Hello again
So today, what about today. I am fed up with all the BS. First we have the PGT making all kinds of promises. Then we have the hospital, telling me things that I already know. As in, the fact I should be living in White Rock already. Close to mom and able to have mom over for dinner, and to be able to get to see her quickly.
To bring mom fresh dinners, hot, not warmed up in the microwave.
We have the social worker telling me that there is not enough funds in the account. And how much is to be in there.
Well I was told by the PGT, first there was $250.00 and then there was $300.00 added for clothing allowance. To the comfort fund.
Then the phyciatrist, being nice, I guess, tells me that mom is having tooth problems. I tell her I have it covered and on March 6, mom will be going to the dentist.
The worst part is I have been bringing this up to them, since mom arrived their. 5 months ago. And I had to take the action and go to the dental office, in the same building. And make arrangements for myself. As the people at the hospital were telling me they will handle it. Not so. I would be long dead and buried before anything happens their.
It is up to me, as it always is. This is a good thing.
So where I am at is this. I am more than willing to give up my life for my mother. Yet by doing this, it has led me down a different path in life. My happiness is based on my mother's happiness. Why should it not be. I completely injoy every minute I spend with mom and every minute I spend doing and fighting for mom.
This makes me extremely happy.
I write this to show all who read this the abuse that takes place with our seniors. And the effect it has on myself and those around those being abused.
Yes it is extreme at times. Well many times. But the truth is not always pretty, is it. And what actually is happining to our loved one's is neither pretty or right.
I have been around the abuse of our loved one's for over 12 years now. I am an expert on this subject. I have spend countless hours studying Dementia and Alzheimer's and other ways to treat this disease.
I is a medical conditon.
I have seen more than anyone in their lifetime should see. I deal with it, as I am and will do something about it.
This is why I started the Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.com to put an end to this. To stop the use of psycotropic medication that is killing our loved one's on masses.
But the problem is that no autopsies have been preformed on the idividuals who have passed away in the care of other's who say they are out to help us.
But as I said to the physciatrist today, we are only guessing at what the patients have.
And in my mother's case, nobody ever took the time to see if what is happening with her is for medical reasons.
So I say it is time to have an MRI or PET scan done on mom, to see if it is actually Dementia or is it due to a stroke.
And if it is due to a stroke. Their are treatments for this. Not as the doctor tells me today. What good is it if the damage has already been done.
And if it is caused by a stroke.Then everything every doctor has done to this point has been incorrect and this has caused mom to become crippled. In a wheel chair. the abiltiy to speak or even eat for herself.
Either way, I will know. If it is Dementia, well I know how to treat this. And if it is caused by a stroke. There are many treatments to get mom walking again, speaking again, eating for herself again.
So is it a stroke that have caused mom's systoms and problems. Or is it Dementia. Either way. I will be by her side and contiue to do everything I do now and more.
I do however really need to get my web site finished, and up and running properly. I need to pay the deposit on the business phone and 800 number, since it is on the site already.
I need clothing, as everything I own, very little, is now, 3 sizes to big for me. Was a 38 and now a 34. This is not due to dieting, it is due to not eating.
I have given just about all my clothing to mom, and as usual. They just disapered.
I can't leave anything at Oceanside. As it will be gone.
What I need to do is for someone to force the PGT to do as they say they were going to do. I am out thousands of dollars because of them. I have lost thousands of dollars because of them.
I know to much and this is why they keep making treats against me. TOO BAD
I have to leave now, try to get some sleep.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Friday, February 17, 2012
I still can't get what mom needs.
Hello again
So I have received some funds to get mom things, but not enough to purchase the shoes mom needs. I have many receipts, I might not be able to use. Shoes for women with wider feet are not cheap. I know where to get them. And today, I was out their, but did not have enough funds to buy her the one's she wants.
I video tapped them and showed mom the different styles and mom choose which one's she wanted.
Now there is the matter of trying to get a copy of the incident report, complaint, that the nurse at Oceanside made against me. It seems I keep getting the run around concerning getting a copy of it.
Strange isn't it!
I am not going to sit back and be slandered like this. especially when it comes to carrying this forward to the new place where mom is going. The Al Hogg building.
It is bad enough that I was slandered before mom even arrived at Oceanside and this carried forward to Oceanside. As I was forced into a meeting and given the once over about staff safety. And workplace protocol. Well what about mom's rights and freedoms. What about the fact that I am her advocate and I am her voice. Since no one will listen to her. When she is obviously saying something.
This whole nonsense about the PGT and Stephen making promises and then to deny them. Keeping me in Coquitlam, When he knows full well, that he Stephen did actually tell me he would help me move to White Rock, and get set up. Write a large cheque to me, in January. Which I think is gone now.
In the past the PGT has assisted me with the purchases of bags to carry what I carry everyday to see mom.
I have to bring things back and forth. As several years ago I bought mom a large gift basket of Biotherm products. Which is the time I started to give mom her spa treatment. Well the next day when I arrived to see mom. The basket was gone. And, of course no one knew what happened to them or where they went.So I have to carry everything with me.
My back is in extreme pain. The grocery bags, are very uncomfortable to carry. They are awkward to carry. Which causes my back to hurt. This is as far as I am concerned abuse. Considering they helped me in the past, and know what I carry is strictly for mom. I carry only my glasses and cell phone charger as well as a note book and pen with me, that are mine.
I would be in White Rock, having time to finish my web site and start writing representative agreement's for families so they don't have to be involved with the PGT and be protected from the abuse that ensues as a result of the PGT taking over the fiances of families with loved one's who are demeaned incapable of looking after themselves.
Two different types of agreement's. Part 7, basic rights and part 9, involving finances. Which I would charge a few for. And was making OK money, until mom was forcibly moved to White Rock. Against my and my mother's wishes. Mom was to be in Coquitlam, But the doctor at Valleyview changed the medication and well you know the rest.
Now I would have a place, bringing mom over for dinner's and nights. Taking her places, she needs to go. Yes their was to be enough funds for me to get a car/suv as well as everything else.
Now it is time to pay up.
I need to go, 2:00 am again.
GOD Bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
So I have received some funds to get mom things, but not enough to purchase the shoes mom needs. I have many receipts, I might not be able to use. Shoes for women with wider feet are not cheap. I know where to get them. And today, I was out their, but did not have enough funds to buy her the one's she wants.
I video tapped them and showed mom the different styles and mom choose which one's she wanted.
Now there is the matter of trying to get a copy of the incident report, complaint, that the nurse at Oceanside made against me. It seems I keep getting the run around concerning getting a copy of it.
Strange isn't it!
I am not going to sit back and be slandered like this. especially when it comes to carrying this forward to the new place where mom is going. The Al Hogg building.
It is bad enough that I was slandered before mom even arrived at Oceanside and this carried forward to Oceanside. As I was forced into a meeting and given the once over about staff safety. And workplace protocol. Well what about mom's rights and freedoms. What about the fact that I am her advocate and I am her voice. Since no one will listen to her. When she is obviously saying something.
This whole nonsense about the PGT and Stephen making promises and then to deny them. Keeping me in Coquitlam, When he knows full well, that he Stephen did actually tell me he would help me move to White Rock, and get set up. Write a large cheque to me, in January. Which I think is gone now.
In the past the PGT has assisted me with the purchases of bags to carry what I carry everyday to see mom.
I have to bring things back and forth. As several years ago I bought mom a large gift basket of Biotherm products. Which is the time I started to give mom her spa treatment. Well the next day when I arrived to see mom. The basket was gone. And, of course no one knew what happened to them or where they went.So I have to carry everything with me.
My back is in extreme pain. The grocery bags, are very uncomfortable to carry. They are awkward to carry. Which causes my back to hurt. This is as far as I am concerned abuse. Considering they helped me in the past, and know what I carry is strictly for mom. I carry only my glasses and cell phone charger as well as a note book and pen with me, that are mine.
I would be in White Rock, having time to finish my web site and start writing representative agreement's for families so they don't have to be involved with the PGT and be protected from the abuse that ensues as a result of the PGT taking over the fiances of families with loved one's who are demeaned incapable of looking after themselves.
Two different types of agreement's. Part 7, basic rights and part 9, involving finances. Which I would charge a few for. And was making OK money, until mom was forcibly moved to White Rock. Against my and my mother's wishes. Mom was to be in Coquitlam, But the doctor at Valleyview changed the medication and well you know the rest.
Now I would have a place, bringing mom over for dinner's and nights. Taking her places, she needs to go. Yes their was to be enough funds for me to get a car/suv as well as everything else.
Now it is time to pay up.
I need to go, 2:00 am again.
GOD Bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Thursday, February 16, 2012
And it never stops
Hello again
I would like to mention this, about yesterday. I arrive to see mom, and she is in her room, facing, well the wall. With her wheelchair locked. Not even allowed to move around.
Secondly. I was raised to respect women and it just kills me to see my mother being treated like a animal. Even caged animals have better freedoms.
They can move about their cages, not locked and helpless. Not being able to move anywhere. This is abuse. And I am not the one to allow this kind of abuse to continue.
We have rights in this world. And one of them is to not be chemically and physically restrained. As this was and most likely is on a daily basis'. I just happened to get their early.
Now I am told that their is over $500 in the comfort funds for me to access. Well, I receive just over two bills today.
I keep saying I need to get mom clothing and new shoes. And because mom has wider feet. I need to go to a specialty store. And a single pair of shoes is going to cost about $ 160.00 plus tax. Well there goes the two bills. And now I can't buy mom clothing or her drinks and treats, snacks, some dinner's.
Oh yea, I don't even include the cost of the dinners, when I turn in the receipts. And the PGT Stephen Flynn is one. making threats against me and then calling me stupid.
So now what. I say. They want me to separate every little item that I purchase for mom, or the social worker will not accept the receipt and the PGT will not either.
So now, I have several hundred dollars worth of receipts, and nobody will except them. Then they tell me if I don't turn in the receipts I won't be able to access any further funds.
I have the receipts, is it my fault they won't except them. When I am out and about and doing some shopping, I see something for mom, and include it in my purchases.
So anyways. their is to be at least $500.00 available, and this is what I asked for and only receive a few hundred dollars. Not enough to get what I need for mom.
I will just have to call the cashier at the hospital myself and speak with them concerning this matter. As usual.
Now before I forget, I am trying to design a logo for my company, Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.com I am working on this design, and I am asking if anyone has any idea on what it should look like, I am open to concepts. Write me and let me know.
Back to the blog.
Because of not having a proper backpack and shoulder bag, my back is killing me. I am in pain all the time now. The PGT is two faced. They understood and helped in the past with bags. But now, notta. I carry this to and from White Rock daily. And I do this for my mother. I can't leave anything their, as who knows when things will go missing.
I certainly don't!
So this is how it works with the PGT, I do not, I repeat do not do things exactly their way, mom suffers and it is called abuse.
The PGT thinks they can get away with it. And so far they have! It is now going to stop. It also seems that the hospital can do the same. Without any repercussions, I am the one they slander, and this carries over to the next place mom moves too.
And nothing happens to them. I only speak the truth on this blog, I make nothing up. It would be ludicrous to even think I could even make any of this up.
Well I have receipts, the social worker won't except them, the PGT won't accept them. Then they tell me I can't have access if I don't provide receipts.
Mom is not happy these days.
People have asked me if I have a life. Why do you do what you do.
I respond by saying, I do what I do because mom did what she did to raise me. And I have willingly and happily given up my life. Actually, I have experienced more happiness this last 10 years than I have ever had in my life.
Before all of this, I was and still am an alcoholic. Practising alcoholic before. Over 11 years ago now. I was completely selfish. Did not care about anyone but myself.
Not so, I don't even care about myself anymore. I don't have a problem, if mom eats steak and I eat hot dogs. Only the best for mom, And I mean it.
Happiness is relative. And I am more happy then ever and I don't plan on stopping this for anyone. This includes fighting for mom's rights and freedom's
I started adsaac Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition." To help our loved one's who can't help themselves." My tag line.
Dedicated to stop abuse of our seniors and loved one's Through action taken against those who choose to abuse their parents, aunts, uncles etc.......
Of course money is always an issue when starting out. And it is definitely in my case. Things will work out and the money I need to finish my web site and get the necessary equipment to get this going. IE: Office equipment, printed materials, product to sell on line. etc......etc.....
But I digress,
I have a continuous headache from being waked in the head by this bar, Blackouts, Now a major back ache.
So I stop now, and go to bed, It is 1:50 am and I need to get up and get a Sharpie to write a picket sign.
GOD bless and good night
Here is his last insulting email, or may I say abusive email from the PGT
I would like to mention this, about yesterday. I arrive to see mom, and she is in her room, facing, well the wall. With her wheelchair locked. Not even allowed to move around.
Secondly. I was raised to respect women and it just kills me to see my mother being treated like a animal. Even caged animals have better freedoms.
They can move about their cages, not locked and helpless. Not being able to move anywhere. This is abuse. And I am not the one to allow this kind of abuse to continue.
We have rights in this world. And one of them is to not be chemically and physically restrained. As this was and most likely is on a daily basis'. I just happened to get their early.
Now I am told that their is over $500 in the comfort funds for me to access. Well, I receive just over two bills today.
I keep saying I need to get mom clothing and new shoes. And because mom has wider feet. I need to go to a specialty store. And a single pair of shoes is going to cost about $ 160.00 plus tax. Well there goes the two bills. And now I can't buy mom clothing or her drinks and treats, snacks, some dinner's.
Oh yea, I don't even include the cost of the dinners, when I turn in the receipts. And the PGT Stephen Flynn is one. making threats against me and then calling me stupid.
So now what. I say. They want me to separate every little item that I purchase for mom, or the social worker will not accept the receipt and the PGT will not either.
So now, I have several hundred dollars worth of receipts, and nobody will except them. Then they tell me if I don't turn in the receipts I won't be able to access any further funds.
I have the receipts, is it my fault they won't except them. When I am out and about and doing some shopping, I see something for mom, and include it in my purchases.
So anyways. their is to be at least $500.00 available, and this is what I asked for and only receive a few hundred dollars. Not enough to get what I need for mom.
I will just have to call the cashier at the hospital myself and speak with them concerning this matter. As usual.
Now before I forget, I am trying to design a logo for my company, Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.com I am working on this design, and I am asking if anyone has any idea on what it should look like, I am open to concepts. Write me and let me know.
Back to the blog.
Because of not having a proper backpack and shoulder bag, my back is killing me. I am in pain all the time now. The PGT is two faced. They understood and helped in the past with bags. But now, notta. I carry this to and from White Rock daily. And I do this for my mother. I can't leave anything their, as who knows when things will go missing.
I certainly don't!
So this is how it works with the PGT, I do not, I repeat do not do things exactly their way, mom suffers and it is called abuse.
The PGT thinks they can get away with it. And so far they have! It is now going to stop. It also seems that the hospital can do the same. Without any repercussions, I am the one they slander, and this carries over to the next place mom moves too.
And nothing happens to them. I only speak the truth on this blog, I make nothing up. It would be ludicrous to even think I could even make any of this up.
Well I have receipts, the social worker won't except them, the PGT won't accept them. Then they tell me I can't have access if I don't provide receipts.
Mom is not happy these days.
People have asked me if I have a life. Why do you do what you do.
I respond by saying, I do what I do because mom did what she did to raise me. And I have willingly and happily given up my life. Actually, I have experienced more happiness this last 10 years than I have ever had in my life.
Before all of this, I was and still am an alcoholic. Practising alcoholic before. Over 11 years ago now. I was completely selfish. Did not care about anyone but myself.
Not so, I don't even care about myself anymore. I don't have a problem, if mom eats steak and I eat hot dogs. Only the best for mom, And I mean it.
Happiness is relative. And I am more happy then ever and I don't plan on stopping this for anyone. This includes fighting for mom's rights and freedom's
I started adsaac Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition." To help our loved one's who can't help themselves." My tag line.
Dedicated to stop abuse of our seniors and loved one's Through action taken against those who choose to abuse their parents, aunts, uncles etc.......
Of course money is always an issue when starting out. And it is definitely in my case. Things will work out and the money I need to finish my web site and get the necessary equipment to get this going. IE: Office equipment, printed materials, product to sell on line. etc......etc.....
But I digress,
I have a continuous headache from being waked in the head by this bar, Blackouts, Now a major back ache.
So I stop now, and go to bed, It is 1:50 am and I need to get up and get a Sharpie to write a picket sign.
GOD bless and good night
Here is his last insulting email, or may I say abusive email from the PGT
Kris,
Let me repeat myself. I am not going to provide you with funds from this office.
For snacks, cosmetics and clothes you need to access the comforts account.
I returned the receipts you left here to Oceanside. They manage the comforts account, not me.
We added $300 to the comforts account for clothes. Deal with them.
If they are not satisfied that the receipts you submit are for the use of your mother, they will not be reimbursing you.
Stephen Flynn
Case Manager
Lower Mainland Regional Office
Public Guardian and Trustee of BC
Tel: (604) 775-0199
Fax: (604) 660-9479
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
I am still not feeling well
Hello again
Last night I had to bring back a huge garbage bag full of mom's old things. I had a duffel bag, an army duffel bag, And it was full. So I brought the duffel bag full. About 50 lbs and the two bags I normally bring with me. So I carried about 100 lbs back with me. Three hours of caring this. But worth it, as if I did not do this, my sister would of taken them, and good bye forever.
So I told you about Stephen making threats against me. And now he called me stupid. Here it is:
Flynn, Stephen SFlynn@trustee.bc.ca
11:37 AM (13 hours ago)
Kris,
This process is not that difficult. The comforts fund provides you with money, you provide receipts, they reimburse you.
I’m unclear on how you believe I am threatening you.
As far as funds for the bags go, I have told you we are not providing funds for these.
Stephen Flynn
Case Manager
Lower Mainland Regional Office
Public Guardian and Trustee of BC
Tel: (604) 775-0199
Fax: (604) 660-9479
sflynn@trustee.bc.ca
Come on now. A threat and than calling me stupid, Where does this abuse end. It seems that it just goes on and on. And if I kiss their ass it will stop. But this is never going to happen.
I do not do this sort of thing. Kiss some one's butt. Especially since the PGT continuously abuses my mother and myself.
I still am having blackouts, I have a major headache, that won't go away.
I need to find funding to get my website off the ground. And running as well as to register it federally and provincially.
The company I have started to use to host my site, well they are great at printing, But really expensive. I have one month free and then they want way to much. They want to charge me $2.99 a month to have a blog on my site.
It says that they will remove their logo for a one time fee of $5.99, then I find out it is $5.99 a month. And I am not even finished designing it.
So the site starts at $21.00 a month
This other sit is $60.00 a year with everything. I just need the funds to get this paid for.
As well as purchase product to sell on the site. That is related to adsaac and company products. Stationary, return labels, a banner, Alzheimer's and Dementia pins, etc.... etc....
I have to pay a deposit for my business phone line and 800 number of $50.00
I need a grant, big time.
So today in Valentine's Day and I could not even bring mom some flowers. I did bring her nachos. that was OK. But it really does get me upset that I could not even bring my mother flower's
The PGT keeps telling me if I need things for mom, such as clothing and shoes to get the funds from the comfort fund.
Well their is nothing in the comfort fund for me to access. As they, and when I say they, I mean, Stephen Flynn and the social worker.
It is nice that with all the BS that is going on and the social worker on my sisters side. As I live in Coqauitlam and mom is in White Rock. 3 hours away by bus, and 110 km's. B
But it is easier for my sister's to get to White Rock. Straight down #10 hwy. And it is further for them to go to get to see your mother in Coquitlam.
But it is I, who goes to see her everyday, It is I who fights for her rights. And is slandered and libeled by the staff and this is going to, hell it has already sullied my name, And makes me out to be the bad guy.
Though this whatever she is. Just made things up. Lied to be exact and then I have the director coming at me and making threats against me.
Without even seeing the incident report on this matter. In fact I am being shuffled back and forth on trying to get a copy of this report. Someone tells me I have to talk to so and so, and another tells me something different.
Well I will get this report and I will be taking them to court for slander and libel. They have ruined my name and thus I am being threatened, as a result of this lie perpetrated by this nurse, who I know assaults the patients. Remember I have seen her do this at Valleyview hospital.
I make nothing up.
I am being treated like crap by the social worker. Giving preferential treatment to my sisters who have done nothing but steal my mothers belongings. Right down to a white gold chain and cross as well as a gold watch. And then it is the social worker,who I tell not to give anything to my sisters, allows this to happen and the clothing and everything else is never seen again.
I told him in October I want everything my sister took returned and since I said not to do it, and it happened It is up to you to contact them and get everything back.
Do you think anything was returned, No, nothing at all. Gone for good.
And now this move. I don't give a crap what my sisters think about anything. They have taken everything from mom and dad and now it is going to stop.
None of them get it. I have already spoken to legal aid and I have a great law suit, not only against the staff member herself, but the hospital as well, to allow these kind of slanderous statement to even be received and then to ruin my reputation with the new place where mom is going. Is slander. And cause for legal action.
Unless the nurse or care aid is fired and a written letter of apology. I have to take action. And on top of this I have suffered a concussion, as a result of the staffs negligence. By refusing to put the bar up. Instead of saying I cant reach it up there.
I have to go now, as my back is killing me,by having to carry improper bags to and from White Rock everyday, and being abused by the PGT.
GOD and good night
Kris
Last night I had to bring back a huge garbage bag full of mom's old things. I had a duffel bag, an army duffel bag, And it was full. So I brought the duffel bag full. About 50 lbs and the two bags I normally bring with me. So I carried about 100 lbs back with me. Three hours of caring this. But worth it, as if I did not do this, my sister would of taken them, and good bye forever.
So I told you about Stephen making threats against me. And now he called me stupid. Here it is:
Flynn, Stephen SFlynn@trustee.bc.ca
11:37 AM (13 hours ago)
Kris,
This process is not that difficult. The comforts fund provides you with money, you provide receipts, they reimburse you.
I’m unclear on how you believe I am threatening you.
As far as funds for the bags go, I have told you we are not providing funds for these.
Stephen Flynn
Case Manager
Lower Mainland Regional Office
Public Guardian and Trustee of BC
Tel: (604) 775-0199
Fax: (604) 660-9479
sflynn@trustee.bc.ca
Come on now. A threat and than calling me stupid, Where does this abuse end. It seems that it just goes on and on. And if I kiss their ass it will stop. But this is never going to happen.
I do not do this sort of thing. Kiss some one's butt. Especially since the PGT continuously abuses my mother and myself.
I still am having blackouts, I have a major headache, that won't go away.
I need to find funding to get my website off the ground. And running as well as to register it federally and provincially.
The company I have started to use to host my site, well they are great at printing, But really expensive. I have one month free and then they want way to much. They want to charge me $2.99 a month to have a blog on my site.
It says that they will remove their logo for a one time fee of $5.99, then I find out it is $5.99 a month. And I am not even finished designing it.
So the site starts at $21.00 a month
This other sit is $60.00 a year with everything. I just need the funds to get this paid for.
As well as purchase product to sell on the site. That is related to adsaac and company products. Stationary, return labels, a banner, Alzheimer's and Dementia pins, etc.... etc....
I have to pay a deposit for my business phone line and 800 number of $50.00
I need a grant, big time.
So today in Valentine's Day and I could not even bring mom some flowers. I did bring her nachos. that was OK. But it really does get me upset that I could not even bring my mother flower's
The PGT keeps telling me if I need things for mom, such as clothing and shoes to get the funds from the comfort fund.
Well their is nothing in the comfort fund for me to access. As they, and when I say they, I mean, Stephen Flynn and the social worker.
It is nice that with all the BS that is going on and the social worker on my sisters side. As I live in Coqauitlam and mom is in White Rock. 3 hours away by bus, and 110 km's. B
But it is easier for my sister's to get to White Rock. Straight down #10 hwy. And it is further for them to go to get to see your mother in Coquitlam.
But it is I, who goes to see her everyday, It is I who fights for her rights. And is slandered and libeled by the staff and this is going to, hell it has already sullied my name, And makes me out to be the bad guy.
Though this whatever she is. Just made things up. Lied to be exact and then I have the director coming at me and making threats against me.
Without even seeing the incident report on this matter. In fact I am being shuffled back and forth on trying to get a copy of this report. Someone tells me I have to talk to so and so, and another tells me something different.
Well I will get this report and I will be taking them to court for slander and libel. They have ruined my name and thus I am being threatened, as a result of this lie perpetrated by this nurse, who I know assaults the patients. Remember I have seen her do this at Valleyview hospital.
I make nothing up.
I am being treated like crap by the social worker. Giving preferential treatment to my sisters who have done nothing but steal my mothers belongings. Right down to a white gold chain and cross as well as a gold watch. And then it is the social worker,who I tell not to give anything to my sisters, allows this to happen and the clothing and everything else is never seen again.
I told him in October I want everything my sister took returned and since I said not to do it, and it happened It is up to you to contact them and get everything back.
Do you think anything was returned, No, nothing at all. Gone for good.
And now this move. I don't give a crap what my sisters think about anything. They have taken everything from mom and dad and now it is going to stop.
None of them get it. I have already spoken to legal aid and I have a great law suit, not only against the staff member herself, but the hospital as well, to allow these kind of slanderous statement to even be received and then to ruin my reputation with the new place where mom is going. Is slander. And cause for legal action.
Unless the nurse or care aid is fired and a written letter of apology. I have to take action. And on top of this I have suffered a concussion, as a result of the staffs negligence. By refusing to put the bar up. Instead of saying I cant reach it up there.
I have to go now, as my back is killing me,by having to carry improper bags to and from White Rock everyday, and being abused by the PGT.
GOD and good night
Kris
Monday, February 13, 2012
Only the best for mom
Hello again
I make no bones about the fact I am a Christian. Even my salutation states this. So I received this Bible verse and will now share it with you.
Luke 10:19- ESV
Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall hurt you.
Perfect for me
Now
Thank you for returning mom's shampoo and body wash to her room.
Regards
So tonight when I arrived it was dinner for mom. And tonight, mom was given a cabbage roll, rice and some over cooked vegetable.
So this wasn't going to cut it.
Instead I fed mom. 5 different types of cheeses, a papaya, an Asian pear, an avocado. Asiago cheese and herb crackers. Spinach dip and, well there was something else. But I will remember latter. Oh yea ice cream, that was ice cream, when I left my house and it turns into a chocolate shake by the time I get to White Rock. This is the way mom likes it. And mom only likes a certain type of ice cream at that. Heavenly Hash by Bryers. That is it.
Over the weekend I tried two other types of ice cream and no, not at all. Did not like. So it was on sale and I bought some. And mom loved it.
Better dinner then she was to have. Mom ate and ate. Then to her room for her spa treatment. And I gave her a manicure as well, and put clear nail polish on her. This she liked
Now because I bought other products with the ice cream and coke. I cant turn in the receipts. The social worker will not except them. So I will be reimbursed for these funds. I don't care, about spending the money, but this is what the comfort fund was set up cover. And this is going to be a continuous issue. I turned them into the PGT last week. the ones the social worker would not turn in.
I don't know if I will be reimbursed for this or not.
But the problem is that. If I don't turn in the receipts for exactly the amount of funds I received I don't get to access the comfort funds anymore.
Excuse me, but this is Bull Shit. I have spent the money on mom and because someone does not think that the cashier at he hospital will except it. They wont turn them in. It is going to be to hard for the accounting department.
They are accountants, are they not. This is what they do.
You see, it took me a very long time to pay off my Visa, and I cant and don't want to use it, at all. I paid it off in case their was an emergency with mom, that I need immediate cash to pay for some ting. More money than I have. In solid currency. This is why I paid it off.
Now a comfort fund was set up. For me to access, to purchase food and clothing for mom, As it is, I had to use my Visa this entire weekend, and it is now up their again. Not that high. But not the 0 balance I want to keep it at. And I am not going to be reimbursed for these funds either. As I purchased a few things for myself. Because it had my items on it as well, not just items for mom. This is why it wont be reimbursed.
Now I proposed, that the PGT write me a cheque for what is in the comfort fund. $600.00 and I now, get a secured MasterCard. To be used strictly for moms purchases. As mom needs clothing, and new shoes. I dont have the funds for this and the funds that are to be their for me, are not available.
Go figure. This way, I have copies of the expenditures, through the statements, and the hospital gets the originals and the PGT gets them as well.
It is secured, so I can only spend what I put on it, and if it is not paid down, their is nothing to use. This way, I buy what is needed, instead of having to contact he social worker, at the hospital, then wait one to two days to get the funds.
By this time, the sales are over, for the items I want for mom, or they are just gone, her size that is. And I turn in the receipts, get reimbursed, pay the credit card down. And the circle continues. It is a win,win scenario for everyone involved.
It is now, 3:00 am, I got home at 11:30 pm and I have done nothing but write emails concerning this matter and now this blog.
I have to go, I do need to eat something. I am hungry, but, again it is 3:00 am. So we will see. I have a frozen pizza in the oven.
All the things I cant eat. Dairy products, white flour I will pay for this tomorrow.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
So after writing this, I find an email from the PGT Stephen Flynn and he tells me that there will be no credit card and if I don't turn in the receipts I won't have access to the funds anymore.
Now what he said was we will have to re think the comfort funds issue.
Come on now. This is pure crap. I am doing what I am to do. And this is the Bull Shit I get. I will put the email up, when I finish writing this blog. Excuse me making edits to this blog.
What does he not get. I do what I am asked, the funds that are suppose to be their are not their. He just abuses his clients like this all the time.
Sorry Kris, no credit card.
If you are not prepared to provide the receipts to the facility,we will rethink using the comforts fund.
Stephen Flynn
Case Manager
Lower Mainland Regional Office
Public Guardian and Trustee of BC
Tel: (604) 775-0199
Fax: (604) 660-9479
sflynn@trustee.bc.ca
There it is in Black and White
I will however continue to turn in the receipts as I have been, and the one's Larry does not think are acceptable for the cashier, I will just turn into the PGT Stephen Fynn
This is part of what I have to deal with all the time.
Write your newspapers let them know, write your TV stations let them know.
I need new bags. They are done, I am caring grocery bags now. One is strickly for mom's beauty products. The other is her food and snack items. This is only for mom, but he thinks it is for my use. He does not understand or get it.
But I am not going to keep explaining it to him.
Kris Schmuland
I will turn in every single receipt. If not to the hospital, then to Stephen.
I make no bones about the fact I am a Christian. Even my salutation states this. So I received this Bible verse and will now share it with you.
Luke 10:19- ESV
Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall hurt you.
Perfect for me
Now
Thank you for returning mom's shampoo and body wash to her room.
Regards
So tonight when I arrived it was dinner for mom. And tonight, mom was given a cabbage roll, rice and some over cooked vegetable.
So this wasn't going to cut it.
Instead I fed mom. 5 different types of cheeses, a papaya, an Asian pear, an avocado. Asiago cheese and herb crackers. Spinach dip and, well there was something else. But I will remember latter. Oh yea ice cream, that was ice cream, when I left my house and it turns into a chocolate shake by the time I get to White Rock. This is the way mom likes it. And mom only likes a certain type of ice cream at that. Heavenly Hash by Bryers. That is it.
Over the weekend I tried two other types of ice cream and no, not at all. Did not like. So it was on sale and I bought some. And mom loved it.
Better dinner then she was to have. Mom ate and ate. Then to her room for her spa treatment. And I gave her a manicure as well, and put clear nail polish on her. This she liked
Now because I bought other products with the ice cream and coke. I cant turn in the receipts. The social worker will not except them. So I will be reimbursed for these funds. I don't care, about spending the money, but this is what the comfort fund was set up cover. And this is going to be a continuous issue. I turned them into the PGT last week. the ones the social worker would not turn in.
I don't know if I will be reimbursed for this or not.
But the problem is that. If I don't turn in the receipts for exactly the amount of funds I received I don't get to access the comfort funds anymore.
Excuse me, but this is Bull Shit. I have spent the money on mom and because someone does not think that the cashier at he hospital will except it. They wont turn them in. It is going to be to hard for the accounting department.
They are accountants, are they not. This is what they do.
You see, it took me a very long time to pay off my Visa, and I cant and don't want to use it, at all. I paid it off in case their was an emergency with mom, that I need immediate cash to pay for some ting. More money than I have. In solid currency. This is why I paid it off.
Now a comfort fund was set up. For me to access, to purchase food and clothing for mom, As it is, I had to use my Visa this entire weekend, and it is now up their again. Not that high. But not the 0 balance I want to keep it at. And I am not going to be reimbursed for these funds either. As I purchased a few things for myself. Because it had my items on it as well, not just items for mom. This is why it wont be reimbursed.
Now I proposed, that the PGT write me a cheque for what is in the comfort fund. $600.00 and I now, get a secured MasterCard. To be used strictly for moms purchases. As mom needs clothing, and new shoes. I dont have the funds for this and the funds that are to be their for me, are not available.
Go figure. This way, I have copies of the expenditures, through the statements, and the hospital gets the originals and the PGT gets them as well.
It is secured, so I can only spend what I put on it, and if it is not paid down, their is nothing to use. This way, I buy what is needed, instead of having to contact he social worker, at the hospital, then wait one to two days to get the funds.
By this time, the sales are over, for the items I want for mom, or they are just gone, her size that is. And I turn in the receipts, get reimbursed, pay the credit card down. And the circle continues. It is a win,win scenario for everyone involved.
It is now, 3:00 am, I got home at 11:30 pm and I have done nothing but write emails concerning this matter and now this blog.
I have to go, I do need to eat something. I am hungry, but, again it is 3:00 am. So we will see. I have a frozen pizza in the oven.
All the things I cant eat. Dairy products, white flour I will pay for this tomorrow.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
So after writing this, I find an email from the PGT Stephen Flynn and he tells me that there will be no credit card and if I don't turn in the receipts I won't have access to the funds anymore.
Now what he said was we will have to re think the comfort funds issue.
Come on now. This is pure crap. I am doing what I am to do. And this is the Bull Shit I get. I will put the email up, when I finish writing this blog. Excuse me making edits to this blog.
What does he not get. I do what I am asked, the funds that are suppose to be their are not their. He just abuses his clients like this all the time.
Sorry Kris, no credit card.
If you are not prepared to provide the receipts to the facility,we will rethink using the comforts fund.
Stephen Flynn
Case Manager
Lower Mainland Regional Office
Public Guardian and Trustee of BC
Tel: (604) 775-0199
Fax: (604) 660-9479
sflynn@trustee.bc.ca
There it is in Black and White
I will however continue to turn in the receipts as I have been, and the one's Larry does not think are acceptable for the cashier, I will just turn into the PGT Stephen Fynn
This is part of what I have to deal with all the time.
Write your newspapers let them know, write your TV stations let them know.
I need new bags. They are done, I am caring grocery bags now. One is strickly for mom's beauty products. The other is her food and snack items. This is only for mom, but he thinks it is for my use. He does not understand or get it.
But I am not going to keep explaining it to him.
Kris Schmuland
I will turn in every single receipt. If not to the hospital, then to Stephen.
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Nothing changes their or with the PGT
Hello Again
Well nothing ever changes with the Oceanside. Excuse me, the staff. Now I don't know how many times I have to put the bar up only to have it hanging down again and me walking into it. Every night, it seems they do not listen or is it they just don't give a crap if I get hurt or not.
This is the staff from River view and are just plain ignorant and selfish
Well I bought shampoo and body wash for mom, and I put in her bathroom, and this where it is to stay. PERIOD, It is gone, they probably used it Friday night, when giving mom a bath, well they did not return it and this means no one knows who it belongs to and it will be used on all of the patients.
Because the staff are ignorant, plain and simple. They know who's it is, but it is two days and it has not been returned.
Keep it up, I will have a great case against you, while speaking to the police about this and all of the other matters. I am done with your nonsense and will take action.
You are causing me grievous bodily harm, and know you are doing it. Stealing my mother's things and just don't care. I could be mistaken, but I am not. Once it is out of her room, they just will simply say, I did not know who it belonged to, so we used it on so and so.
Now I am lucky I save all receipts and had the for sight, this time, to buy two of each of the shampoo and body wash.
I will no longer speak to any member of the staff, unless I have someone with me, to witness their lies/
I still can't get a copy of the complaint and I am entitled to one. So I can see exactly what it is that I said and the threat I made against this staff member. I have a right to face my accuser and have justice done.
Now I will write a note and give to one of the staff members tomorrow night, concerning the shampoo and body wash.
I have all ready turned in the receipt containing the fact that I already bought these products.
Here again is the abuse against me, I no longer have proof that I purchased these items. And I have to be accountable for every penny I take out.
Now Larry won't except certain receipts, which contain items I purchased for mom. And this is abuse. As if I can't count for every penny, I can't have access to anymore funds,.
So I am getting screwed here. Because of Larry Aavisto and Stephen Fynn
I have other things I would really like to say, but I won't lower myself.
This is just plain BS. Having to separate the items and pay for everything separate. Or get screwed
They are just trying to screw with me. I am going to go to the cashier myself and talk to them. None of this middle man stuff.
Why don't any of you who read this do something. I will not stop going to see mom, but the trip is hard on me. I have no time to even make any money.
If everyone who tells me they are going to help out, actually do, I would be in White Rock already and set up. So this would give me time to actually make some additional money. Which I desperately am in need of. To actually eat. Buy clothing.
So I don't freeze, as I did tonight. I have no clothing, none. Nothing to keep me warm, or actually go out and get a job. A career that I can use my education.
Instead of being a poor starving student. And speaking of this, I am not getting any student loans anymore. I am not studying, and I am somewhat bored and I miss the money, that I need.
I am thinking of starting a new degree program. A program in forensic psychology and science. 800 hours, on line. From a university in the UK. Giving me a Bachelor of Forensic Psychology and Science. This way I can use this knowledge to understand how and the cause of individuals who die, under the care of.....
I have already sent my application in and I am just waiting for admission.
Look Larry, I really don't have much of a problem with you. I do, however, have a serious problem with Stephen Fynn, Chris Brettell and Coleen Koush of the PGT.
I write it in the first person, as they read this blog.
It is both the PGT's fault and River view's fault that mom is in White Rock and I really think Larry better stop siding with my sister. Who gives a crap about them, they steal and steal from mom, and now me, with the help of the staff at, Well you know where, Giving my sister the clothing after repeatedly informing them not to give it to them, as I or mom will never see these clothes again.
I love buying things for mom, I am not going to dress my two sister's who 0 fashion sense, and love to take things that don't belong to them,
My sister's and the staff knew from the start not to give anything to my sister's But this is the kind of thing I have to deal with.
Well what can I expect, after telling the truth about them.
Now I will push this to the limits if I don't have returned all the clothing they gave to my sister. Right away. Not a month, Now. If I have too. It is not something I want to do, but if it has to be done, who better to do it than me.
Remember I am only speaking of a select few staff members. But I will not speak to any of them until I get the proper counsel.
I want my mothers shampoo and body cleanser back into her room. I am not going to keep buying things when they keep going missing
I am now, just writing for the sake of writing.
I am going now.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
Well nothing ever changes with the Oceanside. Excuse me, the staff. Now I don't know how many times I have to put the bar up only to have it hanging down again and me walking into it. Every night, it seems they do not listen or is it they just don't give a crap if I get hurt or not.
This is the staff from River view and are just plain ignorant and selfish
Well I bought shampoo and body wash for mom, and I put in her bathroom, and this where it is to stay. PERIOD, It is gone, they probably used it Friday night, when giving mom a bath, well they did not return it and this means no one knows who it belongs to and it will be used on all of the patients.
Because the staff are ignorant, plain and simple. They know who's it is, but it is two days and it has not been returned.
Keep it up, I will have a great case against you, while speaking to the police about this and all of the other matters. I am done with your nonsense and will take action.
You are causing me grievous bodily harm, and know you are doing it. Stealing my mother's things and just don't care. I could be mistaken, but I am not. Once it is out of her room, they just will simply say, I did not know who it belonged to, so we used it on so and so.
Now I am lucky I save all receipts and had the for sight, this time, to buy two of each of the shampoo and body wash.
I will no longer speak to any member of the staff, unless I have someone with me, to witness their lies/
I still can't get a copy of the complaint and I am entitled to one. So I can see exactly what it is that I said and the threat I made against this staff member. I have a right to face my accuser and have justice done.
Now I will write a note and give to one of the staff members tomorrow night, concerning the shampoo and body wash.
I have all ready turned in the receipt containing the fact that I already bought these products.
Here again is the abuse against me, I no longer have proof that I purchased these items. And I have to be accountable for every penny I take out.
Now Larry won't except certain receipts, which contain items I purchased for mom. And this is abuse. As if I can't count for every penny, I can't have access to anymore funds,.
So I am getting screwed here. Because of Larry Aavisto and Stephen Fynn
I have other things I would really like to say, but I won't lower myself.
This is just plain BS. Having to separate the items and pay for everything separate. Or get screwed
They are just trying to screw with me. I am going to go to the cashier myself and talk to them. None of this middle man stuff.
Why don't any of you who read this do something. I will not stop going to see mom, but the trip is hard on me. I have no time to even make any money.
If everyone who tells me they are going to help out, actually do, I would be in White Rock already and set up. So this would give me time to actually make some additional money. Which I desperately am in need of. To actually eat. Buy clothing.
So I don't freeze, as I did tonight. I have no clothing, none. Nothing to keep me warm, or actually go out and get a job. A career that I can use my education.
Instead of being a poor starving student. And speaking of this, I am not getting any student loans anymore. I am not studying, and I am somewhat bored and I miss the money, that I need.
I am thinking of starting a new degree program. A program in forensic psychology and science. 800 hours, on line. From a university in the UK. Giving me a Bachelor of Forensic Psychology and Science. This way I can use this knowledge to understand how and the cause of individuals who die, under the care of.....
I have already sent my application in and I am just waiting for admission.
Look Larry, I really don't have much of a problem with you. I do, however, have a serious problem with Stephen Fynn, Chris Brettell and Coleen Koush of the PGT.
I write it in the first person, as they read this blog.
It is both the PGT's fault and River view's fault that mom is in White Rock and I really think Larry better stop siding with my sister. Who gives a crap about them, they steal and steal from mom, and now me, with the help of the staff at, Well you know where, Giving my sister the clothing after repeatedly informing them not to give it to them, as I or mom will never see these clothes again.
I love buying things for mom, I am not going to dress my two sister's who 0 fashion sense, and love to take things that don't belong to them,
My sister's and the staff knew from the start not to give anything to my sister's But this is the kind of thing I have to deal with.
Well what can I expect, after telling the truth about them.
Now I will push this to the limits if I don't have returned all the clothing they gave to my sister. Right away. Not a month, Now. If I have too. It is not something I want to do, but if it has to be done, who better to do it than me.
Remember I am only speaking of a select few staff members. But I will not speak to any of them until I get the proper counsel.
I want my mothers shampoo and body cleanser back into her room. I am not going to keep buying things when they keep going missing
I am now, just writing for the sake of writing.
I am going now.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
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