Friday, February 10, 2012

Nothing changes

Hello again

So I arrive late, as I now have to carry everything using grocery bags and it is difficult for me and constantly having to stop and rest. Can't through anything over my shoulder. It is killing my back and neck.

Now I arrive and it is after 5:30 and mom is not feed and her food is cold. Luckily I brought mom some dinner. We have dinner and take mom back to her room, To discover the bar is at the usual height. The height of my head. It was up yesterday.

Now I am forced to get funds for mom from the comfort fund at the hospital. This is a hassle. As if I find something for mom I have to contact the social worker and then wait a day to get the funds. In White Rock. I have to travel to White Rock to get the funds. In the mean time, if I see something I can't get it right away or not at all

As it is January, mom was without all of her beauty products. And I was able to get some, by going from store to store and getting some of their sample products and putting it in containers.

But mom was out of everything. And I did not even finds out about having access to these funds until last week. I get the $250. and it is not enough to cover all the costs. I had some funds I covered the rest. But when I went to purchase the rest of the products I bought other items from the store as well and, well the social worker would not turn in the receipts as it is not strictly for mom and he thinks it will be to difficult for the accountant to understand. I circled all that was for mom. How difficult can it be.

The crap starts again. They tried to pull this garbage before, unsuccessfully.

So basically, I have to waste even more time, separating everything.

I don't go to one store and buy everything and I am not going to waste my time and the other people's time, while they wait for me to separate everything.

This is the same old nonsense that they keep trying to pull on me. So if I need money for things for mom. Oh yea, wait, I still have not bought every one of mom's beauty products and mom's clothing keeps disappearing, and mom needs new clothes and needs a new pair of shoes. Which, because mom has wider feet, it is difficult to finds a good pair of shoes for her. I have looked height and low through-out the Lowermainland and finally found a place to get mom attractive shoes that will fit her only to find out I can't get the funds until, maybe Monday. And not even the full amount. I am out $100.00 because of this. Which I could of used to get mom things.

As in the drinks I cannot buy for her now. Nor the snacks or anything else. Their is not any funds left at the hospital cashier. What!

He also was trying to dictate how and what I can spend the money on. Telling me the staff does not think mom needs anything.

Wait, this is the same staff that leaves this bar down, so I walk into it and injure myself. After asking to please keep it raised up

Or the same staff that tells the security I made threats against them.

Or the same staff that will not allow proper medical treatment for the patients. As they did at Riverview. I don't know about here. Or do I and I am afraid they might hurt my mother or ban me from seeing her or both.

Isn't it a pile of . You get it. When one has to worried that the hospital will ban them from seeing their own mother. Based upon lies of the staff. Where they have tried to strip me of my rights over my mother. Not going to happen

I have to go.

GOD bless and good night.

Kris