Hello again
It hurts me deeply when I see mom suffering like this. As she is with a roommate whom has no compassion for the other roommate.
Mom eating is getting worse as she becomes more tired, with each passing day.
Her swallowing is getting worse. Her chewing is getting worse. She is pushing food forward with her tung. It is taking her longer to even chew and swallow her papaya.
I didn't even have a chance to speak with the manager. But I don't care. I am passed that. Time and it will be this weekend that I file the complaint. I have everything ready.
But she did get her to eat. It took allot longer than normal. But she managed to finish
So I did, after, give her the nightly spa treatment and sing to her some.
I asked her how she was. If she was Ok and she nodded no. I also here she is sleeping during the day.
Time to get there earlier.
Living out there would help so much.
I am stressed right out now. I am extremely upset. It is all I can think of. I can't sleep. I am very worried.
If this keeps up, I don't know is all I can say.
Not impressed with the attitude of the staff.
I think I will see a lawyer. Or try to anyways. Who can afford one. Not me and not allot of people.
Pray for my mother. Don't worry about me. Just mom.
It is short lately, as I have been, as mentioned to stressed.
I need to go. I have to deal with something that is adding to my stress level.
I am forgetting to eat lately. I have gone days without eating. My mind is to occupied to think of eating.
And I am OK with this.
The blog will get back to normal once I deal with these issues.
GOD Bless and good night
Kristopher Schmuland
Saturday, June 13, 2015
Thursday, June 11, 2015
Still nice outside. But...................
Hello again.
So a few more views and I will have hit 30,000 viewers. Thanks y'all.
Now over this last week mom has not been doing very well. She has not looked good at all. She is sleeping during the day. That is how tired she is. And we all know why. THE ROOMMATE
And of course nothing is being done about it. The manager tells me they have tried plan A, B, C, up to plan F. Well maybe plan Z is the answer. Move her. Get her out of their.
She is non compliant with any suggestions.Not willing to compromise. This should speak volumes to the staff and management. But no!
So when I arrived I was ready to set down my plan. Which is plan Z Get her out of there. No other solution will be acceptable anymore. The manager was not in.
My mothers health is to important. Mom's health has only declined since this women moved in. The social worker should of vetted her. I spoke on this already.
When she is tired, she doesn't chew and swallow well. And mom has never been sick like this week before or has she slept during the day.
This alone speaks volumes unto it's self.
Today she was hungry, I guess so, not eating well for the week.
Other than that. Which is allot. She is OK. Fell asleep right after the nightly spa treatment.
GOD bless and good night.
Kristopher Schmuland
So a few more views and I will have hit 30,000 viewers. Thanks y'all.
Now over this last week mom has not been doing very well. She has not looked good at all. She is sleeping during the day. That is how tired she is. And we all know why. THE ROOMMATE
And of course nothing is being done about it. The manager tells me they have tried plan A, B, C, up to plan F. Well maybe plan Z is the answer. Move her. Get her out of their.
She is non compliant with any suggestions.Not willing to compromise. This should speak volumes to the staff and management. But no!
So when I arrived I was ready to set down my plan. Which is plan Z Get her out of there. No other solution will be acceptable anymore. The manager was not in.
My mothers health is to important. Mom's health has only declined since this women moved in. The social worker should of vetted her. I spoke on this already.
When she is tired, she doesn't chew and swallow well. And mom has never been sick like this week before or has she slept during the day.
This alone speaks volumes unto it's self.
Today she was hungry, I guess so, not eating well for the week.
Other than that. Which is allot. She is OK. Fell asleep right after the nightly spa treatment.
GOD bless and good night.
Kristopher Schmuland
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
Mom has been....
Hello again
Over the last few days mom has been getting sick in the mornings. So they are leaving her in bed. Covered up,in these hot days we have been having. They put the items that mom has thrown up on, in the laundry basket. Covered in vomit. They don't even has the class to rinse them off a bit. I say low class. I have other words to describe them, but I won't do that. I am not as low as they are. This behavior causes the clothing to get stained.
Tonight I have to soak a shirt, or it will stain. Maybe it already has stained, as it has sat in the laundry basket all day.
I know what is causing this. They shove the food into mom's mouth, without giving her time to even chew the food. Then mom can't keep up with it and gets sick. When I feed mom, I give her plenty of time to chew and swallow her food. This is what is happening and I am done with it.
It is time to get someone fired. When this happens, they will learn not to mess with me or my mother.
I AM DONE! TIME TO TEACH THEM A LESSON!
And I don't have any problem with doing this..
After she gets sick from there actions, mom is fine for the day
She is all right otherwise.
I give her the spa treatment and she is very happy. She goes to sleep with a smile on her face.
There is so much going on in my life. I am loosing it. Not actually loosing it. But stressed.
I absolutely hate living here Period.
Done
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Over the last few days mom has been getting sick in the mornings. So they are leaving her in bed. Covered up,in these hot days we have been having. They put the items that mom has thrown up on, in the laundry basket. Covered in vomit. They don't even has the class to rinse them off a bit. I say low class. I have other words to describe them, but I won't do that. I am not as low as they are. This behavior causes the clothing to get stained.
Tonight I have to soak a shirt, or it will stain. Maybe it already has stained, as it has sat in the laundry basket all day.
I know what is causing this. They shove the food into mom's mouth, without giving her time to even chew the food. Then mom can't keep up with it and gets sick. When I feed mom, I give her plenty of time to chew and swallow her food. This is what is happening and I am done with it.
It is time to get someone fired. When this happens, they will learn not to mess with me or my mother.
I AM DONE! TIME TO TEACH THEM A LESSON!
And I don't have any problem with doing this..
After she gets sick from there actions, mom is fine for the day
She is all right otherwise.
I give her the spa treatment and she is very happy. She goes to sleep with a smile on her face.
There is so much going on in my life. I am loosing it. Not actually loosing it. But stressed.
I absolutely hate living here Period.
Done
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Monday, June 8, 2015
Negative effect
Hello again
I just had and experience that writing this blog had a negative affect on my life. Yes I am out there and it is easy to look me up. This fact alone, damage a budding relationship.
I won't apologize for this blog. It is real and that is the way I wanted it to be. No stepping on egg shells. The real thing, the real feelings, the real emotions. Exactly what has and is happening. Raw and real.
IT IS RAW AND REAL. I know it has helped people who read it. It tells it like it is in these homes. I don't make this up. In fact I couldn't make this up. To unreal for that.
So I write and it does effect my life. Or I stop writing it and then have this company remove all traces of my online persona.
After this happened this weekend, I thought that I would wait until I hit 30,000 views and then delete this blog. But I have been read by individuals from all over the world. I mean all over. Places I really didn't know existed. Sorry for my ignorance.
This blog does and will continue to have an impact on my life. If I meet someone, they look me up and, well the rest is history.
I am not ashamed of it. It has to be told.
Now mom has been very tired and the TV watching by her roommate, late at night, is taking a toll on mom's health.
Everyday she is tired.
But mom does smile when she see's me. Yesterday, I forgot to kiss mom hello. She was trying, over and over again, to let me know. Then I stopped and read her and realized what I forgot to do. Then she was happy.
Just the little things, like forgetting to kiss her hello, means the world to mom. Just as mom needs me to sing our good night song to her, before she will go to sleep. She waits.
It was bath day yesterday and of course I needed to remove allot of blankets off of her. It is hot out side now. Mom doesn't need to have that many covers on her. Just the same thing. I feed her, than wash her face, arms and legs. Then the daily spa treatment. The same as it was today.
This time, though.While waiting for the care aid to come in, I was sitting with her, holding her hand. Mom was falling asleep and I was as well.
I told mom I will only do her face and arms tonight. She was so tired. I didn't want to keep her up any longer. So that is all I did.
I need to go now,
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
I just had and experience that writing this blog had a negative affect on my life. Yes I am out there and it is easy to look me up. This fact alone, damage a budding relationship.
I won't apologize for this blog. It is real and that is the way I wanted it to be. No stepping on egg shells. The real thing, the real feelings, the real emotions. Exactly what has and is happening. Raw and real.
IT IS RAW AND REAL. I know it has helped people who read it. It tells it like it is in these homes. I don't make this up. In fact I couldn't make this up. To unreal for that.
So I write and it does effect my life. Or I stop writing it and then have this company remove all traces of my online persona.
After this happened this weekend, I thought that I would wait until I hit 30,000 views and then delete this blog. But I have been read by individuals from all over the world. I mean all over. Places I really didn't know existed. Sorry for my ignorance.
This blog does and will continue to have an impact on my life. If I meet someone, they look me up and, well the rest is history.
I am not ashamed of it. It has to be told.
Now mom has been very tired and the TV watching by her roommate, late at night, is taking a toll on mom's health.
Everyday she is tired.
But mom does smile when she see's me. Yesterday, I forgot to kiss mom hello. She was trying, over and over again, to let me know. Then I stopped and read her and realized what I forgot to do. Then she was happy.
Just the little things, like forgetting to kiss her hello, means the world to mom. Just as mom needs me to sing our good night song to her, before she will go to sleep. She waits.
It was bath day yesterday and of course I needed to remove allot of blankets off of her. It is hot out side now. Mom doesn't need to have that many covers on her. Just the same thing. I feed her, than wash her face, arms and legs. Then the daily spa treatment. The same as it was today.
This time, though.While waiting for the care aid to come in, I was sitting with her, holding her hand. Mom was falling asleep and I was as well.
I told mom I will only do her face and arms tonight. She was so tired. I didn't want to keep her up any longer. So that is all I did.
I need to go now,
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
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