Hello again
It has been three days and counting now, that I have not seen mom. And I know it is causing her great anxiety.
Mom is being discharged and is moving. This is the most important time for me to be their for her. The transition from where she is to her new home.
It is very hard on seniors to move to begin with, but having to move again, after only three months of being where she is. This can be life threatening. Their is a large percentage of seniors who pass away, after being moved, after getting comfortable in the place she is in.
Mom will be dealing with an entirely new staff. When mom moved to where she is. Well just about all the staff were from Valley View. Now with this move, their will be no one mom will know.
Now here is the number one reason I should be with her everyday. And spend more time with her than I have been. I need to be their the day she moves and walk her over their and help her get settled in. And to help her get use to the new environment and staff. The new routine, etc...
You understand, I hope. That the most important time for me to be with mom is when she is moving. But not just this, but always.
I spend allot of time, talking with her and getting her to talk to me. I found out why mom was not eating her dinner. And I am the one who puts her to bed and gets her walking. No one else is doing this.
I was banned from walking her, but the staff have not done this, at all. They don't want me to put her to bed. But this is what mom wants. So where does mom's voice come in to play.
Mom has rights as a human being. But everyone ignores these rights.
Now I ask, for your help, not for me, but for my mother.
Dementia is hard enough for my mother and all seniors to deal with, let alone having to keep on moving and having to deal with new staff, new routines, new everything.
This is a devastating disease, And I have been around this now for over 12 years and have learned so much. I can consider myself an expert. And I do.
Now here we are 3 days and counting that the PGT is abusing my mother. By me not being their it is abusing mom. Considering mom is use to me being with her every single day. And not missing days because of the wrong doing of the few. The PGT.
I ask for your response and help. This is the right thing to do. And I am doing the right thing and will not stop. Even if others think I should be doing other things.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
