Hello again
Yes this is allot about me, but I am the one who travels the 105 kms there and back. I fight the battles, and I am there for my mother when she is down and when she is pissed off. And when she wonders why she can't get out of this prison that she is in.
I see her reactions to everything that goes on their. I see how she is drugged, I can see it in her eyes. The glazed over effect. I am the one who mom looks at to get her up and walk. And mom is pissed off at the fact she can't and guess what her legs are getting weaker.
This is exactly how it is. They wait and wait to see if I will just give up. The same as in Riverview. Just putting me off. Never let the hospital do things, you will never get an answer or it will take 6 months to a 1 year. How hard is it to talk to the legal department and tell them I am going to sign a waiver. But what gets me the most upset is the fact that the staff are not concerned about the patient, but their liability. That is what I hear. Mom should of been walking everyday for the last month and nothing. They do not want mom walking. That is why Riverview crippled mom and kept her physically and chemically restrained.
The hospital does not treat the patients, or try to help them get better. But they treat them like animals and control them with medication. It has gone on for years and it is going to continue.
I am still upset at the psychiatrist saying to me as long as your mother is under our care you are going to do what we say. A little to aggressive and it will be quelled.
I have not spent the last many years getting my Ph.D in Psychology to be treated like I know nothing. And I have been around this disease for over 12 years I think I know something about it. And even if I did not get my degree, she has no business speaking to me or anyone else like that. This will not be tolerated. No one in my past or present has ever spoken to me in this way Without me putting them in their place. And I will.
People are not animals to be trained and controlled. We have a soul and heart and our mind is still active with Alzheimer's and Dementia. Our minds can be re-trained to become an active part of society again. We should not be drugged into submission. We should be treated with compassion and intelligence. Knowing these individuals are the people who built are society and gave you what you have. They are the one's who worked hard to improve our lives.
Why do we treat them like this. And as a result of treating mom like this I am harmed and treated like a child.
Yes it is time to stop dressing like the poor starving student I have been and start dressing like the professional that I am. But I don't have the funds to even do this. I am in need of many, many thousands of dollars to get myself registered here in BC and to get start to get something together and first and foremost move to White Rock and furnish my place and get new clothing,
And today I went through mom's clothes and guess what their are so many articles of clothing missing it is not funny. I would know as I bought them for her or gave her my clothing.
I feel my mother's pain all the time. I will not stop visiting her, no matter what happens. Even if I have to crawl their. Even if every time I go their I get soaking wet. My feet and everything. And I am going to take down all who get in my way.
Stephen Fylnn, of the PGT expects me to wait and wait for him to make a decision. Basically he lies to me and then when I write the truth he gets made and then ignores me and makes me wait some more and denies that he has made any offers of help.
But this is the pattern of all the case managers of the PGT not just him. This is their job to steal the clients money and then when someone needs help to make sure their loved one get all they deserve. Nothing. Oh this is my opinion.
Mom wants to be able to go out for a day, and she wants to come to my home. And I need to be in White Rock to be as close as possible to her. For this reason and many other reasons. I need a decent place with furniture. I need a two bedroom place so I can have mom over for a night or a weekend. Or just bring mom over for a few hours to get out of Ocean Side.
This nonsense is getting pretty tiring
GOD Bless
Kris
