Hello
First let me say that I had a meeting today with transfer staff of Riverview. And White Rock will be maned by all the staff from Riverview. So that means I am going to have the same old problems. With the three nurses that I have a problem with now. Helena, Cynthea, and my favorite. OK I don't know her name yet. These are the three nurses who reach for the drugs, instead of letting the patient calm down on their own. And if this is the way here. I sure it going to be the same way their.
Now they tell me it is a new approach to the system and that it is a place to stabilize them and move them back into the community. This is exactly what I was told here at Valleyview. So what is the difference. They are going to try to stabilize them. And this means drug them into submission or as I like to call it, Zombies. No difference.
This is where my problem begins. Nothing is different. Except mom is going to have her own room. And my sister's gave their usual crap. Of I look forward to seeing mom more often. Lie's lie' lie's.
Now I expressed my concerns about the nurses and the fact that their is going to be no diffence. They really don't get it. If this is going to be the way it is. Then I will just fight harder and blog louder. I told them about my company. adsaac.ca and what it stands for. And that I am going to fight for he complete ban of anti psychotic medication. And I will not stop. Their is two new psychiatrist. Just over from the UK. And in the UK there is a ban on 1 and 2 generation anti psychotic drugs.
I won't believe it until I see it. There is an open house coming up on the 18 th of this month. And at that time I will be approaching the doctors on this subject and where I stand on the use of these drugs on my mother. I don't want to start off in a negative way. But if these nurses bring anything up I will blog blog blog about this facility. Don't worry I will never stop writing about Riverview and what they did to my mother and what happened to and is happening to her.
Maybe I will stop writing about Riverview if they meet my demands that I have proposed to their Lawyers. And then I will stop and remove all mention of their name. But until then, not a chance. And my proposal is the only way I will stop.
And Riverview better get on with it. As I have other plans for Riverview if they do not meet my demands very soon. Hear it and read it Riverview and get on with it. Because I will never stop until these demands are met.
Oh yea Riverview and your lawyers. Something really interesting happened today. When I opened my blog and checked my stats. I was shocked. The stats were at 357 views yesterday. And today it is at 2345 views. Yes, that is huge. That much in one day. I must be doing something right I guess. And I hope it grows like this everyday. And grows and grows and grows. To the point where I go viral.
So the people today where nice, but they just aren't getting it. I am not going to stop fighting for my mother's rights. No matter where she is. My mother is not going to die because of excess medication. I will have an autopsy done on her and it will prove the overdose.
But mom has many years left. As long as I fight for her. And getting to White Rock. I will take the bus everyday and I mean it. Everyday, if I have to. But someone is buying me a SUV. Not knew. But an AWD none the less. I think it will be Riverview or the PGT. Not from my mother's money. But theirs.
Now about me. I still have an eviction notice and have no phone. That was brought up today at the meeting. And it was about, having a phone so I can be contacted in case of emergencies. And for the new staff to get ahold of me for meeting and for mom's sake. It is important for me to have an active phone. These are their words. As I read it.
Anyways. Today after the meeting, I went to my doctor to find out about my injury. And I have torn tendents and ligaments in my hip and it is going to take awhile to heal this. In the mean time I go without a phone, which means no business. And no business means no money. And no money means no place to live and no bills paid and no groceries and bus pass.
I was just getting going with adsaac and this crap happens. So do you think I can get a hold of anyone at ICBC. NO! And that is mostly due to not having a phone for someone to call me back. And I mentioned this to Stephen Flynn at the PGT. But he does not give a crap. And he is not even doing what he should be for mom. Mom is drinking and eating allot more lately. And because I have nothing I can't by her what she needs. And as of today. I have absolutely nothing for mom tomorrow. Thursday. And I am really pissed off right now. I need to sleep, but I am to angry. And I don't get angry. This is something new for me. It has been a very long time.
And Translink, yea Translink. Do you think they are doing anything. Well I better she some money, and see it right away. I don't want to hire a lawyer. To much BS.with them. But I will go crazy with my blogging and I am going to tell Translink tomorrow about my blogging and I will place names and numbers and that my blogs are good enough to warrant to corporation's of the BC government to threaten to sue me. And I don't care if they do it to. I will tell everyone how bad transit is and how they let injured people down and do nothing for them. Oops I guess I just did, again. My bad.
So I have to go, as I am tired, hungry and angry.
GOD Bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
This is the story of my mother and myself. About dealing with the institution, hospitals, the doctors and the PGT. How my mother feels thinks and what she wants. And how, as a care giver for her. My thoughts and feelings. How this all effects both my mother and myslelf. Searching for dignaty and respect. For legal purposes I have to write this is my opinion
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
I just don't know
Hello
Well today I could not get a hold of anyone at ICBC or Translink and the fact that my phone does not work, means no business and no busness means no money. So I now have a eviction notice and if I don't pay my rent soon I am out.
I have people sending me emails. Wanting my service. I need to speak with them. And because ICBC and Translink are just playing games with me. As it is expected. But what about the person who is in extreme pain all the time.
I will say this. I have a high tolerance to pain. I can go to the dentist and get work done without freezing. Actually, the sound of the drill puts me to sleep.
But this pain is way beyond what I have ever felt before. When I walk it feels like my leg is going to snap off. And it hurts to take the bus. Walking is something else. It is like, well I cannot walk without my can. I have tried and my legs just gave out. I have to put extreme pressure on my cane just to walk. And getting to the bus loop. Well this is another thing, by the time I get their. The pain is unbearable. Nothing like I have ever felt before. My leg is numb. Trust me. I have jabbed it several times already. I have severe sharp pains and the throbbing in my butt and hip.
But to ICBC and Translink. If I do not get some compensation right away and a wage until I am able to do the things I need to do. Like clean and cook and do my laundry without having someone do it for me. I will start blogging about them. Oops I am already. But I mean I will put their names on here with there contact numbers. And I will blog away about how they are treating the injured people. Translink on how it does not are about its passengers. A passenger who has been loyal to translink for years now. I can get anywhere I need to get by transit. Trust me I have traveled all over the lower mainland. I mean all over.
I have gone to Mission and Abbostford by transit.. West coast express to mission and bus to Abbostford. The only problem was I could not get back. I had to take Greyhound. But other than that I have conducted business by transit. And now. It hurts to take the bus. Never have I had this problem.
I had to travel all over the place for writing the representative agreements with clients. Had no problems with it. I cannot do this now. As I will be in to much pain to deal with the clients in a compassionate way. As I need to do.
This is a very sensitive situation and a very hard thing to think about and write. These rep agreements. It has to be done with allot of compassion and understanding. I cannot be in pain and then take pain killers. I then will not be able to concentrate.
Anyways enough about me. This blog is about my mother. Riverview is continuing to give mom the anti psychotic drugs and mom is just out of it. Even though I have said not to do this over and over again. And do they listen. They just ignore me. And tell me to let the professionals handle it. Well what is a professional.. Is someone with degree's a professional. What they actually mean, Is mind your own business and we will do what we want to your mother. Even if kills her. We will just cover it up. As they do with everything. Like my mom being sexually assaulted. They deny it ever happened or anything like this every happens.
It is all over the Internet about these things happening in institutions and homes. Well of course it happens. They patients are so stoned they don't have a clue what is going on.
I know with my mother. That when the decrease mom's med's she can speak clearer. I know exactly when mom started to loose her speech. It was when mom was in Abostford in the home their. When they let another patient hurt mom and gave drugs to mom to calm her down. In stead of trying to listen to her. This is one of the major side effects of these drugs. Loosing the ability to speak.
So tonight, I could hardly understand mom and her eyes were glassy, pupils dilated. Of course anyone that knows anything. Knows they are stoned. Period. She did not want to eat.
And the arm that she cannot use, was just cold. Very cold. So mom motioned for me to hold that hand. Which I did and rubbed it as well.I am always hot and give off allot of heat and mom knows this. So I warmed her arm up as much as possible.
Mom did not want me to leave. Even though she was extremely tired. Mom wanted me to stay and just hold her hands. Keeping her hands and arms warm. I cannot believe the doctor told me That if you don't use it you will loose it. Come on now your a doctor and you know better than this You know it is the drugs you give her that has caused this problem and if something is not done about it soon. Mom will rely loose it. As in having it amputated. Her arm was blue when I got their. And after rubbing her arm. The colour came back.
What kind of crap is this, anyways. This is exactly why I write this blog and will continue to write it. When this kind of abuse is stopped, I guess I won't have anything left to write about.
This is why I started the Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.ca To put a stop to this abuse. To start to monitor all the homes and institutions for this. And to report it. To the government, the world elder abuse commission. To ban all use of all anti psychotic medication use for seniors with Alzheimer's and Dementia.
I am tired of my mother not living a life. knowing full well. My mother is in their. Full of life and just wanting to live. It I see in my mom's eyes the real her. And mom just wanting to live the rest of her life with respect and enjoying herself. Not being locked up and drugged like this.
This is worse than a jail. It is a dying machine. To just sit and be locked up and drugged. To not do anything but sit their all day long. Fed cold food. With no nutrients in it at all. I have had this discussion over and over again with the dietitian.
I will stop for know. I am getting extremely upset now. At how my mother and how she is not even enjoying her retirement.
GOD Bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Well today I could not get a hold of anyone at ICBC or Translink and the fact that my phone does not work, means no business and no busness means no money. So I now have a eviction notice and if I don't pay my rent soon I am out.
I have people sending me emails. Wanting my service. I need to speak with them. And because ICBC and Translink are just playing games with me. As it is expected. But what about the person who is in extreme pain all the time.
I will say this. I have a high tolerance to pain. I can go to the dentist and get work done without freezing. Actually, the sound of the drill puts me to sleep.
But this pain is way beyond what I have ever felt before. When I walk it feels like my leg is going to snap off. And it hurts to take the bus. Walking is something else. It is like, well I cannot walk without my can. I have tried and my legs just gave out. I have to put extreme pressure on my cane just to walk. And getting to the bus loop. Well this is another thing, by the time I get their. The pain is unbearable. Nothing like I have ever felt before. My leg is numb. Trust me. I have jabbed it several times already. I have severe sharp pains and the throbbing in my butt and hip.
But to ICBC and Translink. If I do not get some compensation right away and a wage until I am able to do the things I need to do. Like clean and cook and do my laundry without having someone do it for me. I will start blogging about them. Oops I am already. But I mean I will put their names on here with there contact numbers. And I will blog away about how they are treating the injured people. Translink on how it does not are about its passengers. A passenger who has been loyal to translink for years now. I can get anywhere I need to get by transit. Trust me I have traveled all over the lower mainland. I mean all over.
I have gone to Mission and Abbostford by transit.. West coast express to mission and bus to Abbostford. The only problem was I could not get back. I had to take Greyhound. But other than that I have conducted business by transit. And now. It hurts to take the bus. Never have I had this problem.
I had to travel all over the place for writing the representative agreements with clients. Had no problems with it. I cannot do this now. As I will be in to much pain to deal with the clients in a compassionate way. As I need to do.
This is a very sensitive situation and a very hard thing to think about and write. These rep agreements. It has to be done with allot of compassion and understanding. I cannot be in pain and then take pain killers. I then will not be able to concentrate.
Anyways enough about me. This blog is about my mother. Riverview is continuing to give mom the anti psychotic drugs and mom is just out of it. Even though I have said not to do this over and over again. And do they listen. They just ignore me. And tell me to let the professionals handle it. Well what is a professional.. Is someone with degree's a professional. What they actually mean, Is mind your own business and we will do what we want to your mother. Even if kills her. We will just cover it up. As they do with everything. Like my mom being sexually assaulted. They deny it ever happened or anything like this every happens.
It is all over the Internet about these things happening in institutions and homes. Well of course it happens. They patients are so stoned they don't have a clue what is going on.
I know with my mother. That when the decrease mom's med's she can speak clearer. I know exactly when mom started to loose her speech. It was when mom was in Abostford in the home their. When they let another patient hurt mom and gave drugs to mom to calm her down. In stead of trying to listen to her. This is one of the major side effects of these drugs. Loosing the ability to speak.
So tonight, I could hardly understand mom and her eyes were glassy, pupils dilated. Of course anyone that knows anything. Knows they are stoned. Period. She did not want to eat.
And the arm that she cannot use, was just cold. Very cold. So mom motioned for me to hold that hand. Which I did and rubbed it as well.I am always hot and give off allot of heat and mom knows this. So I warmed her arm up as much as possible.
Mom did not want me to leave. Even though she was extremely tired. Mom wanted me to stay and just hold her hands. Keeping her hands and arms warm. I cannot believe the doctor told me That if you don't use it you will loose it. Come on now your a doctor and you know better than this You know it is the drugs you give her that has caused this problem and if something is not done about it soon. Mom will rely loose it. As in having it amputated. Her arm was blue when I got their. And after rubbing her arm. The colour came back.
What kind of crap is this, anyways. This is exactly why I write this blog and will continue to write it. When this kind of abuse is stopped, I guess I won't have anything left to write about.
This is why I started the Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.ca To put a stop to this abuse. To start to monitor all the homes and institutions for this. And to report it. To the government, the world elder abuse commission. To ban all use of all anti psychotic medication use for seniors with Alzheimer's and Dementia.
I am tired of my mother not living a life. knowing full well. My mother is in their. Full of life and just wanting to live. It I see in my mom's eyes the real her. And mom just wanting to live the rest of her life with respect and enjoying herself. Not being locked up and drugged like this.
This is worse than a jail. It is a dying machine. To just sit and be locked up and drugged. To not do anything but sit their all day long. Fed cold food. With no nutrients in it at all. I have had this discussion over and over again with the dietitian.
I will stop for know. I am getting extremely upset now. At how my mother and how she is not even enjoying her retirement.
GOD Bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
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