Hello again
So the roommate is moving out by the end of May, so I need to find a place or I will be homeless. I can't afford this place, by myself. So the hunt is on. I looked at a place and it was a dump, but I could afford it. Thinking!
I am still dealing with the drunk upstairs. It is now harassment.
Anyways the roommates, of mom, was really heavy into the delusions, and very argumentative about all of it. Refusing to listen to anyone, calling the staff all the time. It was completely disturbing to mom and myself. The staff turned the lights out, and she turned them back on. That happened several times. They turned the TV off and guess what.
This is having a serious affect on mom. She is completely tired and not wanting to eat much. It was bath day and mom was in bed having to listen to this nonsense all day long. I sent the letters to the complaint office. Now to bring them into the manager. But tomorrow I will be contacting Pivot legal society to make an appointment to see them.
I made mom a very good dinner tonight and she did eat most of it. It took time, but that is OK. I have lots of time to spend with mom. And it is my pleasure.
I did miss mom last night. It is when mom is this tired, I get worried and when I get worried, I start to get stressed and think that I am going to get that phone call in the middle of the night.
This has caused me to really get it together and write the crowd funding page to raise the funds I need to give mom the funeral she deserves and wants. To be buried with my dad. As mentioned in the past, my sisters had him cremated, against his wishes. And he could of been buried, free of charge, through the Veterans Affairs. I have to now wait, until the new bank information is confirmed through PayPal, to put the information up on the sight. When I do I will let y'all know the site and address.
Mom was tired, and very happy to see me.I feed her dinner, brushed her teeth and hair. Got her changed, since she was already in bed, gave her the nightly spa treatment. Then I read to her, while holding her hand, talking to her. The nurse came in and gave her, her medication. Which she had to wake mom up, to give this to her. After, I just stood there and held her hand for 45 minutes, watching CNN, about the missing plane, with subtitles. I know when mom is completely asleep, her hand relaxes. I sang our goodnight song and gave her kisses. The lights were out in the room when I left.
I got home late and am making mom her dinner for tomorrow. Baked pasta. And I am making muffins as well.
I hope she enjoys this. I am sure she will. I have to drop off a form before I get to mom's tomorrow. So I hope I can get their in time to speak with the manager. After this weekend, it has to change, NOW!
So I will leave you now.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
