PRIMER CHRISTY CLARK THE LEADER OF BRITISH COLUMBIA IS ALLOWING THE PUBLIC GUARDIAN AND TRUSTE OF BC. TO AND HAS
RUINED CHRISTMAS FOR MOTHER AND I
AND
CONTINUE TO ABUSE BOTH MY MOTHER AND I. MOTHER HAVING DEMENTIA AND LUNG CANCER, AND MYSELF HAVING TO WALK WITH A CANE AND HAVE HIP AND KNEE PROBLEMS.
Hello again
Mom is happy today, as I was able to be their for her. Thanks to my so called friend I borrowed money from.
But here is the twist. I spoke to the social worker today and mom will be moving within the next 2 weeks, most likely next week sometime. So I have nothing to get mom settled in. As in a dinner for her, rather than the hospital food. Nice to have when one moves. Especially when it is someone with Dementia. And moving into a new place.
I do not have funds to buy mom a TV. Which she will need. An Internet radio. To play her music. Things for her room, to make it feel like home, or a variation of that.
Some nice bedding, etc...etc.... Mom needs all of this. This is what upsets me about the PGT, Them telling me they will help me with so much and they decided to be, excuse me, assholes. This is what I mean by showing their true colours. They abusive organization that they are.
I should be living in White Rock already.
Now I want to take you step by step what happens in a typical evening, when I visit mom every night.
So when I arrive at mom's place. I first undue the seat belt they make her wear. And then big hugs and kisses. I give mom something to drink, as she is usually parched. Dinner comes, I feed her what she likes out of the dinner. And then I cut up fruit and cheese that I bring. She has her juice, a coke and tea. These are the three things mom drinks. Mom likes the hot earl grey from Starbucks. Mom loves, Asian pear and cheese. This she eats allot of.
Now mom lets me know when it is time for her to go and have her spa treatment. I take her bake to her room, I turn the bathroom light on, turn the other two lights off. I raise mom's legs and put them on the chair, that is in the room.
At this point I turn the music on, which is on my paper weight of a phone. No service. I go and get towels, face cloth's and hand towels. As well as a blanket. I cover her legs with the blanket/.
I then place a hand towel around her neck area, I brush her teeth. And give her water to rise her mouth. Now is the time for the spa therapy. I take everything out of my bag for her. All products to give mom her spa treatment. I fill a large water bottle with hot water. And then pour some into a cup that I have.
I take a face cloth, and dip it into the hot water. And dab hot water all over her face and neck. I then take out the cleanser, and rub it into her skin, cleaning her face. I use a new face cloth and dip this into the hot water to take the cleanser off. And then another cloth to make sure all the cleanser is gone.
I give mom a hug and kiss. I then put lip balm on her, then moisturiser on, and then eye serum. This is her face treatment, Now for her feet.
I take off her slippers and socks. put a couple of towels on my knee's and place her feet upon these towels. I put hot water on her feet. I then use the cleanser and clean her feet. I take fresh,clean towels and dip it into the water and do a first cleaning of her feet. I then move her feet, away and hold them up and pour hot water all over her feet. Yes it runs all over the floor, I fill the bottle up again and pour the full bottle of hot water all over her feet again. Mom just loves this. And I do to. As the floor is now covered in water. I dry her feet and put lotion all over her feet and lower legs.
I clean up the puddle of water I made, or the small lake. I get the staff to take mom to the washroom and get her ready for bed. When mom comes back, I wash her arms, the same way. And then put hand lotion on her and then regular lotion on the rest of her arms. Now mom is so relaxed it is not funny. I brush her hair. I don't know. 50 times.
I pick her up from the wheel chair and put her into her bed. At which time I clean up and get ready to go. Oh but I do not leave at this point, I still have things to do. I make mom very comfortable in bed and put my things outside the room. I turn all the lights out and while I am giving mom good night hugs and kisses. I sing mom a good night song. Nothing you or anyone knows. I make it up every night. A new song every night for mom. Usually with the words, Have a good sleep, see you tomorrow, I love my mother. I love you mom. I use all of these and make a new song every night. This is what mom wants. And this is what mom deserves. we hug and I tell her I love her and mom closes her eyes and I leave. Singing
So I will come to an end now.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
I need the money that has been promised to me now, not when they decide that they are going to stop abusing my mother and I. The $10,000.00 that has been promised
This is why I always ask.
