Hello again
I am so angry at everyone who is taking advantage of mom. Just because she cannot speak clearly, doesn't mean she does not understand everything that is going on. Or if things are not right.
Or the fact that mom's health is being affected by this roommate, and she doesn't want to be their anymore. She doesn't like the roommate. She has not had a decent night's sleep since the person moved into the room with her. I have been watching and complaining.
Mom can't use her left hand because of a stroke, caused by the use of anti psychotic medication she was given. But before this person moved into mom's room. Mom's left hand use to be open and relaxed. But after mom's hand has become closed off and hard to even open it up. I use to be able to put nail polish on her hands, but it is to sore for me to do this now. It hurts mom, for me to open her hand to put on nail polish.
I am sure that if mom gets the sleep she needs, her hand will relax again.
Tonight mom was so tired, she barely ate anything. I mean barely. I was only able to get mom to take no more than ten bites of her dinner. She only ate half of a papaya, which she usually eats a whole one. And if anything, I can get mom to consume allot of the smoothie. But not today. All she wanted to do was go to bed. And she was angry that I was taking her to the same room.
You see, I spoke with her about the issue today. I asked her if she wanted to be moved, so maybe she could finally get a good night sleep. And the answer was a definitive yes. So she was pissed off that we still had to go to that room. She was tired, very tired. And all she wants is to have a good night sleep. A sleep that is all night long. Without any interruptions. Is that to much to ask for. I think not.
This is what all of us want. I do, I am an insomniac, and sleep for about two to three hours at a time, then I wake up, and try again..
I really don't get mad that often, but when it comes to my mother's health and happiness, If she is being abused or things of her are stolen. I get mad and if something is not done about the roommate situation right away. I will take matter into my own hands.
Mom is to important to let any crap take place. Or for her to be unhappy or continue to be this tired all the time. It has been two weeks now, With this latest delusional episode for the roommate. And mom not getting the sleep she needs.
And it is obvious that my sister's don't give a crap about mom's health, otherwise they would of complained as well. One of their, whatever, reads this blog.
I need to go, I barely slept last night.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
