Hello again
Well I am going to start off with this. KB of the PGT would rather listen to a drug addict than someone who completely devotes themselves to taking care of their mother. Of course I am speaking of my one sister who is a known drug addict. Pot head, but pot is still a drug and clouds your perception of things.
Not to be trusted, a lier and thief etc....... Lives in a home that was paid for by my parents hard earned money. And was to be paid back. But her and her ex husband left my parents sitting at the Notary public for hours. Waiting for them to come in and sign a repayment schedule. But never showed up. Close to $100,000.00 dollars my parents were swindled out of. And then they paid for every single repair plus her mortgage and pad rent. Until they were not able to do it anymore. Plus, plus and plus. There is one things that I should bring up, but I won't sink any lower. Even the bank said they should charge them. But being the beautiful people, my father and mother are, they did not do this. Yet she and the other sister continued to take as much as they could from my parents.
Yes I did get funds from them. My parents would not help me with a home because I was single. But then they offered. But I refused to take the help. I said to them, I have seen what my sisters have done to you and if I can't buy a home on my own, then I will have to just rent. This is what I am doing. I have no home. I can't stand being here. I have to share a place with people who are pigs. I just want to live closer to my mother. To help her more and be there more often. Have her over for lunch or dinner. Whatever it may be. Just to make sure I am there for her.
I took care of my father, when he was alive and now I take care of my mother. I travel hours each day and I don't get anything for doing it. It is done out of love of my parents. To honour your mother and father. To do for them, what they did for you. They took care of me, they allowed me to develop my intelligence and creative side, as well.
I have no problem doing this for my mother. But KB of the PGT and the pot head are trying to take away what mom looks forward to each day.
Mom's spa treatment.
I am poor, so the funds for mom's cosmetics come from her account. And are used each and everyday. 7 days a week. Mom gets washed and then lotion on her legs and arms. A foot massage. Then I wash her face and apply different lotion to her face. Lotion to help her look younger. And this works. Then mom gets a neck and shoulder massage. Everyday, without fail. Everyone tells me she has such beautiful skin. That she looks allot younger than she is.
I have written KB of the PGT many times. With a simple question. Yet no reply. KB's typical way of doing this it to reply to me at the end of Friday. 4:30 pm. This way I don't have a chance to write her back.
Not going to happen this time.
GOD bless and good night.
Kristopher Schmuland
This is the story of my mother and myself. About dealing with the institution, hospitals, the doctors and the PGT. How my mother feels thinks and what she wants. And how, as a care giver for her. My thoughts and feelings. How this all effects both my mother and myslelf. Searching for dignaty and respect. For legal purposes I have to write this is my opinion
Thursday, November 26, 2015
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
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Hello again
I have not been writing as the Internet in the house is not working properly. I was on the phone, this morning, for over an hour, to find out a technician needs to come out.
So here I am, many days later. On Friday I was called and informed that the OT and Dietitian was coming out to see mom that day. And I needed to get there early. I packed up quickly and out the door I went to arrive before 4 pm. I just got there and they were there just within 10 minutes of me getting there. It is lucky I had dinner for mom. So we started.
It was actually a good visit or observation that day. They never told me I needed to remove anything from mom's diet. On the contrary, they mentioned, it is not about removing things from mom's diet, it is about making the food suitable for mom. Using a blender to bring the food to a level that mom can eat. This way I can add more and more to mom's diet. A good thing. They didn't have a problem with the smoothie consistency.
Mom ate very well. Of course it was her favorite salad. The second day though. So mom did not eat as much as Thursday, but allot.
Mom has been well, A little tired as of late. Saturday was bath day, so mom is in bed already when I arrive. I put on a movie for us to watch. Cinderella 2015 mom enjoyed it, as did I. But Sunday, mom was asleep when I arrived, so I got help to put her to bed, before dinner and fed her in bed. She did the sleep eating, as I like to describe it. She keeps her eyes closed and allows me to feed her. And she ate.
Today she seems to have a bit of a cold. It doesn't help that they dressed her in a short sleeve shirt. It is cold out, come on now.
But mom ate. And only wanted part of her spa treatment done.
Now the PGT has not replied to any of my emails. And I can't seem to print anything out, from online. Which I need to do. To fill out this form and send it off. I guess I will have to go down to the office again. If they don't answer my emails I will continue to just go the office. I just don't care.
I will stop them as well as my mother's daughters from doing anything that will interfere with mom's health and happiness. What ever it takes.
Now I need to go as last weekend I was in another accident and I have a cracked sternum and a cracked rib, plus something is wrong with my right shoulder and right leg. I feel pain differently than most people. Something I have tired, over and over again, to get my doctor to understand. But he doesn't. I have had stitches with no freezing, I go to the dentist and have work done without freezing. I cut myself all the time and it is not until I see blood that I realize I have cut myself. As far as I can remember, it has been this way. So when I feel pain it is serious.
Well anyways, typing is actually hurting me. Even though I have the keyboard tucked right up to me. My arm is going numb.
So I will let you go for now.
I don't even know if I can post this right away. I certainly haven't been able to send an email tonight or last night. I can't even download any of the shows I like to watch on Mondays.
GOD bless and good night. Ouch!
Kris Schmuland
I have not been writing as the Internet in the house is not working properly. I was on the phone, this morning, for over an hour, to find out a technician needs to come out.
So here I am, many days later. On Friday I was called and informed that the OT and Dietitian was coming out to see mom that day. And I needed to get there early. I packed up quickly and out the door I went to arrive before 4 pm. I just got there and they were there just within 10 minutes of me getting there. It is lucky I had dinner for mom. So we started.
It was actually a good visit or observation that day. They never told me I needed to remove anything from mom's diet. On the contrary, they mentioned, it is not about removing things from mom's diet, it is about making the food suitable for mom. Using a blender to bring the food to a level that mom can eat. This way I can add more and more to mom's diet. A good thing. They didn't have a problem with the smoothie consistency.
Mom ate very well. Of course it was her favorite salad. The second day though. So mom did not eat as much as Thursday, but allot.
Mom has been well, A little tired as of late. Saturday was bath day, so mom is in bed already when I arrive. I put on a movie for us to watch. Cinderella 2015 mom enjoyed it, as did I. But Sunday, mom was asleep when I arrived, so I got help to put her to bed, before dinner and fed her in bed. She did the sleep eating, as I like to describe it. She keeps her eyes closed and allows me to feed her. And she ate.
Today she seems to have a bit of a cold. It doesn't help that they dressed her in a short sleeve shirt. It is cold out, come on now.
But mom ate. And only wanted part of her spa treatment done.
Now the PGT has not replied to any of my emails. And I can't seem to print anything out, from online. Which I need to do. To fill out this form and send it off. I guess I will have to go down to the office again. If they don't answer my emails I will continue to just go the office. I just don't care.
I will stop them as well as my mother's daughters from doing anything that will interfere with mom's health and happiness. What ever it takes.
Now I need to go as last weekend I was in another accident and I have a cracked sternum and a cracked rib, plus something is wrong with my right shoulder and right leg. I feel pain differently than most people. Something I have tired, over and over again, to get my doctor to understand. But he doesn't. I have had stitches with no freezing, I go to the dentist and have work done without freezing. I cut myself all the time and it is not until I see blood that I realize I have cut myself. As far as I can remember, it has been this way. So when I feel pain it is serious.
Well anyways, typing is actually hurting me. Even though I have the keyboard tucked right up to me. My arm is going numb.
So I will let you go for now.
I don't even know if I can post this right away. I certainly haven't been able to send an email tonight or last night. I can't even download any of the shows I like to watch on Mondays.
GOD bless and good night. Ouch!
Kris Schmuland
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