Hello again
I have purchased Ensure/Boost for mom. She has not been eating and I needed to get proper nutrition into her. It is a combination of her bad tooth and the food that is served.
So I gave her one when I got their and mom just loved it. I brought some fruit as well. Gold Kiwi, a mango and a papaya. After she drank the Ensure, it seemed that her stomach juices started to flow. And mom became hungry.
She ate all the fruit and allot of the dinner that was served. And most of another Ensure. Oh yea three of her Lindt chocolates. This is the most mom has eaten in, well, over a week.
I have found the secret. For now. I hope mom will keep eating like this. I will keep giving her Ensure and we will see what happens.
So afterwards, mom was defiantly ready for her spa treatment. And after I finished washing and putting lotion on her lower legs and feet, I always spray her feet with a lightly scented fragrance.
One of the staff members was their when I sprayed her feet, and as soon as I finished she,right away started complaining that she has allergies and will have to come back in 15 minutes for the smell to go away.
And when she came back in, she was wearing a mask and double gloved. I almost broke out in laughter. And she then told me that she has really bad allergies.
And proceeded to let her know, That I have been doing this since mom moved in and never did she complain about it. It was only when she had seen me doing it, did she complain.
She told me she noticed it before but did not want to say anything. I simple, and calmly repeated that it was not until you saw me spraying her feet that you developed an allergy to the smell. In other words, it is strictly psychological in nature. I could see it in her eyes that what she was telling me was nonsense. And it was her seeing me spray my mother's feet and her being right their that caused the problem.
And then she tells me that if I want her to come in here. I stopped her right there and then. And told her that she should not be making threats against me, like that. It is your job to do this.
And I explained that Bio Therm products are hypo allergenic. I won't be stopping this as I have been doing this for mom, well, about 4 years now. And this is what mom likes and this is what I will continue to do. Period.
It's not as if they are doing anything for mom, anyways. They still have her legs up. I tried to exercise her legs tonight. But they are extremely stiff. So now I will be getting her legs moving again. I will not tolerate mom's legs always being inclined as they are. She needs to get herself around and not be tilted upwards all the time. I explained to them that the lights bother her. I had a custom set of glasses made for her. Now it is their turn to do as I say.
Yes as I say. This is the way it is going to be. Or I will file a complaint with the Human Rights Tribunal and write scathing reviews of the facility on this blog. More so than I am doing now.
And now on to the PGT. They are still refusing to release mom and dads photo's. I need to restore them and get them up on her wall and on a digital frame. And put them on CD/DVD.
It is the end of the month and I am in need of the bus pass. Yes I get help with this. One day left and I can't get their. I have not missed a day since mom moved to White Rock and I am not going to miss any now or ever.
I, again, will explain to everyone. What I have to do, is to serve my mother and be their for her everyday. Not exceptions to this rule. Mom needs me and I need mom.
I have to move to White Rock and am asking again for help. I need to be their right away. No waiting anymore.
The PGT has to live up to its promises. They keep making them and then they deny them. I am not understanding it. I keep all emails, with everything they say.
But I digress,it is 1:25 am and it is time for bed. I need to get up very early to take care of many things. As in contact the PGT, phone the Al Hogg manager. Phone Samsung and complain about the battery on my phone. It does not even last a day. And I don't really use it much. 2 hours of continuous use. Not good.
GOD bless and good night
I ask for help again
Kris Schmuland