come on January 2 and misappropriate mom's belongings. Disgusting!
Tonight mom ate more of the salad I made for her. A very large bowl. It is the weekend and mom does not usually eat much, but she has and this is a very good thing. But tomorrow I will just make a stry fry for her.
Mom was crying Christmas day, because her family would not even show up. Mom has Dementia and lung cancer and has had a stoke. This is how they treat her. Mom was made the day they misappropriated her belongings. Of course she was. She couldn't say no or do anything about it.
This is what they are. They have no part of mom's life except to take and take from her. That is all they have ever done. And continue to do.
As I have said, I will not tolerate anymore abuse of my mother.
It is only 10:43 pm and I am finished for the night. Well at least writing this blog. I have other things I need to do on the computer before I go to bed
GOD bless and goodnight.
Kris Schmuland
I do not lie or exaggerate anything that is written. I only speak the truth, from my perspective and opinion.
So I should start by saying that I should not of used the word stole from mom. Instead I will use the word misappropriate the clothing of mom's with a value of over $500.00 Knowing full well they were not to take it. And the staff of Al Hogg knowing, and were given instructions not to give anything to them. This is the second time they have done this. And they were not the one who purchased the clothing The first time they took at least $500.00 worth as well. And some were mine as well.
I don't just walk into a store and purchase something for mom. I look around and always buy on sale. I, for an example, will get her a $80.00 pair of pants for $30.00 or a $60.00 shirt for $25.00 Not a $30.00 shirt for $20.00 I purchase quality over quantity ever time.
Mom and dad clothed them when they were well, and now I am doing it. Come on I am the one with the least of any of them. And yet I find a way to make sure mom dresses well. I do, have to go without, that is OK. I would rather mom look good, which makes her feel good.
I said to them, through my blog, that next time I would be going to the police and doing whatever I can to make sure they are charged with theft. I will not back down, and will not tolerate this kind of action by anyone. And I will no tolerate threats by any staff member at Al Hogg. I will be going to the police. And if I can I will have a no contact order put in place against them and all the members of their family.
They are useless. It is not them who wipes mom's nose when it is running, feeds her or even loves her. Gives her a big hug when she is down. Or holds her hand while she falls asleep because she wants me too.
And her son in law writing me and telling me that they don't do these things. Here we are, they misappropriating mom's belongings again.
Then to not show up during Christmas, only to come on January 2 and misappropriate mom's belongings. Disgusting!
Tonight mom ate more of the salad I made for her. A very large bowl. It is the weekend and mom does not usually eat much, but she has and this is a very good thing. But tomorrow I will just make a stry fry for her.
Mom was crying Christmas day, because her family would not even show up. Mom has Dementia and lung cancer and has had a stoke. This is how they treat her. Mom was made the day they misappropriated her belongings. Of course she was. She couldn't say no or do anything about it.
This is what they are. They have no part of mom's life except to take and take from her. That is all they have ever done. And continue to do.
As I have said, I will not tolerate anymore abuse of my mother.
It is only 10:43 pm and I am finished for the night. Well at least writing this blog. I have other things I need to do on the computer before I go to bed
GOD bless and goodnight.
Kris Schmuland
I do not lie or exaggerate anything that is written. I only speak the truth, from my perspective and opinion.
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