Hello again
I have not written this weekend as I have had to write complaints and letters to others concerning my mother's care. AS well as research on who to call next regarding the non use of the microwave and now even I cannot use the sink.
REALLY! COME ON NOW
I also have to deal with the PGT. And all my readers know exactly who I am writing about. He/she doesn't like to have their name written on my Blog. The last time, I was threatened, that he/she would not do anything to help me, out. By helping me out I mean to say, doing what is right to assist my mother. And that is the issue now.
Talking out of their ass, saying my mothers health is deteriorating and what good are the supplements and cosmetics doing for her. Peace of mind, making mom feel good. Keeping her healthy. And on top of this, who is the one that is their every single day. I am the one who would know how my mother's health is.
They go on to say. What are you an expert, do you have a PHD. Well I am an expert. By the standard definition of what makes someone an expert. I have been taking care of someone (s) who has/had Alzheimer's and strokes. I know what to do, how to do it. And if I don't know something or how to do something. I know exactly where to look to find the information I need. The research I need. The white papers I need to read. Who to contact, at what research facilty.
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But I won't name names. I said I wouldn't do that anymore to them.
So mom has been doing very well. Great appetite . She ate two meals the other day. And was still hungry. I gave her whatever I could find. Besides chocolate. I just don't want mom to eat to much chocolate in one sitting. Not good her.
One side note, what makes it all worth while is at the end of the day, when mom is in bed and falling asleep, She will grab my hand, pull it close to her and then a big smile comes over her face. At this point she feels safe and falls off to sleep. With that smile on her face.
That makes all the traveling I do worth while. It makes everything worth all the effort. Excuse me there is no effort. It is what it is. I do what is needed to be done.
Over the weekend mom has been talkative. I can get most of what she is saying. Yet sometimes she speaks so quickly, I can't get everything. And no she is not clear at all. Mom just mumbles. But being able to read people I know what she is saying.
Mom has been singing away with me. Mary. All she want to do is hold my hand and enjoy the company. She loves music. It relaxes her and help mom to eat better. And music does really help those with Alzheimer's. The right music. Not just anything.
I know this from the research I have done on music therapy.
I just have to finish with the fact mom completely trusts me and knows I am there for her and will be. Mary knows I will do what is needed.
GOD bless and good night
Kristopher Schmuland
