Hello again
So today, what about today. I am fed up with all the BS. First we have the PGT making all kinds of promises. Then we have the hospital, telling me things that I already know. As in, the fact I should be living in White Rock already. Close to mom and able to have mom over for dinner, and to be able to get to see her quickly.
To bring mom fresh dinners, hot, not warmed up in the microwave.
We have the social worker telling me that there is not enough funds in the account. And how much is to be in there.
Well I was told by the PGT, first there was $250.00 and then there was $300.00 added for clothing allowance. To the comfort fund.
Then the phyciatrist, being nice, I guess, tells me that mom is having tooth problems. I tell her I have it covered and on March 6, mom will be going to the dentist.
The worst part is I have been bringing this up to them, since mom arrived their. 5 months ago. And I had to take the action and go to the dental office, in the same building. And make arrangements for myself. As the people at the hospital were telling me they will handle it. Not so. I would be long dead and buried before anything happens their.
It is up to me, as it always is. This is a good thing.
So where I am at is this. I am more than willing to give up my life for my mother. Yet by doing this, it has led me down a different path in life. My happiness is based on my mother's happiness. Why should it not be. I completely injoy every minute I spend with mom and every minute I spend doing and fighting for mom.
This makes me extremely happy.
I write this to show all who read this the abuse that takes place with our seniors. And the effect it has on myself and those around those being abused.
Yes it is extreme at times. Well many times. But the truth is not always pretty, is it. And what actually is happining to our loved one's is neither pretty or right.
I have been around the abuse of our loved one's for over 12 years now. I am an expert on this subject. I have spend countless hours studying Dementia and Alzheimer's and other ways to treat this disease.
I is a medical conditon.
I have seen more than anyone in their lifetime should see. I deal with it, as I am and will do something about it.
This is why I started the Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.com to put an end to this. To stop the use of psycotropic medication that is killing our loved one's on masses.
But the problem is that no autopsies have been preformed on the idividuals who have passed away in the care of other's who say they are out to help us.
But as I said to the physciatrist today, we are only guessing at what the patients have.
And in my mother's case, nobody ever took the time to see if what is happening with her is for medical reasons.
So I say it is time to have an MRI or PET scan done on mom, to see if it is actually Dementia or is it due to a stroke.
And if it is due to a stroke. Their are treatments for this. Not as the doctor tells me today. What good is it if the damage has already been done.
And if it is caused by a stroke.Then everything every doctor has done to this point has been incorrect and this has caused mom to become crippled. In a wheel chair. the abiltiy to speak or even eat for herself.
Either way, I will know. If it is Dementia, well I know how to treat this. And if it is caused by a stroke. There are many treatments to get mom walking again, speaking again, eating for herself again.
So is it a stroke that have caused mom's systoms and problems. Or is it Dementia. Either way. I will be by her side and contiue to do everything I do now and more.
I do however really need to get my web site finished, and up and running properly. I need to pay the deposit on the business phone and 800 number, since it is on the site already.
I need clothing, as everything I own, very little, is now, 3 sizes to big for me. Was a 38 and now a 34. This is not due to dieting, it is due to not eating.
I have given just about all my clothing to mom, and as usual. They just disapered.
I can't leave anything at Oceanside. As it will be gone.
What I need to do is for someone to force the PGT to do as they say they were going to do. I am out thousands of dollars because of them. I have lost thousands of dollars because of them.
I know to much and this is why they keep making treats against me. TOO BAD
I have to leave now, try to get some sleep.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
