Hello again
This blog tonight is written about a few and only a few of the individuals. As with an company, organization or institution. Their is always a few who follow what they think is true. Not what actually is the truth.
Even as I write this, I am in fear that reprequssions may be taken against me. As I was already threatened with being banned from visisting my mother. If I do not comply with their rules. Even though, the acqusations against me, are libalous and slanderous statements.
This is what all of us have to fear, we have no rights and when we speak up, we are met with this. Threats, lies.
It is a sad day when the people who are their to protect your mom, but actually are the one's who are abusing her. The PGT being a major contributor of these abuses.
The PGT, knows what I do for my mother and how far I travel everyday to see her. Whether it is raining or snowing or whatever the weather here in Vancouver might bring us. Without hesitation.
And how Stephen Flynn agreed that it would be the best thing for my mother if she stayed in Coquitlam, but do to the Psychiatrist at Riverview, changing my mother's medication right before her assessment for Eagle Ridge Manor, my mother failed the assessment. And was forced to move to White Rock.
Stephen seemed as upset as I was and still am. And was willing to help me to re located to White Rock to be closer to my mother. Instead of having to travel the 110 km's their and back everyday. He was even willing to assit me with all I needed to set up a home, so as I could have mom over for the day or an occasional night.
Stating this would be great for your mother. Since I am the one who actually does things for my mother.
And since mom is now in White Rock, he, was willing to assist me with the purchase of a car and insurance for this, as well. This was all to take place in the fall. And he even went as far as to say, in January I would also receive a large one time payment for the year. With the condition I ask not for anything else.
I jumped on this. I was ecstatic. I was going to get to White Rock, a few blocks from the hospital. A two bedroom suite. To have mom over. Furnish it. With decent stuff. New but not expensive. As I can find everything for a two bedroom suite new at great prices. I know enough people to get deals through. A car again to take mom out and to all the appointments that are necessary to get mom healthy, happy and strong.
Well, I have never felt so elated. I was taken a back. by this kindness, Stephen was showing me.
Ahh. It was fleeting. It turned out to be nothing more than fluff and lies and deceit.
A disappointed at best. More of the same from the PGT. Nothing changes. They will tell you one thing, fill you with hope for a decent future for your mother. A chance for my mother to get out and enjoy her life for a change. Instead of being forcibly locked up and chemically, physically and emotionally retrained as she was at Riverview As in my opinion, as I see it to be. MY OPINION as I am directed to write, for legal purposes.
A leopard does not change their spots.
Mother was sexually assaulted in Riverview and this same staff, covered it up and denied it happened. This same staff denying proper medical treatment to their patients.
Knowing full well, if the patient was to be taken to a real hospital. The doctors would discover that the patient had overdosed on all the medication this same staff gave to the patients.
These are not nurses, they however think they are. They could not work in a hospital. They are not qualified to do so.
Up until a few years ago. To become a Psychiatrist nurse, one only needed a two year program and then put in charge of the lives of our loved one's. Giving them deadly medication when they saw fit. To silence or incapacitate the individual, as with my mother. Stating that the doctor told us we could. Not to be used as a method of silencing all.
THIS IS CALLED MODERN EUGENICS A term and meaning I have coined.
Which means the doctor authorized the use of the anti psychotic medication, but left as chart orders. Meaning the nurses could do as they see fit. When ever they wanted to give it out. But not to be administered to use it as a method of keeping the patients sedated all the time, so they were no trouble and this staff did not have to do anything.
Seen it, been their, done that. Not going to let it happen anymore.
This is the same staff that left my mother on the ground, with a broken hip and not calling 911 and letting her lay or sit their in pain until the next day. Almost 14 hours latter, mom was able to get to the hospital.
This is the staff that would not let me call 911 when mom needed a real hospital and proper medical staff to look after her. Not these imposter's who think they are fully qualified to take care of sick patients.
All of them would be fired within a day, if they were to work in a real hospital.
Now, check this out. I have to carry my own towels to and from Coquitlam, as I am not allowed to use the hospital's towels to wash my mother's hands, face, feet and arms. I have to bring a blanket for mom to use. As mom is denied the use of a blanket by the staff. On top of everything else I carry I now have to add, towels to the list of things I bring their for mom.
TOWELS, can you believe this.
I will say this, I have been instructed not to speak with any member of the staff at Oceanside with the following exceptions. The Doctor, the psychiatrist, the social worker or the director
NEVER SPEAK TO A FOOL, OR YOU WILL APPEAR TO BE ONE AS WELL.
There is still the issue of being seriously injured by the negligence at the hands of a few of the staff .I will keep saying this over and over again.
A Leopard will never change it's spots. Ever.Period, no matter what. You understand me.
Now back to Stephen Fylnn. I carry many things to and from visiting mom everyday. And I have to carry them in something. I have gone through many, many bags. Now I asked Stephen for funds to get two new bags, as the one's I have are shot. Falling apart piece by piece as I move throughout the day.
Soon they will be nothing more than a piece of string, with a few attached metal pieces. Well I asked and I was turned down. I am already using one of those grocery bags. Which is seriously hurting my back. And I will, within the next few days, have to use anther grocery bag and as it is. I carry at least 50 lbs worth of things their and back each day.
I tried to explain this and was met with and abusive attitude. I said no. I don't care if you hurt yourself or not. Not my problem and I personally don't give a dam about your anything you think or say. You do what I tell you to do and so will your mother. I am in charge of her and will do whatever I wish to do. And will allow Oceanside to do the same. We don't listen to you, you listen to us. We will tell you how it is going to be for you and your mother. Not you.
These were his exact words to me on the phone. Very professional, don't you think. NOT!
Your mother will do what we want, will be given any type of medication we see fit to give her and their is not a thing you can do about it. You just shut up and do what we say. Or else we will ban you from seeing your mother.
Even after I have been seriously injured at the hands of the staff, I have suffered a serious concussion because few and only a few of the staff refused to put the bar up after I asked them to do so. As I raise it so I don't walk into it. I am tall you see. And they are not, so they leave it down so as they can reach it. But there is this cord, you see, that hangs down, and it almost hangs to the floor.They clip it on the solid steel bar instead of leaving it down.
So I raise the bar when I get their and they lower it when they put mom to bed, and leave it down. Oh yea, tonight was the first time the bar was up all the way.
It just happens to coincide with the fact that I mentioned I have receive a concussion as a result of walking into it, repeatedly. After asking if they can raise when done putting mom to bed. As a result of their negligence I have a concussion now and a permanent indentation of the bar on my head. I am suffering from severe headaches, blackouts. and other things as a result of this trauma I have endured
Well it is 2:00 am and I must try to eat something and get to bed, I have to be back at my doctors first thing in the morning.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland