Hello agian
How is everyone tonight. It is Saturday. And I have nor written in a few days as Thursday night I was preparing for the meeting on Friday. I needed to get up early to make it out there in time for 3 pm. But I needed to get somethings for mom and I wanted to spend a little time with her before the meeting. So I ended up getting there at 2:30. Which meant I needed to leave my house 2 hours earlier than normal. And needed to get up, 2 hours earlier. So by the time I arrived home yesterday night, I was beat. I can't fall asleep as soon as I get home. Which was 10:30 Thursday night. And I had not even eaten that day at all. I still didn't eat that night. Just some crackers. And it was 3 am when I finally was able to fall asleep. Not good.
Anyways, I was prepared. Fully. I had my downloaded information. I highlighted what I thought would be relevant. Which all of which I highlighted, I was able to use through-out the meeting. When they said this, I was able to go, well, it actually is this way. According to the law, which is what I go by.
But, the meeting went almost exactly the way I wanted it to go.. My way. Sorry. But when it comes to mom, I will fight tooth and nail to achieve the desired outcome. And I did.
Actually, it was a mistake on their part. The manager, that the PCQO spoke with, did not have the correct information. That is. I am the one who is there and it is I who make decision`s for mom.
Well it was a little bit more involved than that. There is the TSDM laws that needed to gone over. ( The Substitute Decision Maker) and things made clear that this is what I go by.
I still need to speak with a lawyer. Which I will call and book an appointment with on Monday. Just a continuation to the my concerns.
So mom has been doing well these last few days. She has a new roommate and this women I think will be fine. The women goes to bed before mom. Yes before mom. Is mostly deaf. So no TV or stereo. Nice women. The daughter is nice. Which means mom will get a good night sleep every night.
Now today was bath day. Mom was in bed all day, so she was very thirsty when I arrived. Which I immediately fixed for her.Plenty to drink and a good dinner, which mom ate all of it. And her dessert of course. She ate so much for dinner that she didn`t want all of her dessert. That is OK.
And she only wanted her face and arms done, for the spa treatment. OK as well. Mom almost fell asleep immediately after she finished dinner. The music went on and her eye`s started to close.
Afterwards it was just a matter of holding her hand and letting her falls asleep.
I am home and making a dinner for myself. Since it has been 4 days since I last ate anything of substance. I really mean this. To tired and nothing in my fridge. Poor.
Now it has been two weeks since I started my campaign to raise funds for me to get hearing aids and not a cent.
Through-out this meeting I had to continuously turn to each person so I could hear them. A few times I just didn`t and had to excuse myself.
I need to hear. I have some very important things that will come up, now, which I really need to hear.
www.Gofundme.com/yugmns
I really need your help. And my mother does as well.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
