Hello again
I am here for one thing and one thing only. OK actually two things. To serve MOM and GOD or to serve GOD and MOM. Either way this is the only reason I am on this planet. I see no other reason.
Yes I have a great education. It has not allowed me to do what I wanted to do with it. To stop the abuse of our loved one's.
Crap! I can't even afford to pay for next month's web site payment. I have business numbers, including a 800 number. Can't activate it, as I need to put a $50.00 deposit down, and buy the phone for it. Can't afford to pay for the registration of the name and business. So I can get my HST/GST number. To be able to apply for research grants.
But, you know what. If it is meant to be, the funds will come along. Some how. If this is what GOD wants, GOD will provide for me.
So in the mean time, I am only to look after mom and to follow GOD's word. To love, to be, to give, give of myself, my time, my energy, my being, my soul. To be kind to one anther. As I am always.
I am a very well liked individual. I am know all over the place and people remember me. Even if they have only spoken to me one time.
Now what, well mom has to be moved now. She is dehydrated everyday. And she is not taken to the bathroom, which seems all afternoon.
I know mom is dehydrated, as mom has mung mouth. And mom is drinking a bottle of water everyday now, while I am their. This is on top of the coke and fuze drinks she has.
I am saying this to you who read this, from Oceanside and the PGT.
I WANT MOM MOVED NOW. YOU ARE HOLDING HER HOSTAGE. MOM IS NOT MENTALLY ILL. IT IS THE MEDICATION THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN TO HER THAT HAS CAUSED HER PROBLEMS. IT IS THIS STAFF THAT HAS CRIPPLED MY MOTHER. NOT DOING ANYTHING THEY SAY THEY ARE GOING TO DO. AS IN, WALKING MY MOTHER. AFTER THEY TELL ME I AM NOT ALLOWED TO WALK HER.
AND WE HAVE A DIRECTOR, WHO, FOR GOD ONLY KNOWS, TELLS ME THINGS THAT ARE NOT TRUE AND SHE THINKS I DON'T KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING ON.
I write the truth and will continue to do so. This is their problem, if they can not see this.
I will, if I have to, go to the supreme court and file a claim against them, for holding my mother hostage and not releasing her,as they have previously stated is going to happen.
There has been nothing said about this in over a month. Which is suspect to me. And is the practice of this staff to do this. As they did while mom was in Riverview. The staff changed mom's medication right before her assessment for Eagle Ridge Manor. And mom failed the assessment. Of course she failed. And over the last few weeks I have noticed that the staff has been up to their old tricks. And this is giving mom drugs when she does not need them. Causing problems for mom/.
I will say this to all of you. If anything happens to mom while under your care. I will file a wrongful death law suit against every member of this staff. This is promise. And if you take it as a threat so be it.
I have already spoken to a lawyer and have provided him, with evidence of wrong doing. I don't give a darn about any of them anymore.
I want mom as far away from all of them. A clean break, this includes Heather. Especial Heather. I don't want her near my mother. She is getting carried away. It is not your mother. She is my mother and I do what I want. Not what they tell me to do and this is the way it is and is going to be. I am my mothers caregiver and I make the decisions for her. I will be telling you what medications you are going to be giving her. And what and when I will be walking her. You at Oceanside do not do as you say.
Now the PGT is going to stop this game or I will take action, and part of this action will be, to picket you. And the sign will read
In my opinion, Premiere Christy Clark is allowing the PGT to abuse it's clients. Especially my mother and I
Now it is early tonight, 11:02 and I think for tonight I am done.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
Not the staff at Ocenaside. I do.
Now
Saturday, March 3, 2012
The games have to end
Hello again
I am only here to be of help to my mother. My GOD, My Mother. I don't have any other reason to be here.
The last few days, my mother has drank 2 full bottles of water. I have never seen mom drink this much before. She is obvious dehydrated. Don't you think. Plus her fuze drink and coke.
I believe that my mother is being held hostage where she is at. They tell me that mom is going to be released, And they say, very soon.
Well it has been a month. And the abuse has even become worse. And I have not heard anything more about mom moving.
So because I have problems with the staff, they are holding mom hostage. It is time for mom to move on. Away from the trappings of these staff members.
Mom is getting to skinny and is very thirsty all the time.
I am tired of the games these people, including the PGT and the staff at the hospital, are playing It is time to stop these games.
Whatever means is necessary to stop them is what I am willing to do. Court action, picketing, petitions, flyer's etc........ I don't care anymore. I am sick of the Bull Shit.
This is exactly what they want, for me and anyone else to just go along with them. To so OK I will wait until you talk to the other party. Or you write them an email and it takes a day for them to get back to you. And then it is only a promise to get back to you, after they have spoken to the other party. Then it is now, days that have gone by and no results. Nothing. Days turn into weeks and nothing.
Just as the PGT is playing the game of me accessing funds through the comfort fund set up at the hospital. And you know what. I have been saying mom needs shoes and other things for weeks now. And still nothing.
And I am told that mom does not need a proper cleaning systems for her teeth. Even after I spoke with the dentist and it was suggested I get something for her. Especially after mom is going to get all of her teeth fixed. I have a hard time, well I can't get in to floss her teeth and I need something to take care of this.
Well then their is getting anything for mom. The PGT is making it or trying to make it difficult for me to access funds to get mom things.
If I have to, I will go without everything. I don't care about myself or what I will eat, drink, wear or even do. All I care about is mom. And her happiness.
I don't know how long mom is going to be around and I am going to make the best of what time she has remaining. And to do everything I can for her.
Well another long day and it is 12:46 am and I need some sleep. I don't even care about eating, I have no appetite anyways.
SO GOD bless and good night.
Kris
I am only here to be of help to my mother. My GOD, My Mother. I don't have any other reason to be here.
The last few days, my mother has drank 2 full bottles of water. I have never seen mom drink this much before. She is obvious dehydrated. Don't you think. Plus her fuze drink and coke.
I believe that my mother is being held hostage where she is at. They tell me that mom is going to be released, And they say, very soon.
Well it has been a month. And the abuse has even become worse. And I have not heard anything more about mom moving.
So because I have problems with the staff, they are holding mom hostage. It is time for mom to move on. Away from the trappings of these staff members.
Mom is getting to skinny and is very thirsty all the time.
I am tired of the games these people, including the PGT and the staff at the hospital, are playing It is time to stop these games.
Whatever means is necessary to stop them is what I am willing to do. Court action, picketing, petitions, flyer's etc........ I don't care anymore. I am sick of the Bull Shit.
This is exactly what they want, for me and anyone else to just go along with them. To so OK I will wait until you talk to the other party. Or you write them an email and it takes a day for them to get back to you. And then it is only a promise to get back to you, after they have spoken to the other party. Then it is now, days that have gone by and no results. Nothing. Days turn into weeks and nothing.
Just as the PGT is playing the game of me accessing funds through the comfort fund set up at the hospital. And you know what. I have been saying mom needs shoes and other things for weeks now. And still nothing.
And I am told that mom does not need a proper cleaning systems for her teeth. Even after I spoke with the dentist and it was suggested I get something for her. Especially after mom is going to get all of her teeth fixed. I have a hard time, well I can't get in to floss her teeth and I need something to take care of this.
Well then their is getting anything for mom. The PGT is making it or trying to make it difficult for me to access funds to get mom things.
If I have to, I will go without everything. I don't care about myself or what I will eat, drink, wear or even do. All I care about is mom. And her happiness.
I don't know how long mom is going to be around and I am going to make the best of what time she has remaining. And to do everything I can for her.
Well another long day and it is 12:46 am and I need some sleep. I don't even care about eating, I have no appetite anyways.
SO GOD bless and good night.
Kris
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Mom, I think is slipping a bit.
Hello again.
First I want to state for the record
"MY MOTHER IS NOT MENTALLY ILL. THEY ARE FORCING HER TO STAY IN A PLACE THAT SHE DOES NOT BELONG. THEY HAVE CAUSED ALL OF HER PROBLEMS. THEY HAVE CRIPPLED HER, WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT. THEY REFUSE TO ALLOW ME TO GET MOM WALKING. AND THEY WILL NOT DO IT THEMSELVES AS THEY SAID THEY WOULD DO. THEY HAVE GIVEN HER DRUGS THAT THE FDA STATES NOT TO GIVE TO SENIORS WITH ALZHEIMER'S OR DEMENTIA. AS IT CAN KILL THEM. THEY REFUSE TO LISTEN TO ANYONE. THEY TELL ME AS LONG AS YOUR MOTHER IS UNDER OUR CARE, YOU DO WHAT WE SAY! THIS IS A DOCTOR TELLING ME THIS. SHE IS BEING LOOKED AFTER BY STAFF THAT IS NOT QUALIFIED TO LOOK AFTER SICK PEOPLE. THEY ARE NOT NURSES. THEY ARE PSY NURSES. THEY COULD NOT WORK IN A HOSPITAL IF THEY TRIED. THEY ARE NOT QUALIFIED TO DO SO. THE DOCTORS ARE ONLY GUESSES AT WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER. MOM HAS NEVER BEEN TESTED FOR ANYTHING. THE DIRECTOR MAKES THREATS THAT THEY WILL STOP ME TO SEE MY MOTHER. BASED ON DEFAMATORY STATEMENTS MADE BY STAFF MEMBERS"
You know, I go to see mom everyday, as I don't know when mom will not know who I am. This is why it is important for my to be their everyday.
So maybe mom will remember me everyday. I know mom does not know my sisters anymore. She does not recognize them.
Especially my younger sister. This is something that does bother me. That they are so selfish, that they cannot spend time with mom.
I try to do everything I can for her. I want her to not die in a hospital or a seniors home. I want mom to live with me. I want to take mom all over the place, to see so many things, that mom has not been able to see, because of being locked up against her will and mine.
Mom deserves, better for the rest of her life, however long or short it may be.
Yes I want to get Adsaac off the ground. But I would rather just take care of my mother.
Actually, all I want to do is look after mom. Everything else can come latter. I want to spend as much time as possible with my mother as I can. Before!
I have no idea what time she has left. I just need to be their for her. All the time. I don't care about anything else. Yes even myself. I could care less if I eat or sleep. Or whatever. I only care about what happens to mom.
Is this to much to ask for. To look after the one, who looked after you. Be their for my loved one.
Not like the rest of my family. Who just does not give a shit about anything but themselves. This is apparent by their actions. Oh yea lack of actions.
I am a Christian and I am honored to look after the widows. And to take care of your parents. Not to leave them stuck in their room, wheels locked, facing the bathroom. As I found her yesterday. And the day before. Wheels locked facing the wall.
Would you liked to be forced to be placed facing the wall, or the bathroom. Without be able to do anything about it.
I will and do everything I can. Yes I would love to do more. I am only here to look after her. Their is no other reason for my existence.
I have been a useless lump, all my life, until I was needed by both of my parents. Yes I have an education. And a good one. But I am only put on this earth to do one thing and one thing only. To look after my mother.
To make her happy. I am the happiest I have ever been, taking care of mom.
Mom is my life. If I do nothing else in my life. I am happy. And my life will be complete and then I am done. I need no more. Then I can go.
I just need to make sure my mothers life is the best that it can be. And if it takes all of my time and my life to do this. Then so be it. That is what I will do then. Period.
I have been crying allot lately. As mom does not want to be in Oceanside anymore. And I don't want her their anymore either. It has been two months now, since I was told mom is moving.
Mom needs to get away from this staff, and I need to be far away from them as well. I know to much and I don't want to deal with this bull shit any longer.
Mom is having major dental work done, as the psychotropic medication she has been given, ruined her teeth. And I cant get the floss in her mouth. So the dentist said that what mom needs is a good cleaning system.
Now the PGT refuses to release funds for this. Even though it is of a serious nature. I even wrote Procter and Gamble and got a coupon for the cleaning system. Then the PGT tells me, no funds will be released for this purpose.
The PGT, Stephen, even went so far as to tell me to get a job. How dare he, He knows I leave my home between 1 and 2 pm to get to the hospital for mom's dinner. He knows full well I have a disability, and have to use a cane to walk or even stand up. He knows full well that I have to bring everything for mom their and back. As if I leave it their, everything will go missing. He even knows what promisses he made to me, last fall. And never fullfilled any of them.
And mom needs new shoes, not one pair, but two. I have found several pairs. But the PGT refuses to release funds for the shoes as well. And then the shoes are gone. There is only a few places in the Lower Mainland that carries wide size shoes for women. And I have traveled to them. Finding shoes, only to be told, no funds will be released for this purpose.
The PGT is getting carried away. They make me have to access funds through the comfort fund at the hopital. 60 klm's away. And it takes me 3 hours to get their.
This is abuse. I had to use my bus fair to buy mom things she needs. And today is the first and I don't know how I am going to get their and back., now. This is what I deal with.
I am told that I spent the money on other things, knowing full well what I spent the funds on. And yet refusing to help me out.
I would be living in White Rock now, if it where not for the actions of the PGT. I would have a furnished 2 bedroom place. Being able to bring mom over for dinners and to stay for a night. I would have a car, if they kept their word.
I would be able to take mom anywhere and everywhere. If the PGT kept their word.
I need help. I am not coping well. I am very stressed out right now.
I put on a happy face for mom. I leave all the crap at the door. And I feel like sometimes I cant do enough. And you know what I am not doing enough.
I just cant handle the abuse we get from the PGT and the fact. I have absolutely no one to speak to about this or anything.
I have to go now.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
First I want to state for the record
"MY MOTHER IS NOT MENTALLY ILL. THEY ARE FORCING HER TO STAY IN A PLACE THAT SHE DOES NOT BELONG. THEY HAVE CAUSED ALL OF HER PROBLEMS. THEY HAVE CRIPPLED HER, WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT. THEY REFUSE TO ALLOW ME TO GET MOM WALKING. AND THEY WILL NOT DO IT THEMSELVES AS THEY SAID THEY WOULD DO. THEY HAVE GIVEN HER DRUGS THAT THE FDA STATES NOT TO GIVE TO SENIORS WITH ALZHEIMER'S OR DEMENTIA. AS IT CAN KILL THEM. THEY REFUSE TO LISTEN TO ANYONE. THEY TELL ME AS LONG AS YOUR MOTHER IS UNDER OUR CARE, YOU DO WHAT WE SAY! THIS IS A DOCTOR TELLING ME THIS. SHE IS BEING LOOKED AFTER BY STAFF THAT IS NOT QUALIFIED TO LOOK AFTER SICK PEOPLE. THEY ARE NOT NURSES. THEY ARE PSY NURSES. THEY COULD NOT WORK IN A HOSPITAL IF THEY TRIED. THEY ARE NOT QUALIFIED TO DO SO. THE DOCTORS ARE ONLY GUESSES AT WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER. MOM HAS NEVER BEEN TESTED FOR ANYTHING. THE DIRECTOR MAKES THREATS THAT THEY WILL STOP ME TO SEE MY MOTHER. BASED ON DEFAMATORY STATEMENTS MADE BY STAFF MEMBERS"
You know, I go to see mom everyday, as I don't know when mom will not know who I am. This is why it is important for my to be their everyday.
So maybe mom will remember me everyday. I know mom does not know my sisters anymore. She does not recognize them.
Especially my younger sister. This is something that does bother me. That they are so selfish, that they cannot spend time with mom.
I try to do everything I can for her. I want her to not die in a hospital or a seniors home. I want mom to live with me. I want to take mom all over the place, to see so many things, that mom has not been able to see, because of being locked up against her will and mine.
Mom deserves, better for the rest of her life, however long or short it may be.
Yes I want to get Adsaac off the ground. But I would rather just take care of my mother.
Actually, all I want to do is look after mom. Everything else can come latter. I want to spend as much time as possible with my mother as I can. Before!
I have no idea what time she has left. I just need to be their for her. All the time. I don't care about anything else. Yes even myself. I could care less if I eat or sleep. Or whatever. I only care about what happens to mom.
Is this to much to ask for. To look after the one, who looked after you. Be their for my loved one.
Not like the rest of my family. Who just does not give a shit about anything but themselves. This is apparent by their actions. Oh yea lack of actions.
I am a Christian and I am honored to look after the widows. And to take care of your parents. Not to leave them stuck in their room, wheels locked, facing the bathroom. As I found her yesterday. And the day before. Wheels locked facing the wall.
Would you liked to be forced to be placed facing the wall, or the bathroom. Without be able to do anything about it.
I will and do everything I can. Yes I would love to do more. I am only here to look after her. Their is no other reason for my existence.
I have been a useless lump, all my life, until I was needed by both of my parents. Yes I have an education. And a good one. But I am only put on this earth to do one thing and one thing only. To look after my mother.
To make her happy. I am the happiest I have ever been, taking care of mom.
Mom is my life. If I do nothing else in my life. I am happy. And my life will be complete and then I am done. I need no more. Then I can go.
I just need to make sure my mothers life is the best that it can be. And if it takes all of my time and my life to do this. Then so be it. That is what I will do then. Period.
I have been crying allot lately. As mom does not want to be in Oceanside anymore. And I don't want her their anymore either. It has been two months now, since I was told mom is moving.
Mom needs to get away from this staff, and I need to be far away from them as well. I know to much and I don't want to deal with this bull shit any longer.
Mom is having major dental work done, as the psychotropic medication she has been given, ruined her teeth. And I cant get the floss in her mouth. So the dentist said that what mom needs is a good cleaning system.
Now the PGT refuses to release funds for this. Even though it is of a serious nature. I even wrote Procter and Gamble and got a coupon for the cleaning system. Then the PGT tells me, no funds will be released for this purpose.
The PGT, Stephen, even went so far as to tell me to get a job. How dare he, He knows I leave my home between 1 and 2 pm to get to the hospital for mom's dinner. He knows full well I have a disability, and have to use a cane to walk or even stand up. He knows full well that I have to bring everything for mom their and back. As if I leave it their, everything will go missing. He even knows what promisses he made to me, last fall. And never fullfilled any of them.
And mom needs new shoes, not one pair, but two. I have found several pairs. But the PGT refuses to release funds for the shoes as well. And then the shoes are gone. There is only a few places in the Lower Mainland that carries wide size shoes for women. And I have traveled to them. Finding shoes, only to be told, no funds will be released for this purpose.
The PGT is getting carried away. They make me have to access funds through the comfort fund at the hopital. 60 klm's away. And it takes me 3 hours to get their.
This is abuse. I had to use my bus fair to buy mom things she needs. And today is the first and I don't know how I am going to get their and back., now. This is what I deal with.
I am told that I spent the money on other things, knowing full well what I spent the funds on. And yet refusing to help me out.
I would be living in White Rock now, if it where not for the actions of the PGT. I would have a furnished 2 bedroom place. Being able to bring mom over for dinners and to stay for a night. I would have a car, if they kept their word.
I would be able to take mom anywhere and everywhere. If the PGT kept their word.
I need help. I am not coping well. I am very stressed out right now.
I put on a happy face for mom. I leave all the crap at the door. And I feel like sometimes I cant do enough. And you know what I am not doing enough.
I just cant handle the abuse we get from the PGT and the fact. I have absolutely no one to speak to about this or anything.
I have to go now.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
It keeps on
Hello again
So I mention a few weeks ago, that I get banned from using the towels and blankets. And today, the staff tell me that I have to take the towels home with me or they are going to put the towels in the storage locker. It was the staff who banned me from using the towels and put the cart away telling me that it is for safety reasons they put the cart away.
And now, I can't use my own towels, and I can use theirs. Oh yea, one face cloth, and a hand towel. This is all I am allow to use. No more.
I just said I am keeping my towels here and am going to use them. Make up your minds and stop playing games with me.
I wash my mom's feet, lower legs, arms, hands and face. And a few days a week, I wash her hair. A hand towel and face cloth will not cut it.
And then I am told by the PGT that $500.00 was sent to the hospital for me to use to get mom clothing. And well I did not receive these funds and mom still needs shoes and more cosmetics again. They don't last forever. I received some funds, but not the $500 that was ear marked for clothing for mom.
This is what I have to deal with all the time. I can't simply enjoy spending time with my mother, I have to deal with staff that play games and then claim I made threats against them.
Well it is time to go to the police and file a complaint of harassment and threats. I am not going to continue to play these games with staff that I know for a fact abuse their patients. Oh my mother.
I have documented proof of this. The bruises that no one can explain. Or they say she must of bumped against something. Yea right. You get a black eye from bumping into things.
If that were the case I would constantly have black eye's. I walk into things all the time.
This is why I am trying to get www.adsaac.com. of the ground. To put an end to this nonsense. To stop staff and other family members from abusing our loved one's
Again, it is now 1:36 am and it is time to go to bed. I have to get up and deal with the PGT, the social worker. And maybe try to get something done for myself. Like, I don't know, something to eat. Funds to get the bus pass for March. Or something like this.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
So I mention a few weeks ago, that I get banned from using the towels and blankets. And today, the staff tell me that I have to take the towels home with me or they are going to put the towels in the storage locker. It was the staff who banned me from using the towels and put the cart away telling me that it is for safety reasons they put the cart away.
And now, I can't use my own towels, and I can use theirs. Oh yea, one face cloth, and a hand towel. This is all I am allow to use. No more.
I just said I am keeping my towels here and am going to use them. Make up your minds and stop playing games with me.
I wash my mom's feet, lower legs, arms, hands and face. And a few days a week, I wash her hair. A hand towel and face cloth will not cut it.
And then I am told by the PGT that $500.00 was sent to the hospital for me to use to get mom clothing. And well I did not receive these funds and mom still needs shoes and more cosmetics again. They don't last forever. I received some funds, but not the $500 that was ear marked for clothing for mom.
This is what I have to deal with all the time. I can't simply enjoy spending time with my mother, I have to deal with staff that play games and then claim I made threats against them.
Well it is time to go to the police and file a complaint of harassment and threats. I am not going to continue to play these games with staff that I know for a fact abuse their patients. Oh my mother.
I have documented proof of this. The bruises that no one can explain. Or they say she must of bumped against something. Yea right. You get a black eye from bumping into things.
If that were the case I would constantly have black eye's. I walk into things all the time.
This is why I am trying to get www.adsaac.com. of the ground. To put an end to this nonsense. To stop staff and other family members from abusing our loved one's
Again, it is now 1:36 am and it is time to go to bed. I have to get up and deal with the PGT, the social worker. And maybe try to get something done for myself. Like, I don't know, something to eat. Funds to get the bus pass for March. Or something like this.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
Monday, February 27, 2012
Worrying
Hello again
I am worried about my mother and what harm will come to her at the hands of the staff at Ocean side. It seems they are purposely ignoring her. And leaving mom dirty, from lunch. And dehydrated. This I know, as I am the one giving mom drinks at night. And the amount she takes in, when she does drink.
And I feed her, I know, what she likes and dis likes. What she will eat and won't eat. I know my mother's habits.
Now it has been a few months now, since I was told mom is moving out of their and nothing. The director wants to meet with me to discuss the same old crap. About me and the staff.
But she only takes their side and what I have to say is of no importance. Typical women, with issues. Thinks that all men are about violence and threats.
Grow up. This is not the dark ages and men have not only matured but surpassed what we once were. The cave man.
She has issues of violence in her life. Not my problem. It is hers and hers alone. And if she continues to take it out on me. Than I will not meet with her until I have a lawyer with me. So I am protected. I am not going to go into a meeting, like last time, surounded by women, who were against me from the start. Based on what the same staff, states about me.
And this staff, tells me they have to protect themselves. Yes from what I ask. The violence that is caused against patients. The abuse, the ....................... We all know what it is. They do as well.
On top of this I get BS all the time. Mom needs things and I have to wait as usual. I wait and wait. OK I don't wait, mom waits and waits. As she always has been doing since the PGT has taken over her finances. And mom was committed.
Enough is enough. This is why it is so important to get adsaac up and running.
Not just this. It is time a lawyer, or a group of lawyers gets involved. Somehow there has to be a way of getting this done.
Oh yea. There is. I need help from everyone out their. Please help support our cause. www.adsaac.com and my mother's plight. And my fight for my mother's rights.
Oh yea three days until the end of the month and I am still using my funds for a bus pass to get mom the things she needs. And I keep getting the same old nonsense. I will tell you when there is funds available.
I have to go again. It is 2:30 am and I need sleep.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris
I am worried about my mother and what harm will come to her at the hands of the staff at Ocean side. It seems they are purposely ignoring her. And leaving mom dirty, from lunch. And dehydrated. This I know, as I am the one giving mom drinks at night. And the amount she takes in, when she does drink.
And I feed her, I know, what she likes and dis likes. What she will eat and won't eat. I know my mother's habits.
Now it has been a few months now, since I was told mom is moving out of their and nothing. The director wants to meet with me to discuss the same old crap. About me and the staff.
But she only takes their side and what I have to say is of no importance. Typical women, with issues. Thinks that all men are about violence and threats.
Grow up. This is not the dark ages and men have not only matured but surpassed what we once were. The cave man.
She has issues of violence in her life. Not my problem. It is hers and hers alone. And if she continues to take it out on me. Than I will not meet with her until I have a lawyer with me. So I am protected. I am not going to go into a meeting, like last time, surounded by women, who were against me from the start. Based on what the same staff, states about me.
And this staff, tells me they have to protect themselves. Yes from what I ask. The violence that is caused against patients. The abuse, the ....................... We all know what it is. They do as well.
On top of this I get BS all the time. Mom needs things and I have to wait as usual. I wait and wait. OK I don't wait, mom waits and waits. As she always has been doing since the PGT has taken over her finances. And mom was committed.
Enough is enough. This is why it is so important to get adsaac up and running.
Not just this. It is time a lawyer, or a group of lawyers gets involved. Somehow there has to be a way of getting this done.
Oh yea. There is. I need help from everyone out their. Please help support our cause. www.adsaac.com and my mother's plight. And my fight for my mother's rights.
Oh yea three days until the end of the month and I am still using my funds for a bus pass to get mom the things she needs. And I keep getting the same old nonsense. I will tell you when there is funds available.
I have to go again. It is 2:30 am and I need sleep.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris
Sunday, February 26, 2012
It is hard at times
Hello again
So it is Saturday and when I arrived to see mom, the staff were cleaning mom up, this is 5 pm, from lunch. Again 5 hours latter. Mom was very upset about this and when I got in, I rushed to her side and the staff member would not let go of mom's hand. And she tried to tell me, she was just cleaning mom up.
I didn't say a word, I had allot to say though. I just took mom's hand, and finished cleaning her up. This is ridiculous. They read my blog and get at it.
I should not have to point out this or anything else. Not my job. But it is mom and I will do whatever is necessary to make sure mom is OK.
So I want to mention again, that a few weeks ago, the staff started this game of hiding the towels and face cloths. So I had to start to bring my own towels and face cloths. Can you imagine, I have to bring my own towels and face cloths to wash my mother's feet and face and hands etc....
I have to haul these items from home, and I can't even get help getting a back pack and bag. I have to use grocery bags to do this. And then they hid the blankets. So I need to bring my own blankets, so mom can keep warm. I bring them their and take them back to wash them. I do this several times a weeks. I keep a supply at the hospital, but they get dirty and wet, and I bring them home to launder them.
Now they stopped putting these industrial strength paper towels in the washroom. So I am not even aloud to use these items.
This is petty, plain and simple. On top of this they don't even care that because of their negligence, I am injured at their hands. Not putting the bar back up to where it is to be. I have pics of this bar. And then they have the nerve to trump up a fake complaint against me. And what happens, the very next morning the director, phones me and threatens me with not being able to see mom.
I told her exactly what happened. And to this very day, I have still not received a copy of this complaint.
Defamation, I say.
Then I have the social worker telling me their is no funds available to get at. So I am now using my funds for my bus pass next month. To purchase mom needed items. As in her drinks, and fruit.Which she needs desperately. As I don't see them giving mom anything to drink in the afternoon. Not by the amount of liquids mom drinks at night. And it is allot. But I won't deny her this.
But they will, along with the PGT are making it so, that mom does not get the drinks and fruit she is use to having on a regular basis' for at least 7 years now. I have been bringing mom fruit, drinks, snacks, dinners and desserts.
Now the PGT and the hospital are making so I cannot even get my bus pass next month. As I needed to spend the money to get mom what she needs.
If I did not do this, I could not even tell you how long it would of been until I can get access to the comfort funds. As it is, it has been over a week, since I was last able to access these funds. And now, the end of the month is a few days away. And I don't have the money to buy a bus pass. Which means I can't get out to see mom.
This is abuse. To deny my mother drinks and snacks and fruit, that she is use to getting. And then to deny her access to her son. Whom she relies on to be their for her. Helping her out, feeding her and giving my mother her regular spa treatment. Every night, like clockwork. I do this for her.
This is where I ask again for your help to get a pass. If they would keep their word and do what they keep saying they will do, none of this would happen.
I am told there is $600. in the comfort fund. Now it is $300. BS. I say. BS. It is about time, we bring these abusers down. Together we can. It only takes one of you to reach out and help. It only takes one of you, to set your mind on the ultimate goal. To stop abuse.
Again. This blog is about my mother, but it goes beyond this. By me helping mom out. I am setting a president to stop this from happening to anyone else.
To stop the PGT from abuse, to get the PGT to keep its word and do what they said they where going to do. This is the goal.
To get me out to White Rock, and get adsaac's web site completed is the goal.
Without your help I am just here.
I get threats, abuse and not just me. I am secondary to the one who should be getting your help.
MY MOTHER. Who desperately needs my backing and yours as well.
I am worried about my mother. Mom is not happy anymore their and wants out. Not tomorrow, but now. I can only do this, with your financial help. To be able to speak with lawyers about this matter. To get to the needed agencies and speak with the right people. To get me to Victoria and speak with the premier herself.
To picket the PGT in a way that it attracts all the media in Vancouver. This takes money and I am using my bus pass money to feed and bring what mom is use to having. To keep her healthy and strong.
They are not giving mom the vitamins, I want her to have. No they don't think it is good for her. But to dope her up is OK.
When is getting an elderly person stoned OK. When we preach about not using drugs to all of our young people.
Maybe we should be saying. Don't do drugs now, because when you get older, they are going to give you all the drugs you don't even want and you can sit back in a permanent high. Whether you want it or not.
All in the name of helping you.
1:45 am and I have not even had anything to eat today. I am still not over this, cold I have. I can't get rid of this cough.
But who cares about me, mom is stuck in this place and no one in my family give a crap about this. I, myself, am a looser. For not having a car to take her out of this place and to see her friends. To get her outside, fresh air, tree's. The feel of the wind on her face, the rain, the coolness of the season upon her skin.
This is what life is about. To get out and enjoy one's self. To live and rich and full life. To the very end. Not to die, in a place where you don't even want to be.
I will freak out completely if this happens to mom. No kidding heh.
So I say to you GOD bless and good night.
Please be kind and help us out. Or not.
I still will be writing this.
Kris
So it is Saturday and when I arrived to see mom, the staff were cleaning mom up, this is 5 pm, from lunch. Again 5 hours latter. Mom was very upset about this and when I got in, I rushed to her side and the staff member would not let go of mom's hand. And she tried to tell me, she was just cleaning mom up.
I didn't say a word, I had allot to say though. I just took mom's hand, and finished cleaning her up. This is ridiculous. They read my blog and get at it.
I should not have to point out this or anything else. Not my job. But it is mom and I will do whatever is necessary to make sure mom is OK.
So I want to mention again, that a few weeks ago, the staff started this game of hiding the towels and face cloths. So I had to start to bring my own towels and face cloths. Can you imagine, I have to bring my own towels and face cloths to wash my mother's feet and face and hands etc....
I have to haul these items from home, and I can't even get help getting a back pack and bag. I have to use grocery bags to do this. And then they hid the blankets. So I need to bring my own blankets, so mom can keep warm. I bring them their and take them back to wash them. I do this several times a weeks. I keep a supply at the hospital, but they get dirty and wet, and I bring them home to launder them.
Now they stopped putting these industrial strength paper towels in the washroom. So I am not even aloud to use these items.
This is petty, plain and simple. On top of this they don't even care that because of their negligence, I am injured at their hands. Not putting the bar back up to where it is to be. I have pics of this bar. And then they have the nerve to trump up a fake complaint against me. And what happens, the very next morning the director, phones me and threatens me with not being able to see mom.
I told her exactly what happened. And to this very day, I have still not received a copy of this complaint.
Defamation, I say.
Then I have the social worker telling me their is no funds available to get at. So I am now using my funds for my bus pass next month. To purchase mom needed items. As in her drinks, and fruit.Which she needs desperately. As I don't see them giving mom anything to drink in the afternoon. Not by the amount of liquids mom drinks at night. And it is allot. But I won't deny her this.
But they will, along with the PGT are making it so, that mom does not get the drinks and fruit she is use to having on a regular basis' for at least 7 years now. I have been bringing mom fruit, drinks, snacks, dinners and desserts.
Now the PGT and the hospital are making so I cannot even get my bus pass next month. As I needed to spend the money to get mom what she needs.
If I did not do this, I could not even tell you how long it would of been until I can get access to the comfort funds. As it is, it has been over a week, since I was last able to access these funds. And now, the end of the month is a few days away. And I don't have the money to buy a bus pass. Which means I can't get out to see mom.
This is abuse. To deny my mother drinks and snacks and fruit, that she is use to getting. And then to deny her access to her son. Whom she relies on to be their for her. Helping her out, feeding her and giving my mother her regular spa treatment. Every night, like clockwork. I do this for her.
This is where I ask again for your help to get a pass. If they would keep their word and do what they keep saying they will do, none of this would happen.
I am told there is $600. in the comfort fund. Now it is $300. BS. I say. BS. It is about time, we bring these abusers down. Together we can. It only takes one of you to reach out and help. It only takes one of you, to set your mind on the ultimate goal. To stop abuse.
Again. This blog is about my mother, but it goes beyond this. By me helping mom out. I am setting a president to stop this from happening to anyone else.
To stop the PGT from abuse, to get the PGT to keep its word and do what they said they where going to do. This is the goal.
To get me out to White Rock, and get adsaac's web site completed is the goal.
Without your help I am just here.
I get threats, abuse and not just me. I am secondary to the one who should be getting your help.
MY MOTHER. Who desperately needs my backing and yours as well.
I am worried about my mother. Mom is not happy anymore their and wants out. Not tomorrow, but now. I can only do this, with your financial help. To be able to speak with lawyers about this matter. To get to the needed agencies and speak with the right people. To get me to Victoria and speak with the premier herself.
To picket the PGT in a way that it attracts all the media in Vancouver. This takes money and I am using my bus pass money to feed and bring what mom is use to having. To keep her healthy and strong.
They are not giving mom the vitamins, I want her to have. No they don't think it is good for her. But to dope her up is OK.
When is getting an elderly person stoned OK. When we preach about not using drugs to all of our young people.
Maybe we should be saying. Don't do drugs now, because when you get older, they are going to give you all the drugs you don't even want and you can sit back in a permanent high. Whether you want it or not.
All in the name of helping you.
1:45 am and I have not even had anything to eat today. I am still not over this, cold I have. I can't get rid of this cough.
But who cares about me, mom is stuck in this place and no one in my family give a crap about this. I, myself, am a looser. For not having a car to take her out of this place and to see her friends. To get her outside, fresh air, tree's. The feel of the wind on her face, the rain, the coolness of the season upon her skin.
This is what life is about. To get out and enjoy one's self. To live and rich and full life. To the very end. Not to die, in a place where you don't even want to be.
I will freak out completely if this happens to mom. No kidding heh.
So I say to you GOD bless and good night.
Please be kind and help us out. Or not.
I still will be writing this.
Kris
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