Hello again
so I just want to state that, I know my mother was not cleaned from lunch as they had hamburgers for lunch and that was what was on her lap.
Now today the social worker writes me and tells me that he will let me know when funds are available for me to access. Come on now.
So this means, once again, mom has to go without. Well I have a budget for my bus pass and I am now using these funds to purchase what my mother needs. Her drinks and snacks and dinner's for her.
This means, I will not have the $151. to buy the bus pass for March. And of course they won't even give a crap that I am using these funds to get mom what she needs.
I still need to get mom shoes. And now drinks and snacks etc....
So the PGT tells me he put an extra $300 in the account, but of course that is a lie. Another lie to add to the list of lies they tell.
I turn in receipts and nothing. I wait and wait for the, whatever is that the game that they play. This is always a game. And it is going to stop. I will take everything to the media.
I will not tolerate being defamed like I was and am. The abuse is going to stop.
This is why I set up adsaac to help stop this. And I cannot do this without the needed funds to finish the web site, and fight the cause that I fight.
I need your financial assistance. I know I am read by over 30 different countries. So now, I will go onto the web and download all information from every country in the world and I will write a standard letter and send it to each of these countries and ask for there help. Why not it won't hurt anything. What is the worst they can say to me. NO. Well I get nothing from everyone now. So it wont hurt to even try.
Now my great aunt has finally succumb to this disease. She is now not able to stay in her home. And has moved to a seniors complex. Well she lasted a long time. She is 86 years old. and up to this year she drove her own car and ran a house.
This disease is a horrific disease, it takes a persons life away. On top of one having to deal with this disease. One gets stuck in a place an is left up to the mercy of the staff. Who, as I have shown, over and over again. Don't give a rats ------ about the patients.
It is wide spread abuse. My mother is only one out of thousands and thousands of people who suffer each and everyday.
This again, is why I started adsaac to help put and end to this abuse. Not just by the hands of the care staff, but also by the hands of the PGT. And every province, state and country has a PGT Public Guardian and trustee who say they are there to help seniors against abuse.But are in fact one of the largest abusers of them all. And are backed by their governments.
I write about my mother and how she feels and thinks. How I feel and think and react to this. How at times I just want to end my own life, because it seems so difficult to deal with. But I remember, my mother is locked up and cant go anywhere or even have any rights.
As I stated the other day. Mom sitting for 5 hours, with her lunch on her lap, not taken to the washroom, not given anything to drink. Sitting dehydrated for this entire time.Waiting for me to come and rescue her. Which is what I have to do all the time.
I cant even enjoy my mothers company, as I have to constantly deal with something with these people.
Enough already. This why, at times I feel like giving up. But wait, this is exactly what they want me to do. This way they can do what ever they want to all who come into contact with them.
I have been around this now, for 15 years and know what happens in the, so called, care homes. What happens to our loved ones.
70% of the patients don't have anyone coming to see them and are relying on the proper care of the staff.
Don't get me wrong, not all who work in this field are guilty of abuse. There are allot of the staff who are their to care for and love their patients. Who want to be in this field, out of genuine love for other people.
But their are the ones who are just their because they have a good job and make good money. And will have a excellent retirement package waiting for them after their 40 years of service. It is those who are not their to take care of the patients who should be weeded out and fired, or yet charged with abuse.
I get threats all the time by this place. Telling me if I don't do things their way and listen to everything the staff tell me, they will stop me from visiting my mother. Even though I am her only source of support.
Certainly not my sisters, who don't care at all about my mother. The funds have dried up and they cant get anymore to pay for their mortgage or anything else.
This is why I turned my parents down for help in getting a place. If I cant do it on my own, it just wont happen. I guess.
Getting late, and as always I could write for ever.
Have to go, try to eat something as it is 2:40 am on Saturday now. Have to get up at 9:00am to get things done.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris
