Hello again
So today, I arrive early to take mom out for a walk. So I grab her, sign her out and let someone know I was taking Mary out for a walk.
Outside we go. I push her up a little ways and realize I have not given her a drink. We stop and I get Mary's drinks out. And proceed to give her a drink of her coke and then along comes the Rn, whom I know. And he is an OK guy and we get along.
He asked me if I know that there was a memo/order that I, Mary's son, was not to take her off the floor. In other words. I am not allowed to take Mary outside for a walk or take her anywhere.
He tells me this has been on Mary's chart since January. First I have heard of it. And I have taken Mary out many times.
The problem being that it is there to begin with. My sister's have no legal right to even say to the staff that I cannot take Mary out anywhere.
Mary's daughter's would have to go to the supreme court of British Columbia and apply for commentee of person over my mother. And I would have to agree that this is what I wish for her. And the home would have to provide me with a copy of this as well as the Supreme court of BC. I would have the opportunity to fight this application.
Well it is May and I have never received anything from the courts or the home, stating that this is what has happened.
The Rn, agreed that there is not a problem with me doing this. As I have done this on numerous occasions. And I simply stated that until I see an order I am going to do what I want with my mother. Which I will never see, as they don't have it. They simply don't have the $5000. to get this done. Or more. I have already checked it out.
I can apply for this and it wouldn't cost me anything. As I am low of income and can use this to my advantage. I can file the papers free of charge and go through the whole system free of charge. But I would need help getting this done.
I took mom out for a little walk. Oh yea, by the way. MARY WAS IN A GREAT MOOD, UNTIL THIS TOOK PLACE AND THEN HER MOOD BECAME BITTER, UPSET. And it is I, who she takes this out on. This is still OK, I understand. Mary is pissed off.
I got inside with mom and the nurse was on me about this.. I said to her as I said above. Show me the document from the Supreme court of BC stating they have Commentee of Person. She couldn't do this. I was getting really pissed off. I just stopped and told her this will be looked at on Monday.
Well on Monday I will be going to the police station and trying to have Mary's daughter's charged with abuse. And the home as well, if I can. I will also be going to the papers and the MLA. Oh wait, there is an election coming soon and we don't know if the MLA will still be in office. I will go anyways.
This is the type of low life looser's Mary's daughters are. They steal my mother's clothing and they are abusing my mother. They do nothing for her. They never take her anywhere.
I am there everyday. It has been two years since mom has been in White Rock and I have never missed a day. I have seen mom everyday for many more years than the two Mary has been in White Rock.
Once again, my days are 10 hours days. Traveling, and visiting with mom and then traveling back to Coquitlam. 7/365
Look it up on a map. Coquitlam, BC and White Rock BC. And I take a bus to White Rock everyday. And there is no direct route. Sure to drive there is about 45 minutes. Tops. Not so by transit. All good though.
What it states, I am pretty sure, I will check it out and post it. What the law states is that the person closets to the individual, who is there all the time and is the one who does most of the work and takes care of Mary, make the decisions on Mary's health care. And guess what I am that person.
But do not quote me on this, I need to find the publication and post it up here for all to see.
I tried, but I couldn't download it completely. The program stopped working before it finished downloading. So I downloaded the latest version of Adobe Reader and flash player.
So for the next day, until Monday, I will be waiting to see what happens.
And as of tomorrow, the individual who let me use the phone, want's it back. So I am without a phone again. Just don't have the $60.00 to get my phone working again.
My hearing is getting worse off. This is another matter that needs to be addressed. But the evil thing, called money is standing in the way.
I did get mom calmed down, and got her into bed, without being hit to many times. I washed her face, gave her the nightly massage treatment and sang our good night song to her.
I got home last night at midnight. And didn't sleep well. Don't know how I will sleep tonight. I hope I will get a good night sleep. I am worried. I am upset and I am a little depressed.
I just need something or I mean a real miracle to happen right now. For my mother's Mary's sake and of course mine.
I just want to be slightly solvent for mom, to be their all the time.
All I want to do is look after my mother, more than I am doing now.
One more thing. The staff that heard about this tonight thinks it is disgusting. As they know what I do and are witnesses to this fact.
Pray for me, that GOD answers my prayers. OK they are financial prayers right now.
Not really. I thank GOD for healing mom every night and I thank GOD that I have this blessed opportunity to take care of my mother. Mary.
So as soon as I find the statement of the law, I will post it for all of you to see.
Anyway, time for bed.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
