Saturday, October 27, 2012

On top of

Hello again

So I brought mom one of the seafood/chicken cannelloni, I added some Feta Cheese and more salsa. I warmed it up when I got their and mom just loved it. She was wanting me to just shovel it in. I had to take it slowly. So she doesn't choke.

Mom ate a very large portion plus some of the dinner that was served by the home.

She then ate a papaya and a 3 piece box of Lindt chocolate

I then got her ready for bed, put the Dianna Krall music on she loves and the nightly spa treatment. I am so glad I was given this opportunity to serve my mother. It is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

I am so lucky and feel so privileged to be able to do this for her. When I think about how GOD has given me this opportunity, I well up and shed tears of joy. When I hug my mother, I well up with tears of joy.

I am the luckiest person on the planet.

This is the best job ever, nothing compares to this. And I don't think of it as a job. It is the only thing I want to do with my life right now. I just want to take care of mom full time. And I have no problem with being able to do this. I want to.

Mom is the most important person in my life.

People tell me to take it easy. Mom can't go anywhere so I go their to help her out.

Just the smile on mom's face everyday, makes all the traveling worth while. And I don't even think about the fact it takes me 3 hours each way. It is a pleasure to do this.

Well I have been having these issues with the landlord. There have been problems and she never even fixed them.

So I find out a few weeks ago, when she started to do the work, that they are selling the house. Let me back up a bit. This women just comes over anytime she wants and just walks in, without any notice. Written notice.

So now all of a sudden she want to do all this work. After a very long time complaining.

Now there was water damage because of a leak in the tub. And it went under the floor and buckled the laminate. Causing mold to develop. This also went into my room. I told her about it, she knew about the water damage, but did nothing about it.

Until now, when the house is being sold. Now she wants to fix the floor in my room. But she is not willing to put me up while the work is going to be done. She tells me it will take two days, but I know it will take at least a week, and I need to sleep somewhere and have my possession secured. But no, So I tell her she can't do this, she can't enter my room.

I spoke to the Residential Tenancy Branch and she has two choices. Put me up for the time it will take to do the renovations or give me two months notice and the second month is free.

The door needed to be changed, but I am only home in the morning and I told her no, she has been breaking the law and harassing me, none stop.

Last night I wrote a letter telling her she could not touch my door, enter my room or anything until I got information from a legal advocate, I gave her the letter this morning before I left and thought that was that.

I got home to find out she broke into my room, changed the door and just snooped around. I called the police, but they tell me this is a Tenancy issue to take it up with them.

Now I wait until Monday and file a complaint with the RTB. She broke into my room, after I gave her the letter stating she could not do this.

She wants to play games, I will play games, now she has had it. I will be calling the city and reporting the illegal basement suite. I will call the health department and complain about the mold. How they never fixed it, just covered it up with new drywall.

I will be writing every thing down about all the laws she violated. I have video's of everything.

But I need to go now. I need to go to bed

GOD bless and good night.

Kris Schmuland

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Eating

Hello again

So the weekend is over. And mom's appetite is back. Over the weekend mom barely ate anything. This is nothing unusual though. I am not sure why, but this has been the pattern for a very long time. No matter what I bring her. So I try not to bring to much over the weekend. But I do try to bring her something home cooked. If I can afford it.

I did get her the stereo, which I am sure I wrote about already. I downloaded all the music from my phone to my computer, then transferred it to a flash drive. Which can be played on this new stereo. As well as a memory card and a few other things.

It is so great when mom laughs with me and smiles. I stay and hold her hand while she falls asleep.

The last two days mom has eaten allot. To the point where she is telling me that she is full. This is not a usual behavior

Mom's roommate is still their and continues to be a disturbance to mom. It is not her fault. But the fault of the home. Not matching mom up correctly.

I have a landlord issue that I have to deal with. Their was water damage from a leak under the tub. The water ran under the floor and wreaked the laminate in the hall way next to the bathroom and then under the floor in my room.

Well the landlord fixed the floor out side the bathroom. And she broke all the laws of the residential tenancy branch. Stating that they are not allowed in without 24 hours written notice. And she just loves to just walk in. Now she wants to get into my room and fix the floor. And wanted to replace the door to my room.

She harassed me from last Thursday, I kept telling her no. She could not go into my room without my permission. She knows the law but, it seems it does not apply to her.

So I spoke with the tenancy branch about the renovation. And well they tell me she has to either put me up in a hotel for the time it takes to renovate my room. As it is a major renovation. To rip up the floor, get rid of the mold. And knowing her, she will want to pant the walls as well. And the second option is for her to give me a two month eviction notice and the second month is free. Two choices only. I could give her a third choice. And that is, give me the cost of the hotel for the week it will take to do this and I will move. But where is the question. May not be a very good option.

So anyway, I need to go to bed now.


Oh yea I am still waiting for all of mom's photo's. Again it is not the fault of the PGT it is my sister's that are stopping me from getting the photo's

I want the photo's to copy them, print them and hang them on mom's wall.

GOD bless and good night

Kris Schmuland

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Heavy

Hello again

First I will state this. I am to busy looking after my mother to even care what other's think about me. It is they who are losers.

And to my family, who I think are behind these rumours on twitter and facebook.

I have all of your phone numbers and addresses. A little Internet searching can get one allot of information. And if it continues I will turn over all to the police.

You see in the light of the recent news stories about bullying. This is what they want to hear.

It is called bullying when you are young and harassment when you are older.

So keep it up. You are being traced and watched. Very carefully. The police just love these things.

And I still have not and will not read anything that is written about me.

And for all that don't know. I am sure you can find it. I chose not to. As stated, I am busy being a care giver to my mother. Without any regret or complaints.

So mom, tonight, was not hungry at all. She didn't even eat the papaya I brought her. And this she will eat over and above anything else.

I was able to pick up the micro stereo for her. And I got a better deal than I even expected. And to my family. I have the receipt and pictures of it.

Now all mom wanted to do, this evening is go to bed and have her spa treatment do for her. She was very tired. After I finished her spa treatment all mom wanted to do was hold my hand and fall asleep. Which is cool with me.

I pulled the chair up, put on my glasses, grabbed the manual for the stereo and held her hand and read the manual until she fell asleep. So I was their until after 8 pm tonight. It is OK with me.

Now I have an absolutely crazy land lord.

She breaks all the landlord tenancy laws. She keeps coming over without any notice. She has been working on things for weeks now, and she is in no hurry to finish. It should of only taken a week, but no.

Now she is harassing me. She tells me she wants to change my bedroom door, and asked me to leave it open. I say no, but she asked me the very next day again. I say no again, she keeps asking. I tell her to leave the door and I will hang it myself. Didn't leave it the one day. So today she on me again to leave the door open. Telling me I don't leave until 2 pm. She is telling me when I leave, now.

I got upset and told her,again, if I am not home, no one is getting access to my room. Period.  Again I say, I will hang the door, that I have hung many a door in my life. So leave it and I will put it on tomorrow/ well today. I was worried all day that she would just break into my room. Yet I worried for not. Yet I wasn't sure if she would actually just do it anyways.

But I arrived home the door is here, but not ready to be hung. This she did on purpose. She wants access to my room and by not having the door ready she can come back in the morning and tell me that they are here and lets get it done.

THE ANSWER IS STILL GOING TO BE NO. Especially now, she is playing games. If she wants to play, lets play.

All I am going to say is NO! I will do it myself. I said have it ready and I will hand it. Well it won't be done today. I will do it when she is not around. And only then.

And if she tries to put it on, I will call the police and have her charged.

She has done nothing but harassed me for days now. And should of been finished everything by now.

So I need to now copy all of the music I took off of my phone and now need to copy to a flash drive.

OK it is 12:43 am and time to go to bed. First a little to eat. I am trying to download the first 5 seasons of the big bang theory. Taking time though.

GOD bless and good night

Kris Schmuland