Hello again
So today I was feeling really crappy. I have not had a cold or flu in 10 years or so. And I am in the middle of one now. This is due to the fact that I have lost over 80 lbs in less than a year. And it was not from exercising or dieting. It was the old fashion starvation diet. I did not even get out of bed until after 2:00 pm and I was not going to go and see mom today. But I have made a promise to my mother and told her no matter what I will be their everyday. So I got my butt out of bed and got ready and left.
I have not been skinny like this before. I have been thin, but I worked out all the time and was in great shape. I am freezing cold all the time now. No matter what I can't get warm. I can pile on the clothing. well what little I have, and nothing. Cold, cold and cold, is what I am. ABUSE I SAY!
I am sick because of the PGT and their gross misconduct. And their abuse of their clients and family members. I do nothing but try to do what is right. And what I get is lies, told by the staff at Oceanside, And bigger lies told to me by the PGT Promises after promises and then, I did not say that. And a place that is suppose to take care of my mother.
So tonight I arrived at Oceanside at 6:30 pm. I found mom in her room, wheelchair locked, and mom facing the wall. I ran to her and found mom crying, and this is not acceptable. At least mom could be facing the door to see what is happening. But no, facing the wall, like a teacher would do in third grade when one is punished. Go to the corner and face the wall.
You see I can tell exactly what mom is thinking. Mom told me she does not like it their anymore. It is a very unacceptable place. It is turning out to be not as it was to be. A safe heaven for our loved one's to get better at.
Mom wants out and I want her out now! This is unexceptable. I cannot seem to email the Director and I cannot seem to get a copy of the incedent report, Concerning the aledget threat.
So I am not impressed with everything and everyone. I do all this to help, not only my mother, but to help all who are going through and will go through this.
There are commercials on TV now, speaking out against the abuse of seniors. Now I go to this site, to send them an email. And no email address. A phone number, but no email.
Then I search the site for resources on seniors abuse and for BC, the only one that comes up, extremely often is, GUESS I let you know, THE PGT Over and over and over again. No other services are listed to help with the seniors abuse issue. Just the PGT
This is why I have started ADSAAC to provide an alternative to the PGT, To provide an online service where any and all can find the help they need.
But I need help, your help.
I need to move to White Rock and right now. You see I have two new roommates and they are both alcoholics and drug addicts. This is a non smoking house and they are smoking in the house. I come home to the place reeking of pot.
I am in this situation, because a few years ago, I had my own place, a two bedroom place. Completely furnished. Both bedrooms and everything. I decided to get a roommate for awhile. Well I get a roommate and a few months latter I go away to Abbotsford, mom is sick, and I wanted to be close by. I come home a few days latter and my apartment is empty. Completely and absolutely empty. Every single thing go, including all my clothing, My electronics, furniture etc... You get it.
I have nothing, can't afford to replace anything, I had to move and move into a furnished room. And I have been stuck this way for 3 years now. I need a pace of my own again and a place to have mom over.
The PGT knows this and exactly what happened back then and this past year agreed that they would hep me get out their and help for a car and everything I need. Come on with in reason. No $2000 couches of course.
But I need to go, I need rest, as I will, no matter how crappy I feel, I will always be their for mom.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
