Hell again
I arrived today to find mom very tired and hot and sticky. And then cold and clammy. I gave mom as much to drink as she wanted, which was not as much as usual.
And being Tuesday, we ate in her room. This was better anyways. Mom really didn't want to be around other people and the noise. She just wanted peace and quiet. Some light music. Relaxing Jazz of course.
I knew as soon as I saw mom she was sick. She barely ate any dinner. Didn't want her kiwi or even her chocolates. ( Which she never turns down unless she is sick)
The nurse checked her temperature and blood pressure. All was well, she said. I just explained to her that I know my mother and she is sick. She may not have a temperature, but she is sick, none the less.
Mom was shaking, cold and hot. I needed to put a blanket over her, while she was eating diner.
Afterwards, I got her changed and ready for bed. The staff came in and put her to bed. Then I quickly gave mom her nightly spa treatment, which I did not give her last night, due to her getting sick. .
She was fussy about it. I just held her hand, gave her a little bit more to drink. It just so happened I had bought orange juice today. Worked out perfectly.
I just stood in the dark and held mom's hand until it was time to leave.
That was it.
GOD bless and good night.
Kristopher Schmuland