Hello again
No matter how much I dislike that bus ride to White Rock. The hours it takes. When I get their and I see mom in the wheel chair, with the brakes on. Facing the harse lights. Not being able to go anywhere or do anything. Completely at the will of the staff. Not even being in front of the TV. Facing a wall, or the bathroom.
Her eyes running because of the lights and no one gives a crap. How mom is so dehydrated, each and everyday of the week. That she drinks a bottle of water within 15 minutes of me getting their. And more afterwards.
How she does not want to be their anymore. And they just don't give a dam about it. How I insist on mom not getting any anti psychotic drugs and she still is getting them. Telling them that mom does not have a psychological illness, it is medical. And if I try to say anything, lies are told about me, that I make threats. And not even being able to get a copy of the incident report. And now finding out I have to go through the Freedom of Information act. To get one. Even though it is all bull shit what the nurse even said.
And imagine I get threats made to me all the time, if I say or do anything. I will be banned from seeing my mother.
This is just crap and should not continue. And I have mentioned right from the start that nothing is going to change as long as it is the same staff looking after the patients. I know the abuse they get, mom especially.
So when I see this happening to my mother, I cry instantly upon getting their and hugging her. How dare I complain about traveling a few hours to see your mom. When she cannot even do anything at all. And I have to fight the PGT over their lies and bull shit all the time.
Other wise I would be in White Rock already, if the PGT kept their word.
I cry when I see mom.
She does not have long to live. It is the nature of the disease. The average person with Alzheimer's/Dementia life span is 10 years. Mom is in year 7. I see her decline. I just don't want to admit it is happening.
And I am on the phone all the time trying to get help, for mom and I. And then I hear a story that a dog gets over $18,000.00 in donations from my province. And I spend hours trying to get help from anyone and everyone.
Mom is my life, and I am hers. I am tired of the nonsense that is the PGT and why it is taking so long for mom to be released. Of course it could just be that they keep giving mom drugs and she reacts to them. Or that she just wants out of their herself. And she is getting upset at the fact it is taking so long. And reacts and the staff take it as aggressions.Which I know they do. as they don't pay attention to anything she says.
So what to do. I keep asking everyone and anyone who will listen for help
GOD bless and good night
Kris
