Hello again
So we have the hater writing me telling me that I should move my mother into a private place. So I can have everything the way I want it. And even then they won't do what is needed.
I will tell him this. Once again, abuse is rampant in all places. Whether it is private or government funded. They are to match roommates up according to there needs and personalities. Not just stick someone in the room, who should not be put together in the first place.
And I have every right to complain. It is abuse, period.
Again, it is not the roommates fault. This is part of her disease. It is the residential care coordinators responsibility to match the residents up, correctly.
This person is part of the Hamon Clan, my sisters family;. And he is spouting scripture to me about being kind to others and they will be kind to you.
Well, idiot, I am kind to everyone, who I come in contact with. I do not show my depression around mom or any other resident. I check it at the door. I only show my depression when I am alone. Which is most of the time.
People would not tell me their life's stories if I were not a trusted individual.
And this is coming from a family who only wants my mother to hurry up and pass away so they can get the inheritance. Greedy and selfish people, are my family. And maybe if they didn't rip off my parents, constantly through out their lives,, I could get mom into a better place.
They tell me that you don't ask GOD for anything materialistic. Well you do ask HIM for your needs and He will supply them. That is what it states in the Bible.
And I read the bible everyday. I read the bible twice a year, and with that I go through the new testement at least four times a year
What it states is ask, seek and knock. GOD so clothed the birds of the air, how much more will He cloth those who are his children.
And I don't ask GOD for a car or anything like that. I know what the difference between my wants and my needs are.
Yes I want a big flat screen TV or a 27 " monitor or a stereo. But those are wants. My needs are, a printer. Not an expensive on. I have many documents that are related to mom and her care, that need to be printed. And many other letters and documents that are needed for myself.
I need clothing, as mine are to large and are falling apart.
I will buy mom clothing before myself. I make sure mom eats extremely well, before I buy groceries for myself.
I just say this, bring your family and eat what they eat on a regular basis. Not going to happen, I know this for a fact.
But what I say to this person is not to read this blog. I write the truth. Abuse is in every institution. And it is up to the one who cares the most , to make sure their loved one's are well taken care of.
I ask GOD, not for the money to find a place, but to help me find a place within my budget. To guide to this place or person who will assist me or give me a break.
I received a few dollars this week, I was paid. And I got mom a nice dinner tonight. Beef brisket, baked beans and nugget potatoes. Well, mom loved it. I just made her the salad she loves. That with the leftover brisket, is mom's meal tomorrow.
She was full when I got her ready for bed tonight. And was out like a light after her spa treatment. With this huge beautiful smile on her face.
That is my rant for tonight. There is so much more I could write, but it is late and time to go to bed.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
