Hello again
So I arrived to see mom today and found out that one of my sister's was their with a couple of the grandchildren. About time.. Only a few days late. And where were the other 18 plus family members. And mom only received a few items.
All of those people, mom should of been showered with gifts, even inexpensive gifts. But no, mom gets a pair of slippers ( which she has to many pairs already) and some soap. I am not sure if she got any clothing. I will have to wait a few days to see if that happened.
I now have washed my hands of those people. I give them to GOD to do what HE wants to do with them. Revenge is mine saith the lord.
I will be letting the staff know, not to contact them for anything. I am the one their all the time and I should be the only one they contact for anything. Not them. Whoever they are.
I, for the longest time, thought they would finally do something for mom. I bet they don't even know mom talks. Or even how to listen to her. That mom is their, she may have some impairments, but mom communicate very well. With me anyways.
I can't believe they didn't even give mom a Christmas card. After all I carried the Christmas tree out their by bus, plus all of the decorations. And in a week, I will be bringing them all back with me, by bus. And continue to get their by bus. 3 hours each way. I carry everything out their by bus.
Tonight, after dinner I washed mom's hair and then her nightly spa treatment.
When I got their mom was really happy to see me. I am glad for this. Don't get me wrong, I will never get in mom's way of seeing her other kids and grandchildren. But I will no longer acknowledge the fact I have sisters.
Except this. It is they who are stopping me from getting mom's photo's of her life and memories, as well as the PGT. I told the PGT that all I needed them was for a few months to copy and reprint all the photo's. But not good enough. And the other kids, never gave me permission
This is the type of people they are. Ignorant and spiteful. Not willing to do anything that would benefit mom in anyway. Not caring what mom wants, thinks and needs. How it is important for her to be able to see all of her life in full glory. She is, after all, 83 years old and has Dementia, Lung Cancer and has had a stoke. Come on now, grow up. It is mom's property, not theirs. And it is not like they didn't take everything from my parents, when they conned them into selling their house and move to a farm. All the while dad was showing sign's of Alzheimer's and was highly illegal to do this.
To a f.......ing farm. Mom and Dad moved to BC because they did not ever want to live on a farm again. They wanted to live in the city. Not a farm.
I am done with them. And, again, give them to GOD
For me, I ate something yesterday. My roommate came home and brought a chicken and chips dinner for me and him. I was very impressed and thanked him.
So I start again with the count.
And because of all the weight I have lost over the last year and a bit. I am cold all the time. I only have summer weight jackets. And I am putting on layers and layers. But still cold. I need a winter jacket. Don't know how I will get this. But the cold weather is just starting. More snow on the way. And it is unusually cold this year and will be for the rest of winter.
So I need to go, it is 12:16 am and I am very tired.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
