Hello again
Well it was a bad day. It was a great day, I got to be with mom and take care of her. Feed her dinner, and do what I do everyday for her. Spa treatment, put her to bed.
I needed to try some of the clothing I bought her for Christmas. They fit, but I will take a few back and exchange them for 1 size larger, to make it easier for the care aids. See I am not that difficult. I try to make things work. Yet the care aids, the day time care aids, are just impossible to deal with. Even though I have no idea who they are, never met them.
Even though they have been asked to not tear mom's nightgowns, they continue to do so. And as usual, nothing is done about it. I will be phoning the union, once the holidays are over. It has been months and they are not fixed, as the management stated they would do. Or the what Fraser Health told me they would do.
I will take them in and get them fixed, but this time I am going to have an extra strip added to the underside of the seam. To make it stronger. And I will have the new one's done in a similar manner.
These issues I should not have to be dealing with. Everyday there is something new.
But the most important issue is the abuse. Each time they are not dressing or undressing in the manner in which I described, they are committing abuse. Al Hogg pavilion, White Rock, BC, Canada.
This issue is one that I will be dealing with right away. Since nothing is done, with the management, about this. Time to go over their heads. Which I should of done right away. I do, however, have a police file number.
Now tonight, mom was in a extra touchy mood tonight. Okay, it was I was in a stressed mood and did not want to be touched.
I really don't like to be touched by anyone. I make an exception for mom. But sometimes I find it a bit to much. Yet I do nothing about it. Mom needs to hold my hand, it is her security. Knowing I am there for her. So I just deal with it.
But tonight, others were just to much. To many people wanted to either give me a hug or shake my hand. Which I try not to do at all. I don't like being hugged. Mom is the exception.
So tonight, I didn't feel like cooking, so I just picked up something for mom. Which she really enjoyed. Not as much as last nights dinner.
I did what I could do this year for mom and over the holidays so far and will make mom something nice for new years dinner.
I have been very tired of late, so I will finish now and get something to eat. My tooth is doing a little better so I am able to eat more of variety of things. Not just over cooked rice. I will not be eating rice for a while. That is for sure.
I ask that you pray that I find a place.
GOD bless and good night
Kristopher Schmuland
