Hello again
Today is mom's bath day, and once again the staff did not even put music or the TV on for her. So she had to just lay there and do nothing all day long until I arrived. I have already mentioned this to them once. See how they do things.
It is ABUSE! No one wants to just lay there and do nothing. Stare at the ceiling all day long. No wonder mom is upset at these people. They can't even put her comforter on correctly. Would you at home, put your comforter on upside down. I don't think so.
I am glad I come everyday. So I can keep an eye out. If I wasn't their, I wonder how badly they would treat mom. Just as they treat others.
I am not the only one who has problems with the day staff. They are extremely lazy. Once again this is from loved one's who come during the day to visit.
Being bath day, mom likes her omelet, so I make it differently each time. Different cheeses etc.......
And I brought her some chicken to go with it. And mom ate everything. And then her dessert. I make sure mom gets fresh fruit with each meal. Her papaya and avocado daily.
And after I brushed her teeth, I changed her sheets. Since yesterday, when mom got sick, the staff put on the hospital sheets. But I brought a set of mom's sheets. Of course they didn't bother to put them on the bed, before they put mom back to bed.
I am just complaining. It is very easy and quick for me to do. I don't even need to turn mom. This was done and I started her spa treatment, I was able to do mom's face and arms. She was so comfortable that this is all she wanted. She said no to doing her legs. So I didn't but I mentioned to her that it has been two days since her legs were done, and we need to do them tomorrow.
Exciting stuff don't you think. But this is what happens on a daily basis'.
And I noticed with myself, that the closer I get to Coquitlam the more stress I feel. The facial cues tell me this.
I really do hate coming back here. What the hell do I have to do to find a place that I can afford. I spend 7 or more hours each day traveling. I am in pain all the time. Stressed out. And now the new problems that I am going to go through for the rest of my life. Not dealing with it. Can't. I have to much stress as it is.
I don't bring any of my crap in with me, when visiting mom. I leave it at the door.
I am pissed off and somewhat freaking out right now.
I am now stopping this.
GOD bless and good night.
