Hello again
I finally found out what they really think of my mother. They don't give a crap about what she feels. I heard it directly from an LPN tonight.
I asked for them to do something about the roommate. To turn her TV down, Which I have repeatedly have asked them to do, and what I was told is we will do this, and I replied that she will turn it right back up. Well we can't take the remote away from her. Then I asked about the lights, and I was told that the roommate hallucinates and it is worse when the lights are off. But we turn everything off at 11 PM. And of course the roommate turns everything right back on.
So my mom wanting to sleep in peace, doesn't even matter. Only the roommate matters. And I have sisters who do nothing about anything. And then there is, Debbie ( named changed), who is male biased. She told me when mom moved their that it is a women's job to look after their parents, not a males job. Why are you doing this. And since then, every time I make a decision, Debbie calls my, never their, Sisters and undermines my decisions.
I asked them to move the roommate within two weeks of her moving in. And nothing has been done about it. I am very tired and pissed off at these people. I will be calling a seniors advocate to speak with them and have someone attend a meeting with me and the home's staff. So they are not going to be able to play games with me.
I will be contacting the MLA for White Rock, and phoning the complaint department back on Tuesday. Monday being a holiday.
What I am saying is this is complete abuse of my mother. This roommate is even starting to get on my nerves. She is constantly asking me to do things. Even though I am in the middle of looking after mom. And then just keeps asking for things.
I am done with them.
So I need to stop now. Need to go to bed.
GOD bless and good night
Kristopher W. A. Schmuland
