Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Mom is suffering with dental issues

Hello again

So mom is experiencing major dental problems. I have called the dental office over and over again. But not having a working phone. ( Can't afford to pay the phone bill) They can't return my calls.

But that is not the problem. OK it is one of the problems. I left explicit instructions of what to do. Bring mom in an remove the tooth. It can't be saved.

It is really bothering her. Mom can't eat properly. I try to bring her soft foods, but I don't have money for much. OK, really nothing at all. I try to get help with this. But no luck.

I mentioned mom's condition to the staff, daily, but nothing is ever done about it. They tell me they will contact the dental office as well. I ask for something to help with the pain, they are feeding her T 3's. Yes it is helping with the pain. But it is getting mom stoned. And I am worried about this.

Today, the dental office is suppose to be open and I thought, the key word is thought, mom would have gone down to get this taken care of. NO, this didn't happen.

So mom is still in pain, they are still feeding her T 3's and nothing is being done about her tooth. Go figure!

Now I can set up mom's Christmas tree. It will be the first time in 4 years that I can set up her 5' tree. But my crazy landlord threw out all the Christmas and Halloween decorations.

I was able to get a few more decorations. I don't have any lights though. I really dont' know what I am going to do. This is mom's tree and she deserves to have it all lit up and decorated properly.

I don't have the money to do this. And it is really pissing me off. Mom deserves this and I need your help with this.

My landlord took everything that was important to mom and me. There is a potluck dinner and mom needs a nice outfit. Well I had an outfit, it was in a garment bag, behind my door. I looked for it yesterday, and it is no where to be found. The more I look for things the more things are missing. And the RCMP ( the police) aren't doing anything about it. I have to take her to civil court. And that costs money, which again I don't have. This was an expensive outfit I purchased for mom a few years ago. For a Christmas dinner.

Again I am really pissed off about this.

And this crazy landlady, rented a room out to a drug dealer, who just helps himself to what little I don't have. Then last night, he threatened me. And I have to come home to this BS every night.

On top of this, I came home to the eviction notice taped to my door. Now I need to find a place and I can't afford anything. The cost of rooms in White Rock/South Surrey are $600. or more and I can only afford $500.  Basement suites are only a little bit more than this. But still out of my price range.

So summing this up.

Mom needs to go to the dentist and I can't get in touch with them, or when I do, they can't phone me back.(no phone)

She needs an outfit for the potluck dinner.( Hers was stolen/thrown away)

My phone is not working ( can't afford to pay the bill/or even a pay as you go plan)

I was given an eviction notice and need to be out by the end of December

I can't afford the places, I mean for a room.

I have to live with a drug dealer. This is how the landlady screens the people. I knew he was bad news before he even moved in. Gut feeling. They are usually right. 90% of the time.

Now I have been waiting for the PGT to get permission from my sister's to release the mom photo's of her life and memories, but nothing.

I have been waiting for the PGT to get the application processed for mom's handi dart bus pass and nothing.

Mom wants to see her best friend of 35 years, who also has Dementia, And lives not that far away. OK 30 kms. Whom she hasn't seen in 4 years.

Mom wants to see her aunt, and noting is being done about any of these things by the PGT

These are important issues that need to be addressed and soon.

Well I have to go, so I can write the PGT an email.

GOD bless and good night

Kris Schmuland