Hello again
So tonight mom had to wait from 6:00 pm until after 7:30 pm to get changed for bed. Their is no consistency with them. The last few nights mom was taken to bed, immediately after dinner. One staff says this and the other says they want me to do things this way. And on top of this, the nurse that threatened me, was working tonight. So one of their employee's can make threats against someone and no disciplinary action is taken against them. But they can continue to make threats against me.
Their was a letter tacked to the board in mom's room for me. And the opening sentence states " If you want to...." A threat. And this is what they do. They tell me if I don't do exactly what they say they are going to stop me from seeing my mother. This is a regular thing with them.
It is because I am male and they are use to dealing with female children and they must not say anything. Just listen to everything these people say.
Not going to happen, mom has rights, I have rights and no one is going to continue to make threats against me and try to stop me from seeing mom. That is abuse and what they continue to do is harassment. As well as sexual harassment. They seem to have a serious problem with me because I am male. Every one of them seem to have a problem with me. But I only have a problem with the fact that I had mom up and walking last December. Mom was being taken to the toilet at Oceanside. Mom was able to move around by herself at Oceanside. But not here.
The social worker lies to me all the time. Tells me that they only have one staff member for 50 people. Crap, she stated to lie to me the very first time I met her. Telling me that they don't deal with the comfort funds. That I would have to contact the cashier myself. After contacting the cashier and finding out this was a lie. That if I want to access the comfort funds I need to speak with the social worker.
And it was she who told me that they don't deal with this.
Now every time, I disagree with what they say, they tell me that if I don't do what they say, they will stop me from seeing mom. Threats, and more threats. But when I say I don't want mom to be taking anymore Tylenol. They refuse to listen and keep giving it to her. And when I say I want her to be able to move around on her own. Nothing. They don't listen to anyone. But they tell me that they are their to work with the family members. Again another lie.
Which is something they are good at.
So now my rent is paid for White Rock and I have nothing for the new place. I don't have money for rent where I am at now. I have no way of getting my belonging their.
The truth be told, I don't want to go to a place where I have to sleep on the floor and sit on the floor, eat off of nothing, with nothing. My back will give out on me within a few days.
I continue to pray, this is all I can do. There are no good samaritans. This, in today's society, is lacking.
Tomorrow, I will go to the Human rights tribunal office while downtown.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
