Hello again
The time change is really getting to mom. Mom is not eating. Now 5 is 6 and dinner is at 5pm. Now that it is dark at 4:30 ish. Mom is use to eating at 5 the old time and then at 6 pm it is time for mom to get her beauty treatment The way the time is mom internal clock is screwed up and when I get their mom is ready for bed. And she barely eats anything. I try, and try to get her to eat something, but she only eats a very little bit. I have to get her to eat. The only way I can get her use to eating, is to have her eat a little earlier. Like at 4:30, but the problem I have is how to get the food for this time. They serve dinner at 5, so I will have to get some funds to get her to eat. Mom can not go on like this. Really, mom is only eating very little of her dinner. And it is not enough.
I don't know what to do about this matter. I always say, don't punish my mother because of me. Mom needs to eat and get nourishment. I know it will only take a few weeks, but mom can not do this for this amount of time. She needs to eat a complete meal. And at this point in time I have no way of doing this Some times, it is bothering me for doing the right thing and caring so much. But the saying is CARE more than others think is wise.
And this is what I do and I can not do anything differently. It is my mother and I have seen to much loneliness with other patients to not be their for mom. Mom won't let anyone else put her to bed. I need help with this. This is something I don't know if I can do alone
I am out of it, as you can tell by my writing. Time for bed.
GOD Bless and good night
Kris