I would like to mention this, about yesterday. I arrive to see mom, and she is in her room, facing, well the wall. With her wheelchair locked. Not even allowed to move around.
Secondly. I was raised to respect women and it just kills me to see my mother being treated like a animal. Even caged animals have better freedoms.
They can move about their cages, not locked and helpless. Not being able to move anywhere. This is abuse. And I am not the one to allow this kind of abuse to continue.
We have rights in this world. And one of them is to not be chemically and physically restrained. As this was and most likely is on a daily basis'. I just happened to get their early.
Now I am told that their is over $500 in the comfort funds for me to access. Well, I receive just over two bills today.
I keep saying I need to get mom clothing and new shoes. And because mom has wider feet. I need to go to a specialty store. And a single pair of shoes is going to cost about $ 160.00 plus tax. Well there goes the two bills. And now I can't buy mom clothing or her drinks and treats, snacks, some dinner's.
Oh yea, I don't even include the cost of the dinners, when I turn in the receipts. And the PGT Stephen Flynn is one. making threats against me and then calling me stupid.
So now what. I say. They want me to separate every little item that I purchase for mom, or the social worker will not accept the receipt and the PGT will not either.
So now, I have several hundred dollars worth of receipts, and nobody will except them. Then they tell me if I don't turn in the receipts I won't be able to access any further funds.
I have the receipts, is it my fault they won't except them. When I am out and about and doing some shopping, I see something for mom, and include it in my purchases.
So anyways. their is to be at least $500.00 available, and this is what I asked for and only receive a few hundred dollars. Not enough to get what I need for mom.
I will just have to call the cashier at the hospital myself and speak with them concerning this matter. As usual.
Now before I forget, I am trying to design a logo for my company, Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition. www.adsaac.com I am working on this design, and I am asking if anyone has any idea on what it should look like, I am open to concepts. Write me and let me know.
Back to the blog.
Because of not having a proper backpack and shoulder bag, my back is killing me. I am in pain all the time now. The PGT is two faced. They understood and helped in the past with bags. But now, notta. I carry this to and from White Rock daily. And I do this for my mother. I can't leave anything their, as who knows when things will go missing.
I certainly don't!
So this is how it works with the PGT, I do not, I repeat do not do things exactly their way, mom suffers and it is called abuse.
The PGT thinks they can get away with it. And so far they have! It is now going to stop. It also seems that the hospital can do the same. Without any repercussions, I am the one they slander, and this carries over to the next place mom moves too.
And nothing happens to them. I only speak the truth on this blog, I make nothing up. It would be ludicrous to even think I could even make any of this up.
Well I have receipts, the social worker won't except them, the PGT won't accept them. Then they tell me I can't have access if I don't provide receipts.
Mom is not happy these days.
People have asked me if I have a life. Why do you do what you do.
I respond by saying, I do what I do because mom did what she did to raise me. And I have willingly and happily given up my life. Actually, I have experienced more happiness this last 10 years than I have ever had in my life.
Before all of this, I was and still am an alcoholic. Practising alcoholic before. Over 11 years ago now. I was completely selfish. Did not care about anyone but myself.
Not so, I don't even care about myself anymore. I don't have a problem, if mom eats steak and I eat hot dogs. Only the best for mom, And I mean it.
Happiness is relative. And I am more happy then ever and I don't plan on stopping this for anyone. This includes fighting for mom's rights and freedom's
I started adsaac Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition." To help our loved one's who can't help themselves." My tag line.
Dedicated to stop abuse of our seniors and loved one's Through action taken against those who choose to abuse their parents, aunts, uncles etc.......
Of course money is always an issue when starting out. And it is definitely in my case. Things will work out and the money I need to finish my web site and get the necessary equipment to get this going. IE: Office equipment, printed materials, product to sell on line. etc......etc.....
But I digress,
I have a continuous headache from being waked in the head by this bar, Blackouts, Now a major back ache.
So I stop now, and go to bed, It is 1:50 am and I need to get up and get a Sharpie to write a picket sign.
GOD bless and good night
Here is his last insulting email, or may I say abusive email from the PGT
Kris,
Let me repeat myself. I am not going to provide you with funds from this office.
For snacks, cosmetics and clothes you need to access the comforts account.
I returned the receipts you left here to Oceanside. They manage the comforts account, not me.
We added $300 to the comforts account for clothes. Deal with them.
If they are not satisfied that the receipts you submit are for the use of your mother, they will not be reimbursing you.
Stephen Flynn
Case Manager
Lower Mainland Regional Office
Public Guardian and Trustee of BC
Tel: (604) 775-0199
Fax: (604) 660-9479
