Hello again
So I am happy that my sisters do come at
least once or twice a month. I am happy for mom. Otherwise I could care
less about them.
Now I forgot to mention that while I
am with mom, I check to see if everything is OK with her. I check for
bruises, needle marks ( as I have told them that mom is never to get any
anti psychotic medication) but they lie all the time about what mom
gets. I check to see if she is stoned, her eyes give it away.
I
am always checking to make sure they give mom her supplement everyday.I
check to see if her diaper is full. If so I change her.
I
tell them that mom cannot take the florescent lights, and to put the
sun glasses on her. If they are not on, I go and get them. And repeat
myself, over and over again to the staff.
It is I who
tells the staff if there is anything wrong with mom. I know her that
well. I am the one who catches each and every thing that is wrong with
her. From the simplest sniffle to mom being sick or having dental
issues.
The staff do not notice anything that is wrong. with mom (Mary)
This
is part of my daily routine with mom. To make sure everything is OK and
to make sure she is being treated with the dignity she deserves.
Tonight
mom ate very well. I brought a quiche for her. Well half of one
anyways. And she ate it all. Did not want the meal they supplied.
And
Fridays is one of the nights that I was her hair. Every other day. It
makes her feel so good. The smile on her face tells the whole story.
And when mom is done and ready for bed and her nightly spa treatment, she runs her hand over my face. It is a beautiful thing.
Mom may not speak clearly, but she does speak volumes without being verbal.
People are so surprised that I do this everyday for mom. And I travel such a distance by transit.
I really just ignore people now, when they speak like this. I do this as I love my mother and it is the right thing to do.
PERIOD
Well midnight again, so time to go.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
