Day 10 or 11 not sure.
Anyways I want to start by saying that not all of the staff at Valleyview are the problem. Just three women and one male nurse. Most of the care staff I got along with. And it is the 4 that have caused the problem. And it better not be the same at Ocean Side in White Rock.
So above is my mother and the last picture is the jail, oh I mean institution she has been stuck in for over two and a half years. Without being diagnosed properly. And the other pictures can speak for themselves. And the worst part of it all. The staff only have one answer. When I ask them what happened. Their only answer is we don't know. Or I wrote it down. No honesty at all. Just a load of crap. Every time. I find a bruise, it is the same lines.
This is why I have asked for help fighting these places. Abuse is my thought. And I have no other thought on this.
So these are part of the things I have to deal with all the time. Just so you know I have a mom and she is in this place. So I have one more week visiting mom at Valleyview. Mom has been given all sorts of different drugs which turned her into a zombie, left her with not being able to use her left arm. Put in a wheelchair, broken hip. Not being able to speak, Given tynalol, which constipates her and then she get a suppository. Having to deal with people who let her sit in her own filth. Not taking her to the washroom until they have the time. Or they feel like it.
As it was again tonight, they did not take her to the washroom before I came and then once mom came out of the ward, I noticed she needed to use the washroom. And of course, this cuts into our time together.
I have been going their for the entire time, everyday. And I have walked in the pouring rain, the snow, the sun and it is only the last little while I have not been able to walk. Thanks to the bus driver, for not giving a dam. The guy knows I am disabled, he has only seen me for at least a year. He knows I sit in the handicap seats.
And it pisses me off that, neither Translink or ICBC is doing anything. So I guess it is time to get a lawyer. I will be in contact with them tomorrow and let them know, buck up or lawyer time. And I will continue to write on my blog about them and it will get nasty, as I have written about all in the past and in the present.
One week and then it is a two or longer bus ride their and back. But I will do it, as I am not going to stop visiting mom and singing to her and her nightly beauty treatment.
I have hitched hiked and walked and taken the greyhound as well as the west coast express to see mom. I have traveled 7 hours to only visit with mom for 2 hours. I have travelled to mission, Abbostford and now Coquitlam and soon to White Rock and I don't complain and will not complain. It is just that simple. I do, however wish I had a car, I mean a SUV so it is not so long of a trip and I can, as I have wanted to do, take mom out on adventures. I have packed Christmas decorations to Mission and Abbostford by bus for years. I have packed groceries to mom, because my sister did not have the groceries to feed mom and I would bring out bags of it.
I have walked thousands of miles for mom already and I will walked and travel ten's of thousand more miles to visit mom. I know Nike makes the best runners to do this with and they last.
White Rock is mom's last place she will be. As I am going to push for mom to be released and she is going to live with me. I am tired of mom being drugged up like this. I can deal with anything. As I have gone through more things in my life than most of you have had to deal with. And I am still going.
I am completely surprised that I am even alive still. So are the doctors. They said I would never live past 50, because of all of my illnesses and health. I am still going and will continue to go. As long as mom is alive. I will not give up. But when she passes away. That is a different story.
But thank GOD she is going strong. Mom is allot more healthy than I am. Mom does not have to go 10 0r 11 days without food. And this is not the first time either. I have gone 15 days before. And I ended up in the hospital that time.
So I am completely out of it tonight and I am not sure what I am talking about.
So GOD Bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
