Saturday, May 12, 2012

Today mom was off

Hello again

In the world of Dementia there is a condition called sun downer. It is as the day goes on the person becomes a little more agitated. And their condition gets worse off. Or in mom's case she gets angry.

On the weekend mom suffers from sun dower. As in during the week, she gets tired easily. Of course who wouldn't. Sitting around all day in a wheel chair, not even being able to move yourself around. As you did a month ago. You would become bored. And then tired. So by the time dinner comes around mom is already for bed. She hurries while eating and then chokes. I try to slow her down. But all she wants to do is go to bed.

Actually, it has to do with the fact they don't take her to the bathroom. She doesn't want to go in her pants. So at Oceanside, it was get the spa treatment done mom gets to go to the washroom. So this is what she is thinking at the Al Hogg building.

But they refuse to take her to the bathroom. And again think she is incontinent. Yes anyone would be if they are not able to be taken to the washroom.

So it is time to call the human rights tribunal. This is abuse. Plain a simple. Why oh why doesn't anyone realize that I will not take this from any of them.

They think they are the only professionals that know anything. I refuse to brag about any of my educational achievements. And the less they know the better. But I guess I am giving allot away just writing this blog.

Not everything, though.

But tonight, while the staff member was putting mom to bed, they must of grabbed her wrong. As mom took a swing at the staff member. And tried to scratch me. but this is to mom being overly tired. I calmed her down and asked her if she would hit me if she wants to hit anyone. I just don't want these individuals to have any ammunition to be able to give her excessive medication.

Now the PGT has screwed me again, not just me but mom as well. They are refusing to release funds for me to get her what she needs. This is the way they behave to all their clients. They answer to no one. According to the provincial government.

But again, it is very late and I finally was able to gain access to the Internet just before I started to write this blog tonight. I had trouble gaining access to my neighbours Internet.

GOD bless and good night

Kris