Hello again
Well I know more about seniors abuse and Alzheimer's than I thought I did. I guess after doing this and researching this for over 10 years I guess I must know something.
I say this, as on the bus today, a women has a friend who they are helping and she was asking me question after question and I was able to answer all of her questions.
Because of the bus I arrived a few minutes late. But it was OK. I had a beautiful salad for mom. The one she loves me to make for her and she ate it all. A huge plate of it. She will have to eat allot of it. As I have no place to store anything. The roommate stealing my and my mother's groceries. And yes it is still happening and the landlord is doing nothing about it. So I can't have anything that is perishable for myself or mom.
Basically, I don't eat or eat crap. I can't afford to eat out at these fast food places.
So mom was full. But this is also to do with the fact mom has been constipated for days now. They gave mom something, but it is not helping. Her stomach is hard and I am hoping the salad will help her out. Roughage.
I am getting mom some adjustable leg rests for her chair. Mom legs are stiff and if the seat belt is not on, she will slid right out of her chair. This is for her safety. It is important for mom. So I do this for her. I am hunting down the part.
OK it is midnight and I am tired.
Please pray that I can find a place, It is more important now, than ever. I need to, well you know, you have been reading.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
This is the story of my mother and myself. About dealing with the institution, hospitals, the doctors and the PGT. How my mother feels thinks and what she wants. And how, as a care giver for her. My thoughts and feelings. How this all effects both my mother and myslelf. Searching for dignaty and respect. For legal purposes I have to write this is my opinion
Thursday, October 31, 2013
Monday, October 28, 2013
It would be Monday
Hello again
I have not written in last night, as I downloaded something and went to bed. OK, not exactly to bed, but in my room and watched a few things until I fell asleep.
But Saturday mom had to wait over 1/2 hour to be put into bed. And last night, it was mom's bath day, so she was in bed when I arrived. And tonight, the care aid put mom to bed immediately after dinner. Let us hope this happens on a regular basis's.
Well the nurse who threatened me is leaving. That is one down and one to go. Trust is all it takes and a complaint or a few.
Still not done yet.
At least mom has been eating well, and lots. Mom eats a papaya and avocado everyday. Plus her fruit smoothie and other fresh fruit, if she wants. Kiwi, Mango, Dragon fruit and other exotic fruits as I bring them. This is on top of the dinners I bring her, plus want she eats out of the dinner that is served to her. I make sure mom gets plenty to drink. She has her favorites.
Since the care aid put mom to bed right away. I finished her spa treatment early and then held her hand for almost an hour this evening.
My knee went out again. And the doctor tells me he doesn't know what to do about it, besides physiotherapy. Which I can't afford to go to.
I can't buy groceries, as this asshole keeps taking things and the landlord keeps telling me he is going to get me a small fridge.
Well this week I will be going to file a complaint about this as well. With the Residential Tenancy Branch. I will be seeking funds that I had to spend on eating out, plus funds for moving. If what I own is not safe it is his responsibility I just rent a room and everything else is shared. I expect to have things safe.
People are not really getting it. I am loosing my hearing and can't hear people allot of the time. .
It is time to go again
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
I have not written in last night, as I downloaded something and went to bed. OK, not exactly to bed, but in my room and watched a few things until I fell asleep.
But Saturday mom had to wait over 1/2 hour to be put into bed. And last night, it was mom's bath day, so she was in bed when I arrived. And tonight, the care aid put mom to bed immediately after dinner. Let us hope this happens on a regular basis's.
Well the nurse who threatened me is leaving. That is one down and one to go. Trust is all it takes and a complaint or a few.
Still not done yet.
At least mom has been eating well, and lots. Mom eats a papaya and avocado everyday. Plus her fruit smoothie and other fresh fruit, if she wants. Kiwi, Mango, Dragon fruit and other exotic fruits as I bring them. This is on top of the dinners I bring her, plus want she eats out of the dinner that is served to her. I make sure mom gets plenty to drink. She has her favorites.
Since the care aid put mom to bed right away. I finished her spa treatment early and then held her hand for almost an hour this evening.
My knee went out again. And the doctor tells me he doesn't know what to do about it, besides physiotherapy. Which I can't afford to go to.
I can't buy groceries, as this asshole keeps taking things and the landlord keeps telling me he is going to get me a small fridge.
Well this week I will be going to file a complaint about this as well. With the Residential Tenancy Branch. I will be seeking funds that I had to spend on eating out, plus funds for moving. If what I own is not safe it is his responsibility I just rent a room and everything else is shared. I expect to have things safe.
People are not really getting it. I am loosing my hearing and can't hear people allot of the time. .
It is time to go again
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
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