Hello again
Well today I arrived to find out that the roommate is moving. This was her plan anyways. As soon as a place became available near where her son lives, she would move. And it became available. So first thing in the morning she is leaving on a 7 hour trip to her new place. A long way.
I told my mother and she already new. But she did smile, with that big beautiful smile of hers. Now they just have to find an appropriate roommate for mom. They know my criteria for a roommate.
Anyways mom was happy and ready to eat and go to bed. Really. As soon as we finished dinner, and I got her changed, sat down with her, to wait to be changed and put into be. Put the music on. Mom started to fall asleep. Holding tightly, my hand against her. I just love this. I could cry each and every time. But I am strong. LOL
Afterwards I started the spa treatment and mom made it know that she only wanted the her face and arms done.
Well I need to make this short this evening. I have to do more research for a meeting on Friday at mom`s home, with the manager, social worker and the lady from the PCQO (complaint department) I have done some already. Printed it out, read through it to find out if I need to do more research.
It is print this out, then I find out I need to print this other document out, that goes along with it. Then there is other laws that I need to find information on, that needs to be printed out as well. And it goes on from there.
This is what it is like dealing with the government. One thing leads to another then another then another. and so on and so forth. Never ending. It is OK, as everything is needed to probe my case. So I have it on hand if they start to throw this law or that law at me. I have what is needed to counter it.
And if none of this works, than I scream sexism. After all it was someone there that told me right from our first meeting, when mom arrived, that it is not a mans job to take care of his mother, it was a womens job.
Yes I am the only male who takes care of his mother in the entire place. I mean all floors and both buildings. Oh well. This is what I am called to do. Period.
So thanks
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
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