Wednesday, November 2, 2011

It is cold out there

Hello again

It is extremely cold out their and I have to say that I was close to freezing. No winter clothing, jacket, long sleeve shirts, sweaters. As I have been giving my clothing to my mother. But the clothing I give to her seems to keep disappearing.

Mom went into Ocean Side with an abundance of clothing, and now, what she has left, is mostly clothing from my closet, or items that I have recently bought for her. This is what I spend my money on. Taking care of mom. As her belongings keep going by by. And who is taking them, I have my idea, but can not prove it.

I just want to know where they went, and who gave permission for them to go that way. As my mother's white  gold chain and cross. It is sacrilegious to steal a cross from someone and especially a senior with Dementia. GOD know who you are and will remember you.

I am getting colder and colder traveling back and forth. Without the proper clothing to protect me from the cold weather. It is allot of money to buy a good warm coat or other articles of clothing to keep me warm while I am traveling. I have to wait allot of time outside for the buses on my way home at night. It is rare that I catch all the connections and then I am waiting a half hour or more.

Then there is the bus ride back to Coquitlam where the bus is so cold. Well no one else seems to have this problem as they are wrapped in ten or more layers of everything. I normally don't get cold, but I am loosing weight like crazy. Even after putting two knew holes in my belt, My pants are always falling off. It is a little funny.

Tonight mom did not want to eat much of her dinner, she is waiting for me to move to White Rock and bring dinners to her. This is would love to do. And when I do get out their I do plan on doing this. the food is just horrible. Hospital food. It is just the most horrible food around

I really do need to move out to White Rock. And as soon as possible as mom is starting to loose weight and she does not eat all her dinner. I bring her as much as I can, but I am limited to the lack of funds that I have. I did bring some dinners a few weeks ago. And mom ate all of each of the dinners I brought. And some dessert. This is what I need to do. And this is the reason I need to be in White Rock.

Mom needs some nutritious meals and good tasting meals. Taste I the key word here.

Now I did her nightly beauty treatment. Put Tea Tree Oil on her sores on her legs, and they are finally healing. As long as they stop putting that cream on it. They would of healed along time ago.

And after they took mom to the bathroom, they put her in her night clothes and I put her to bed. Once I get their the only thing they have to do is take her to the washroom and change her. I do the rest. And mom likes it this way. I do too.

It now has been almost three weeks since I walked mom and the hospital was to get back to me on the wavier I want so I can walk her. Of course they have not done this. As they said they would.

Just let me take care of it as I do nightly for her and I will heal her the way I do. I am no longer going to wait. They either get this together or I will just walk her myself. Time to get it together I am not going to wait for ever.

I need to go I am so bagged I need sleep.

GOD Bless and good night

Kris






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