Hello again
Mom is still not eating properly. She just chews and chews her food. She just wants to go to bed and have her spa treatment done.
I say to her please eat more and we will go.But she just gets mad and starts to push the food away and/or throws it.
I can get her to eat fruit and the cheese she likes. The chocolate she likes. Although fruit is great for you. Protein is also important.
Mom does like the salad I make and I can get her to eat some chicken with it. She will eat this for several days. I asked for help with this from the PGT, We will be getting her Ensure and I joined their club so I can get coupon's and samples as well. I also joined their other club, for products that help manage diabetes. Which I have, I manage with diet and exercise. OOP's I don't eat but excises. So I guess I am not managing it.
I picked up mom's sunglasses. Custom made for her. Now I write this, as proof I mom has them. I have also taken pictures of them and sent a copy to the PGT.
I do this as I and my mother has clothed my sister's very well over the last several years. Mom would have allot of nice things if the sister's didn't keep taking them. I have mentioned to the staff that the glasses are not to leave the ward. I will have to contact the social worker and manager and let them know as well.
Isn't this a shame that I would have to do this to protect mom's property. I mentioned in my email to the PGT to pass it on to my sister's that if they do go missing I will call the Police and have them charged with theft.
Oh yea my younger sister finally went to see mom. I know this as the PGT told me that one of them complained about mom sharing a room. I know it was not the older one, as she has been their many times. OK on Thursday's. Now if my younger sister would of been their before I would of heard about her complaint over sharing a room before. And the PGT mentioned this to me today, we were speaking of mom sharing a room and it was mentioned to me that one of my sister's recently complained about this.
Mom needs me more than ever. I need to be in White Rock. And, again I need help with this. I know it is the right thing to do. I feel very peaceful about this decision. Yes I am scared about the move. I am one who does not like change. I use to love change.
But nothing is about me anymore, and I am very happy and excepting of this. I need to do this for my mother more than anything else. And I don't care at all if my sister's do anything. I do what I do because of the love I have for mom. I do this as it is the right thing to do.
Everything else can come latter. It is very emotional for me. The sister's don't get to see what I see, the good and the bad. The changes that I am there for. To love her and show her the respect she deserves.
For me this is the most satisfying thing in my life.
Once again it is late and I need to go to bed. 8:30 am comes early.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
