Hello
I am sorry it took so long to get back. Yesterday, I had allot to say, but I could not put it into words. That is unusual for me. Don't you think.
Anyways. I am upset at the fact on Friday, their was a meeting about my mother and her move to White Rock. I could not attend and my sisters went. I went their, but because of the location, I was unable to get to it. It was up this hill, over a block long. And I am disabled and my hip is shot. It was bad before, now, after the bus incident it is completly done in. I could walk the 3 1/2 klms to and from Riverview hospital. That was over 6 klms, plus the other walking I did. Now, well walking a block feels like my leg is going to break off at my hip. It hurts, greatly, to take the bus. I cannot do the 7 klms walk anymore. I can't sleep. I cannot get comfortable at night. Whether I try to sleep on my right side, left side or on my back. Nothing works. I have a favorite chair, and that was the only chair I could sit at comfortably. But not since July 14, when I was injured on the bus.
ICBC and Translink have not done anything about it. I have received an eviction notice and my phone is cut off. My cable is next. I cannot clean. My room is a mess. My suit is a mess. I hurts to shave, take a shower. I is with great difficulty to cook. And most of the time. I cannot do it. I have no funds period.
I beg to get on the bus to see my mother. I could not get to that meeting on Friday. Which was not handicap friendly. I told the guy I am disabled and walk with a cane. What about that did he not get. I had no say, but my sisters and them, had a good talk. Yea that is because my sister's have no clue what has gone on in the last 2 1/2 years. About my mother being sexually assaulted. Or being constantly being drugged into submission. And how I have asked them not to give the drugs to her. And Riverview telling me that they stopped and to find out that was just a lie. And then me telling them not to give the drugs to her. With me giving them proof that the FDA has give all anti psychotic drugs their strongest warning and that is not to give these drugs to seniors with Alzheimer's and Dementia. But of course they don't give a crap. And then, because I write this and tell it like it is and how I see it. And what I see on a daily basis's that takes place their and what they do to my mother. And how they just ignore the fact that she was assualted and not doing anything about it. And then let us not forget to mention CBC who was going to do a story. Excuse me wanted to do a story on this and then saying., well your mother is going to be moved. So there is no story. But mom was not moved and she still, after months, the same as she was before this happened. She has never fallen asleep while I visit with her. Like she used to before being assualted. And what about that.
Then the have the nerve to threaten me with a law suit for writing the truth. As I see it and have seen it. Buy it is Ok about the law suit. I will not stop writing this until they meet my demands. Which they already know about what I need to make me stop. And now. mom is to move to White Rock, Come on now. I have to meet with these people this comming week. As Jake, from Riverview states. I have said with not a doupt. That I don't want my mother to move to White Rock and I want her around her. As I live right her and visit her daily. Now for me to see her daily in White Rock it will take 4 hours their and back. But I will still go, I will not let my mother. down.
I started this company. Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coaliton out of a need and out of what my mother is going through. I was starting to do Ok and then the bus injury. I call ICBC and call. And I call Translink. and they just keep giving me the run around. As if I mad this stuff up. I hurt and I want to take care of business.
I have no phone and no phone means no business and no business means no money. And no money means no home, no food, no bills, no bus pass and it leaves me having to beg for a ride on the bus to see mom everyday. I except the generosity of the drivers, but I fell like it is stealing. And I feel guilty.
Now, having an eviction notice. I don't know what to do. I do know I am going to continue to fight for my mother's rights. And to continue to see her everyday. Even if I have to beg for a ride everyday. And the PGT telling me I will not get any help to go see mom in White Rock.
Mom relies on me to be their everyday. She expects it. And I need my mommy. Yes I said mommy. I love my mother to death and would do anything and everything for her. And I do allot, but not as much as I should. And I do feel really guilty about that. Yes I am depressed, but get off my depressed ass and do what I should be doing for the one who raiesed me. Raised me with manners, respect for women. chivalry as well as being descendent . As well as to love one another. Moral values.
Now my mother is the most important person in my life. Well my mother is the only person in my life. Again I have no friends. As I menitoned before I had friends when I went to the church, I use to attend. But since not going their anymore. No more friends, and all the other people who called me a friend, just don't talk to me anymore. They do not get what I am about anymore and what I am doing for my mother. And what I am trying to do with my blog and company.
I no longer seek the things of the past. I seek justice for those who cannot defend themselves. Those who are being abused on a regular basis's and chemically and psychically restrained. To the point of being like zombies. Not knowing who or where they are.
After all they are only our parent, husbands, wives, grandparents,brothers, sisters, friends, and uncles and aunts. They are just the individuals who built this country. Made us better off in life. Gave us all we have so we don't have to go and fight to defend the world against a insane man.Who wanted to kill certain races. Allowed us the opportunities to become who and what we want to be. Period. To get an education or not. To build business, and expand our horizons.
We warehouse them, keep them out of sight and out of mind. None of you realize that all of the baby boomers are getting to that age. And 40% or more of you are going to develop some sort of Alzheimer's and Dementia. Which will lead to either some of your loved one's will look after you.And try to get the best care for you as possible. And if you read my blog on a regular basis is not in the homes or institutions. It is not in drugging them to the point of not knowing who they are. This is the reason that the Alzheimer's and Dementia victums are mindless. If you take a Alternative approach to this desease. We can have our loved one's, stay with clarity for much longer, or even until they pass away, of natural causes. Not the one's that the anti psychotgic drugs mimic. Infections, strokes and heart attacks. 70% to 90% of all deaths related to Alzheimer's and Dementia victims are directly related to the anti-psychotic medication they are given.
These drugs are the killers of our loved one's. Not the disease its self. With the proper treatment, our loved one's can live many years beyond what they are now. And live a productive life. Enjoying themselves and knowing themselves. And their family.
It amazes me that all the cures for all the diseases on this planet now and in the future are on this planet. I believe GOD provided this for us. It is not in the drugs we create, but in the earth and of the earth. As we are. You do know I am a christian and that is all that is too it. And I make no bones about it. But I never puss it on anyone. But in this case, All is here, given to us freely. We just have to stop looking else where and look to the planet for all our sickness's and diseases. This is my opinion! After all who am I. I have just been studying these diseases for 7 or more years now.
I digress. It is time to say good night. I could go on and on. But I need something for tomorrow.
GOD Bless and goodnight
Kris Schmuland
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Friday, August 5, 2011
More today
Hello
I am to go to this meeting today. And I get to where the person tells me to go and to my surprise it is up on a hill with along curvy driveway.
Not handicap friendly at all. I told this guy I a disabled and walk with a cane. I had no way of getting up their. As it is I can't even walk up a flight of stairs, let alone 200 feet of a curvy road. Or this long set of stairs. I am completely upset at this. How, society treats someone who has problems, disabilities. I have no choice but to use a can. And walking is difficult enough, without having to put up with this kind of attitude. So I have to miss an important meeting because I could not get their.
Mom was completely dehydrated again. Once again mom drank two bottles of water and her whole bottle of juice. She can not continue with this.
Back in a bit
Kris Schmuland
I am to go to this meeting today. And I get to where the person tells me to go and to my surprise it is up on a hill with along curvy driveway.
Not handicap friendly at all. I told this guy I a disabled and walk with a cane. I had no way of getting up their. As it is I can't even walk up a flight of stairs, let alone 200 feet of a curvy road. Or this long set of stairs. I am completely upset at this. How, society treats someone who has problems, disabilities. I have no choice but to use a can. And walking is difficult enough, without having to put up with this kind of attitude. So I have to miss an important meeting because I could not get their.
Mom was completely dehydrated again. Once again mom drank two bottles of water and her whole bottle of juice. She can not continue with this.
Back in a bit
Kris Schmuland
Pissed off is not the word
Hello
Today I am extremely depressed. I wonder why? Well let me tell you. I have nothing and nobody. I started a business to help my mother and others. I am going along starting to make money, over and above, just making it. These last months have been good. Excuse me before this last month, where I had to cancel appointments which would of made me some good money. And I have nobody in this world to help me or to talk to. Period.
And the worst thing is mom is being abused, and dehydrated. Today again, I had to get a cold cloth and wipe her head. Then again mom drank 2 bottles of water and her juice. The last one I had. And now I have no money to buy her more. She ate all the fruit I had and the rest of her chocolate. Now for tomorrow I have nothing for her. I have an appointment to discuss her move. And I have no way of getting their.I hurt to much to walk and the bus drivers are getting pissed off at me.
I have to be their and I guess I will just walk. Anyways mom and I are needing help. I pray all the time for help. And nothing. Not even enough for fruit and drinks for mom. Come on now. I don't care about me, but mom does not need to suffer like this. I am use to going without everything. But not mom, I have made sure she has everything she needs all the time.
Every night I wash her face, hands and feet. I then put moisturizer on her face and neck and lotion on her legs, feet, arms and hands. Then I brush her hair. I also brush her teeth every night. I do her nails, clean her ears. I sing to her every night. Ok maybe I don't think it sounds good. But mom does. And that is all that matters.
I am also pisses me off that out of everyone in my family, I am the only one that fights for her. Pickets the PGT and argues against the injustice by Riverview. And now, I have to figure out the mom moving to White Rock. How to get their everyday and back. What I am going to say tomorrow. I am upset and mom should of been discharged by now. And the staff, most of the staff are going their as well. Well if the three nurses are going their mom isn't.
If I have to phone everyone to get mom out of their now, I will
I have to let you all go now. I am weak and going down hill fast. I have to try to sleep tonight.
Also if anyone wants to help me out. Please feel free. I do need one of those folding camping chairs this weekend, so I can use it on Monday when I go and picket the PGT.
And my rent is late, all my bills need to be paid. My phone is cut off. I have no money for groceries, or to get mom anything. And the worse part of it, I had all the money and more. But I was injured on a bus and to date I have got nothing from either Transit or ICBC
So GOD Bless and good night.
Kris Schmualand
Today I am extremely depressed. I wonder why? Well let me tell you. I have nothing and nobody. I started a business to help my mother and others. I am going along starting to make money, over and above, just making it. These last months have been good. Excuse me before this last month, where I had to cancel appointments which would of made me some good money. And I have nobody in this world to help me or to talk to. Period.
And the worst thing is mom is being abused, and dehydrated. Today again, I had to get a cold cloth and wipe her head. Then again mom drank 2 bottles of water and her juice. The last one I had. And now I have no money to buy her more. She ate all the fruit I had and the rest of her chocolate. Now for tomorrow I have nothing for her. I have an appointment to discuss her move. And I have no way of getting their.I hurt to much to walk and the bus drivers are getting pissed off at me.
I have to be their and I guess I will just walk. Anyways mom and I are needing help. I pray all the time for help. And nothing. Not even enough for fruit and drinks for mom. Come on now. I don't care about me, but mom does not need to suffer like this. I am use to going without everything. But not mom, I have made sure she has everything she needs all the time.
Every night I wash her face, hands and feet. I then put moisturizer on her face and neck and lotion on her legs, feet, arms and hands. Then I brush her hair. I also brush her teeth every night. I do her nails, clean her ears. I sing to her every night. Ok maybe I don't think it sounds good. But mom does. And that is all that matters.
I am also pisses me off that out of everyone in my family, I am the only one that fights for her. Pickets the PGT and argues against the injustice by Riverview. And now, I have to figure out the mom moving to White Rock. How to get their everyday and back. What I am going to say tomorrow. I am upset and mom should of been discharged by now. And the staff, most of the staff are going their as well. Well if the three nurses are going their mom isn't.
If I have to phone everyone to get mom out of their now, I will
I have to let you all go now. I am weak and going down hill fast. I have to try to sleep tonight.
Also if anyone wants to help me out. Please feel free. I do need one of those folding camping chairs this weekend, so I can use it on Monday when I go and picket the PGT.
And my rent is late, all my bills need to be paid. My phone is cut off. I have no money for groceries, or to get mom anything. And the worse part of it, I had all the money and more. But I was injured on a bus and to date I have got nothing from either Transit or ICBC
So GOD Bless and good night.
Kris Schmualand
Thursday, August 4, 2011
I am now completly pissed off 2
Hello again
I forgot to add something that is really important about tonights visit with mom. And that is the on going abuse my mother is suffering at the hands of the staff of Valleyview.
Tonight when I got their, mom was so hot, I think her internal tempature was out of this world. Her face was burning up. When I asked her she was almost screaming because of how hot she was. The first thing I did was to get a cold cloth and wipe her face with it and then continued to do this througth out our visit.
And during our visit, mom drank a whole bottle of her juice plus a large bottle of water. And even more. This is what I call abuse and what the dictionary definition of abuse is.
Come on now it is hot out and hotter in this place and they don't even give the patients water or cold cloths to keep them cool.
I now understand why so many seniors die in the heat. They are completely dehydrated So if they think I am going to stop writing about them. They are sadly mistaken. As long as this abuse takes place I will never stop.
GOD bless and good night again.
Kris Schmuland.
I forgot to add something that is really important about tonights visit with mom. And that is the on going abuse my mother is suffering at the hands of the staff of Valleyview.
Tonight when I got their, mom was so hot, I think her internal tempature was out of this world. Her face was burning up. When I asked her she was almost screaming because of how hot she was. The first thing I did was to get a cold cloth and wipe her face with it and then continued to do this througth out our visit.
And during our visit, mom drank a whole bottle of her juice plus a large bottle of water. And even more. This is what I call abuse and what the dictionary definition of abuse is.
Come on now it is hot out and hotter in this place and they don't even give the patients water or cold cloths to keep them cool.
I now understand why so many seniors die in the heat. They are completely dehydrated So if they think I am going to stop writing about them. They are sadly mistaken. As long as this abuse takes place I will never stop.
GOD bless and good night again.
Kris Schmuland.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
I am now completly pissed off
Hello
First I would like to start with ICBC. Well nothing yet, my rent is overdue, my phone is cut off and I have a ton of bills. My website hosting site, My business cards, stationary, And most importantly the money I have to pay for some of mom's bills. I am injured and they don't give a crap about it. Is it not the way of ICBC to ingnore the client. And of course the adjuster was nice when in person, but on the phone same old ICBC.
Now for mom, it is like Riverview is trying really hard to kill her. They keep drugging her up, against my wishes. Which is another corporation which does not care about the wishes of the children. And keep doing what they want. Which is abuse unto it's self. So I am stuck. and I am told that most of the staff will be going their. Well if the two bitches of nurses are going their, then mom is not. They are the one's that abuse mom the most. All they do is want to drug her. Instead of trying to figure out what the problem is. Well actually the problem is, mom is voicing her opinion and they could care less. If these nurses are going to Peace Arch. I will have to file a law suit against them as well. For putting mom in danger of being killed. They are just drug pushers. They are the one's who crippled mom and are the one's who don't give a crap about her.
They don't like me, because I speak the truth. As I have done and will continue to do. They only way they can stop me is to take me to court and all that will do is make me a wealthy man.. I will win, because I only speak the truth. And what harm shall come to me if I speak the truth. If I have to indure the crap I have been going through for the last 6 months. Having to visit outside the ward. Not a chance will mom be going their.
And now for the PGT. They tell me that they can not help me to get to White Rock. Here at least if I am broke I can walk. Which I have done in the rain and snow and beating sun. White Rock, it is a 2 or more hour journey to get their and then back. It is a three zone bus pass. But they are going to buy me a car. That is all that is to it. I will picket them, hand out flyer's, get the media involved. I am done playing games with all of these corporations. Riverview, the PGT and maybe Peace Arch. I will find out Friday at 1pm. And because of this accident I am now completely broke. I am talking my way onto the bus and am getting flack about it. And they are getting tired of me asking to be let on for free.
My landlord is bugging me for the rent. I don't blame her. I need my phone to be in touch with mom and free lawyers to file these law suits. And I need it for my business, without a phone, there is no business. I have a list of clients who want representative agreements made and the one's I had to put off. Which, again is, well allot of money for me and www.adsaac.ca As well, and the most important. To get mom out of these places and into a home. Well, I want to devote myself to looking after her. And if I need to do some work for the charity, I can get someone in to look after her.
That is my greatest wish, to look after mom. As I am to do, as her son. I will not allow mom to continue to be in these places. Mom needs to be in a place with me. If and when the time comes, I want mom to pass away in her own bed, at her own home. Looking out into a peaceful beautiful backyard. Over looking the water.
That is all that is to it. I don't care what anyone say's It is my decision, not anyone else. I will do whatever is necessary to make sure mom is safe. And without the crap she is now going through.,
I don't know what to do, and need advice on this. And I need ICBC and Translink to do what is right. Fork over the funds that is needed to pay the bills I have. I need to pay them now. Actually I need to eat. Rice is nice but I cannot live on it. Rice now for two weeks and again tonight. My place is a mess, because it is hard to clean. As it hurts to much.
I do, however have to go, as my hip is really starting to hurt. I cannot sit to long, I cannot stand for too long. I am uncomfortable all the time. I have so much to do and can't do it. And this computer is so old, but it works. Well I took parts from three old computer towers and made this. I found these as well as a monitor. The I got a keyboard and mouse from someone. I got a copy of windows XP from someone and here we are. A pieced together computer. I don't know how long it will last but that is OK. As soon as ICBC and Translink pays up I can get another one.
Anyways
GOD Bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland www.adsaac.ca
First I would like to start with ICBC. Well nothing yet, my rent is overdue, my phone is cut off and I have a ton of bills. My website hosting site, My business cards, stationary, And most importantly the money I have to pay for some of mom's bills. I am injured and they don't give a crap about it. Is it not the way of ICBC to ingnore the client. And of course the adjuster was nice when in person, but on the phone same old ICBC.
Now for mom, it is like Riverview is trying really hard to kill her. They keep drugging her up, against my wishes. Which is another corporation which does not care about the wishes of the children. And keep doing what they want. Which is abuse unto it's self. So I am stuck. and I am told that most of the staff will be going their. Well if the two bitches of nurses are going their, then mom is not. They are the one's that abuse mom the most. All they do is want to drug her. Instead of trying to figure out what the problem is. Well actually the problem is, mom is voicing her opinion and they could care less. If these nurses are going to Peace Arch. I will have to file a law suit against them as well. For putting mom in danger of being killed. They are just drug pushers. They are the one's who crippled mom and are the one's who don't give a crap about her.
They don't like me, because I speak the truth. As I have done and will continue to do. They only way they can stop me is to take me to court and all that will do is make me a wealthy man.. I will win, because I only speak the truth. And what harm shall come to me if I speak the truth. If I have to indure the crap I have been going through for the last 6 months. Having to visit outside the ward. Not a chance will mom be going their.
And now for the PGT. They tell me that they can not help me to get to White Rock. Here at least if I am broke I can walk. Which I have done in the rain and snow and beating sun. White Rock, it is a 2 or more hour journey to get their and then back. It is a three zone bus pass. But they are going to buy me a car. That is all that is to it. I will picket them, hand out flyer's, get the media involved. I am done playing games with all of these corporations. Riverview, the PGT and maybe Peace Arch. I will find out Friday at 1pm. And because of this accident I am now completely broke. I am talking my way onto the bus and am getting flack about it. And they are getting tired of me asking to be let on for free.
My landlord is bugging me for the rent. I don't blame her. I need my phone to be in touch with mom and free lawyers to file these law suits. And I need it for my business, without a phone, there is no business. I have a list of clients who want representative agreements made and the one's I had to put off. Which, again is, well allot of money for me and www.adsaac.ca As well, and the most important. To get mom out of these places and into a home. Well, I want to devote myself to looking after her. And if I need to do some work for the charity, I can get someone in to look after her.
That is my greatest wish, to look after mom. As I am to do, as her son. I will not allow mom to continue to be in these places. Mom needs to be in a place with me. If and when the time comes, I want mom to pass away in her own bed, at her own home. Looking out into a peaceful beautiful backyard. Over looking the water.
That is all that is to it. I don't care what anyone say's It is my decision, not anyone else. I will do whatever is necessary to make sure mom is safe. And without the crap she is now going through.,
I don't know what to do, and need advice on this. And I need ICBC and Translink to do what is right. Fork over the funds that is needed to pay the bills I have. I need to pay them now. Actually I need to eat. Rice is nice but I cannot live on it. Rice now for two weeks and again tonight. My place is a mess, because it is hard to clean. As it hurts to much.
I do, however have to go, as my hip is really starting to hurt. I cannot sit to long, I cannot stand for too long. I am uncomfortable all the time. I have so much to do and can't do it. And this computer is so old, but it works. Well I took parts from three old computer towers and made this. I found these as well as a monitor. The I got a keyboard and mouse from someone. I got a copy of windows XP from someone and here we are. A pieced together computer. I don't know how long it will last but that is OK. As soon as ICBC and Translink pays up I can get another one.
Anyways
GOD Bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland www.adsaac.ca
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
It is hard
Hello everyone and thank you for coming over to here.
It has been very difficult lately. As Valleyview just refuses to stop giving mom the anti psychotic drugs. Mom is like a zombie. And I see it in her. Today mom is looking outside and I could see it in her eyes that she misses just gettting up and going outside for a walk. Fresh air, which we take for granted. To have the sun beat down on your face, feeling its warmth. To feel a gentle breeze. I say all of this in my mother's eyes today.
Could you imagine, not being able to go outside when you wanted too. Or, when you disagree with something and voice your opinion. You are labeled as acting out and then given drugs, not just any drug, but drugs that turn you into a zombie. Or not liking dinner and then being force feed. To the point where they knock your teeth out. Or being stuck in a wheelchair, when you did walk and talk. But because of the constant use of heavy narcotics you can't do anything anymore.
Or having daughters that do not give a rats ass about you and how you are doing. Don't come to visit anymore or come once in a while. And their excuse is that it is too far. A 40 minute drive is too far. Come one now. Or only having one person in your whole family that actually cares about you.
Well this is what my mother goes and lives through everyday. And, well, for the last many months I have not been able to show emotions and lately I can not stop crying. As soon as I see mom I start to cry, As a matter of fact, I feel like crying while writing this. My roommate is just sitting not far away and trying to be a man and not show emotions I am going to hold back the tears and that is just that.
I see so much pain in my mother. I see that she wants to just give up. But she should not do this because of my family. I will be their for her. I will and want to take care of my mother full time. To get her out of these places and just look after her. As it should be. Not to warehouse her. And let Riverview kill her. And then lie about why she died. I have seen it to often. Just like they deighn that mom was sexually assualted and say it never happened or happens. Which by the way, is pure BS. Their was just a news story on this a week ago. It happens and we all know it happens.
I thought I had CBC on my side and that they were going to do a story on this. But this never happened. Even though, mom has not been moved and should be, because of the danger she is in. And the uncomfortable position she is in now. Having to see the individual who did this to her everyday. Come on. The staff do not even take the time to listen to her. And when the police went their a staff member was present and of course mom is not going to say anything. And that is the way it should be. She should only of been interviewed with me present. And with no other person in the room, but myself, mom and the police officer. I do think that the officer did not do his job, Actually I know he did not do his job. I was not present.
I really think it is time to sue Riverview for medical malpractice By knowing that the anti psychotic drugs are dangerous and can kill and that their is the strongest warning the FDA can give. And to continuously give her theses drugs even though I have told them to many times to count. That I do not want mom on these drugs and I have given them pages upon pages of this warning and the side effects of these drugs.
And to sue the Public Guardian and Trustee of BC for gross misuse of my mother's funds. For taking a van away from me and giving it to my sister. With the promise of my sister to take mom out and do this with her. Which never happened as I said it would not. And then spending close to $85,000.00 dollars of my mother's funds on a companion service. Which I would of done without costing anything. And the companion not even visiting mom, even after they were around mom for three or more years. And making $25.00 an hour. For four or five hours a day, six days a week.
I want to do more for mom, but I am also in sever pain from this latest bus incident. And I am out allot of money because of this. I have been working on getting this company going and have been making money. But not enough to do anything with. Just get by. But this last month, with the appointments would of been great. And I have a list of people to phone back. But I can barely walk and am in great pain. Which I never show to my mother. My doctor tells me I cannot work and now because of this, my phone is cut off and I am now late on rent and all my bills. ICBC does not care and neither does Translink. I need money and I need it now. I have not been late on my rent in a long time now and neither with my bills. I really don't know what to do. I need at least $2500. dollars right away.
All because of a bus driver who does not care about his passingers. Oh by the way I have a web site up and running and it is my nonprofit business that I have been working on.
The web address is www.adsaac.ca It is named Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition.
So GOD Bless and good night
Kris
This is
It has been very difficult lately. As Valleyview just refuses to stop giving mom the anti psychotic drugs. Mom is like a zombie. And I see it in her. Today mom is looking outside and I could see it in her eyes that she misses just gettting up and going outside for a walk. Fresh air, which we take for granted. To have the sun beat down on your face, feeling its warmth. To feel a gentle breeze. I say all of this in my mother's eyes today.
Could you imagine, not being able to go outside when you wanted too. Or, when you disagree with something and voice your opinion. You are labeled as acting out and then given drugs, not just any drug, but drugs that turn you into a zombie. Or not liking dinner and then being force feed. To the point where they knock your teeth out. Or being stuck in a wheelchair, when you did walk and talk. But because of the constant use of heavy narcotics you can't do anything anymore.
Or having daughters that do not give a rats ass about you and how you are doing. Don't come to visit anymore or come once in a while. And their excuse is that it is too far. A 40 minute drive is too far. Come one now. Or only having one person in your whole family that actually cares about you.
Well this is what my mother goes and lives through everyday. And, well, for the last many months I have not been able to show emotions and lately I can not stop crying. As soon as I see mom I start to cry, As a matter of fact, I feel like crying while writing this. My roommate is just sitting not far away and trying to be a man and not show emotions I am going to hold back the tears and that is just that.
I see so much pain in my mother. I see that she wants to just give up. But she should not do this because of my family. I will be their for her. I will and want to take care of my mother full time. To get her out of these places and just look after her. As it should be. Not to warehouse her. And let Riverview kill her. And then lie about why she died. I have seen it to often. Just like they deighn that mom was sexually assualted and say it never happened or happens. Which by the way, is pure BS. Their was just a news story on this a week ago. It happens and we all know it happens.
I thought I had CBC on my side and that they were going to do a story on this. But this never happened. Even though, mom has not been moved and should be, because of the danger she is in. And the uncomfortable position she is in now. Having to see the individual who did this to her everyday. Come on. The staff do not even take the time to listen to her. And when the police went their a staff member was present and of course mom is not going to say anything. And that is the way it should be. She should only of been interviewed with me present. And with no other person in the room, but myself, mom and the police officer. I do think that the officer did not do his job, Actually I know he did not do his job. I was not present.
I really think it is time to sue Riverview for medical malpractice By knowing that the anti psychotic drugs are dangerous and can kill and that their is the strongest warning the FDA can give. And to continuously give her theses drugs even though I have told them to many times to count. That I do not want mom on these drugs and I have given them pages upon pages of this warning and the side effects of these drugs.
And to sue the Public Guardian and Trustee of BC for gross misuse of my mother's funds. For taking a van away from me and giving it to my sister. With the promise of my sister to take mom out and do this with her. Which never happened as I said it would not. And then spending close to $85,000.00 dollars of my mother's funds on a companion service. Which I would of done without costing anything. And the companion not even visiting mom, even after they were around mom for three or more years. And making $25.00 an hour. For four or five hours a day, six days a week.
I want to do more for mom, but I am also in sever pain from this latest bus incident. And I am out allot of money because of this. I have been working on getting this company going and have been making money. But not enough to do anything with. Just get by. But this last month, with the appointments would of been great. And I have a list of people to phone back. But I can barely walk and am in great pain. Which I never show to my mother. My doctor tells me I cannot work and now because of this, my phone is cut off and I am now late on rent and all my bills. ICBC does not care and neither does Translink. I need money and I need it now. I have not been late on my rent in a long time now and neither with my bills. I really don't know what to do. I need at least $2500. dollars right away.
All because of a bus driver who does not care about his passingers. Oh by the way I have a web site up and running and it is my nonprofit business that I have been working on.
The web address is www.adsaac.ca It is named Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition.
So GOD Bless and good night
Kris
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