This is the story of my mother and myself. About dealing with the institution, hospitals, the doctors and the PGT. How my mother feels thinks and what she wants. And how, as a care giver for her. My thoughts and feelings. How this all effects both my mother and myslelf. Searching for dignaty and respect. For legal purposes I have to write this is my opinion
Monday, March 7, 2016
Background.
Hello again
Today another day of grieving for me. Grieving the loss of my mother. Grieving for her ashes having to sit on a shelf in the funeral home.
When mom first became sick, Started slowly with beginning stages of Alzheimer's. I knew what needed to be done for mom, than and for the future.
Someone needed to step up and take control over how mom is to be treated and what needs to happen at each stage of her disease. And along the way, came mini strokes which made matter worse.
I knew what the future was going to be like. I knew mom needed someone to be on her side, Right from the start. Not to let her slip into the system, without someone there to make sure mom was always treated with the respect she deserved. Not letting anyone take her for granted.
Not letting anyone give her medication she did not need or should not be taking.
Remember mom was 72 at the time this all started. Maybe a little younger. Let us say 70. I watched my grandfather go through Alzheimer's and I was very aware of all the stages of this horrible disease.
I have research and research Alzheimer's and Dementia. Plus strokes What to do for them, what they should and should not get for medication.
How to treat them properly. What type of music is best for Alzheimer's patients.
I knew I would have to do everything for mom. My answer was bring it on .... I will be there for everything that was going to happen and did happen.
I was prepared for everything.
I have so much literature on these diseases. So much research on what to give them in the form of supplements and medication would benefit mom the most.
I have a external hard drive full of research. Both medical and natural
I have always believed that this disease can be cured. I just didn't have the money to try it on mom. All healthy things for her.
The average life span of someone with Alzheimer's is 7 years. Mom lived 10 Years past this time. And it was all the love and caring I gave her. The vitamins and supplements. Making sure mom was taking the proper medication, at the right time.
It is all about symmetry It was all about caring for her. Being there for her. Mom knowing I would be there, no matter what.
I still receive constant updates on the latest research from highly respected Medical institutions. Johns Hopkins, The Mayo Clinic to name just a few.
I am a seniors advocate. I fought for mom's rights and others.
I was there taking care of what needed to be done.
Taking care of mom at her home, was just part of what was needed to be done. The proper diet, exercise
You see I don't eat anything from a can. I only eat as fresh as possible. And all of the home cooked meal, I made for mom. Were from the freshes ingredients as possible. Proper diet.
Both my mother and father had Alzheimer's. So I have a very good chance of getting it as well. That is why I made sure I did all the research necessary to help mom live a longer life, which she did, and to help prevent myself from getting this disease.
Now I just need your help to do one last thing for my mother. That is to help me get her ashes out of storage, sitting on a shelf, probate. Whatever it is called I need your help to do this.
I am doing as much as I can to save money. I am downtown Tuesday to try and finish all of the forms off. So I can go and sit in front of a Supreme Court Justice and ask for this case to be heard
This is where I need help with. Once I am granted the ability to sit in front of the Supreme Court, I need someone to represent me.
Sure I can do it myself. But I only know a little bit about the law, That pertains to this type of case.
This is where I need a lawyer. And this is where I need your help.
Please donate. I am only at $100 dollars It is going to cost at least $5000. if I do allot of the work myself. With guidance from someone.
Please donate
https://www.gofundme.com/ka556fdk
GOD bless all of you for reading my Blog and sharing my plight.
Kristopher Schmuland