Hello again
GOD bless
Two days ago mom had a tooth removed. One that should of been removed a few months ago. It has bothered her and she has been in pain for the entire two months. But did anyone even care. Not the dentist on site, nor the staff, not even mom's daughter's.
I called the dental office repeatedly and they never returned my call. This is serious abuse. By all involved. Come on now, would you sit in pain for a few months. All she needed was the tooth to be removed.
Not only this, but she sits in soiled diapers for hours, no one gives her anything to drink. I know, as soon as I get their mom wants her drinks and she is thirsty. This is how people die in these homes. Lake of care, lack of liquid.
So the day she had the tooth removed, mom was not very hungry at all. I tried to give her soft foods, an avocado, the papaya. But she barely ate anything. I don't blame her. In pain. Freezing just coming out. She was put under and that feeling was still present.
Yesterday, I brought her some a teryaki bento box, with a California roll. Mom ate some of this. Not all of it.
She has not even enjoyed her chocolate. The Lindt Truffles.
Today, mom was very thirsty, happy to see me. Touching my face.
One of the kitchen staff brought me over some dinner, and then brought mom her dinner. Well, mom almost ate both meals. There was not much left over. Just the potatoes. Of course, she gets potatoes, almost every meal.
And her desert, the papaya, an avocado and her chocolates. Great I say, good on her.
I got her ready for bed. This she looks forward too. I wash her face, apply different lotions to her face, then I apply a different lotion to her lower legs and feet and give her a good foot rub. Of course all the while listening to Diana Krall. This she only likes to listen to when in bed.
Oh yea, the staff keep unplugging the stereo. It is a smart stereo and has to be reset each and every time they do this. Gets my goat.
Mom is so relaxed when I am done. I hold her hand while she falls off to sleep. Unless she is awoken by someone, then it takes her longer to get to sleep.
I just need to be out their so I don't have to leave at a certain time. To get back to Coquitlam by 11pm.
Now I am,again asking for a little support or pray that GOD helps me out financially. To get me out their quickly.
I found a perfect place, It is only a few blocks away. Nice basement suite. Just a little out of my price range. By one hundred dollars. This is the part that upsets me the most. A matter of one hundred dollars. Newer basement suite, everything included, my own washer and dryer. What more could anyone ask for . I can push mom their in less than 15 minutes, about 10 I would say.
Again it is a matter of one hundred dollars, a month. This is after I talked them down one hundred dollars. Them knowing I am applying for disability and will take up to 6 months to finalize. Then I could pay the original amount of $700. they were asking .
I don't know anymore. Just asking
Now I need to go, I am very tired and worn out today. I need to catch up on some shows I have downloaded.
So....................................
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
Yea, I am loosing the ability to use my right hand. I am dropping more and more things all the time. My balance is way off and am tilting and falling to the right all the time.
