Hello again
So I am able to write today, I found an open Internet connection out back. So I am on the patio right now writing this.
First I noticed that a ICBC agent took a look at my blog. This is the agent that told me I had no case in the last accident that I had on board the bus. I am in worse condition now, as a result of this driver.
Second. I turned in a bunch of receipts to the PGT and now he is saying. Well what he said was. " I looked for the receipts. Where might I find them.
I turned them in over a week ago now. And I need one of them back, as the stereo I bought for mom is broken and have to return it. The CD player does not work. And the purpose of this purchase is so that I can burn music that mom loves and leave the disks for her to listen to when I am not their.
Now without this receipt I cannot return it. And am stuck with the stereo and having to purchase another one. Which I will do. Some how it will be done. And they are telling me that it is not their problem that I gave my comforters to my mother. They are not going to supply any money to purchase these items.
And I asked that mom get some nighties, and no response. They keep saying that the home supplies these items. But does my mother have to use a hospital gown to sleep in, when she can have nighties. Cannot my mother have a new comforter and pillow cases.
This is the problem I have had with them in the past. When mom moved into a home in Abbostford. I asked for funds to get her furniture for her room. considering my sister's took everything my parents owned when they conned them into selling their house.
They said does she need it. Yes she did and yes she does. I ended up purchasing the furniture myself and was told to turn in the receipts for a refund. Did not happen. I was told the items were not pre approved, so no refund will be given.
They behave the same way now. As other's say. And yes other's have the same problem as I do. They act as if they are gods. We all know what happens to false gods. And to those who act without impunity. Or think that no one can touch them. As the PGT thinks. This is what they say. Go a head and take the PGT to court.
As it will take allot of money or a pro bono lawyer to sue the PGT.
The PGT has made many, many promises to me and have kept none of them. Other wise I would be living in White Rock now. And not having to travel 3 hours a day to get their and 3 hours a day to get back.
I will repeat myself again. I will spend my last dollar on my mother, before I buy myself anything. Hence, loosing 80 lbs, having clothing that is way to large for me. I can get another person into some of the shirts I own. And the pants are all bunched up now. As I have been putting more and more holes into the belt I own. I am continuing to loose weight. And getting smaller.
This is may sound disgusting, but I now have allot of loose skin. Not fat, but loose skin. I lost weight to fast and did not and can not work out to tighten the skin. I can workout my upper body. But nothing for my legs as my knee cannot take any strain. As it is I am in pain all the time. From carrying everything I carry, without the proper bags to do so.
Now I need to be in White Rock, my mother needs me their more often than I am at the present time. I need to be able to get their at a moments notice.
The weekend are bad for mom. I see mom at her worse. And it is OK with me. Tonight when I arrived mom was very upset. She was vocalizing her anger and no one was even paying any attention to her.
This last week, mom has been very dehydrated. I get their and mom drinks allot. And continues throughout the night.
She is upset that they expect her to go to the washroom in her pants. They won't take her to the washroom. Another benefit of Oceanside. Saying mom is incontinent. Which is somewhat true. If you can't get to the washroom and the people who are their to help you. I guess you go in your pants. I would.
I keep saying that if Oceanside and Riverview can take her to the washroom, you can too. This is a human rights violation. Plain and simple. Now I have to phone them and file a complaint against the Al Hogg pavilion.
I will give this to the staff at Oceanside. They took mom to the washroom and did pay attention to my mother. Kept her clean. Not as much as I wanted them to. But I am her son and I want allot and I want the best for my mother and the best care possible.
Mom was angry and she did not eat much. It is hard to do when you have to go to the washroom. This is one of my main problems. They keep giving mom Tylenol and this causes constipation. So then they give mom a laxative. This is ruining mom's stomach. And excessive and prolonged use of Tylenol can cause liver damage.
On top of mom having Dementia. I still believe it is the result of a stroke that has the speech problem. Not from Dementia related symptoms. Once again there has never been a complete checkup for mom.
There are many tests that are needed before anyone should be classed as have Dementia.
I will list these tests in a further blog.
But I got mom to eat a bit tonight. I brought garlic prawns, she only ate a few of them. I brought her favorite salad. She only ate a little bit of it. Thank GOD I brought fruit for her. She ate the Korean Mellon, an advocate and some cheese and a chocolate and banana pudding. So I guess she ate quit a bit.
Then she just wanted to have her spa treatment done. She loves this and I love giving the spa treatment to her. She looks forward to it. Because mom gets completely relaxed before bed. She especially likes it when I wash and massage her feet. Well it is when I pour all the water over her feet to rinse them. Hot water. Actually 3 bottles of water, progressively hotter water. Never burning hot.
But what is great is when I finish the spa treatment. I hold mom's hand or she holds my hand. Mom just goes into a relaxed and tranquil state of being. She falls asleep allot of the time.This is where I would like to put her to bed and sit with her holding her hand while she falls asleep.
These are some of the many reasons I need to be in White Rock now. Especially now that it is nearing Summer and better weather. I can go over their and take her out.
It is 2:12 am and I am cold. I need to go in and go to bed. First to see if the laundry is done.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
