Hello everyone and thank you for coming over to here.
It has been very difficult lately. As Valleyview just refuses to stop giving mom the anti psychotic drugs. Mom is like a zombie. And I see it in her. Today mom is looking outside and I could see it in her eyes that she misses just gettting up and going outside for a walk. Fresh air, which we take for granted. To have the sun beat down on your face, feeling its warmth. To feel a gentle breeze. I say all of this in my mother's eyes today.
Could you imagine, not being able to go outside when you wanted too. Or, when you disagree with something and voice your opinion. You are labeled as acting out and then given drugs, not just any drug, but drugs that turn you into a zombie. Or not liking dinner and then being force feed. To the point where they knock your teeth out. Or being stuck in a wheelchair, when you did walk and talk. But because of the constant use of heavy narcotics you can't do anything anymore.
Or having daughters that do not give a rats ass about you and how you are doing. Don't come to visit anymore or come once in a while. And their excuse is that it is too far. A 40 minute drive is too far. Come one now. Or only having one person in your whole family that actually cares about you.
Well this is what my mother goes and lives through everyday. And, well, for the last many months I have not been able to show emotions and lately I can not stop crying. As soon as I see mom I start to cry, As a matter of fact, I feel like crying while writing this. My roommate is just sitting not far away and trying to be a man and not show emotions I am going to hold back the tears and that is just that.
I see so much pain in my mother. I see that she wants to just give up. But she should not do this because of my family. I will be their for her. I will and want to take care of my mother full time. To get her out of these places and just look after her. As it should be. Not to warehouse her. And let Riverview kill her. And then lie about why she died. I have seen it to often. Just like they deighn that mom was sexually assualted and say it never happened or happens. Which by the way, is pure BS. Their was just a news story on this a week ago. It happens and we all know it happens.
I thought I had CBC on my side and that they were going to do a story on this. But this never happened. Even though, mom has not been moved and should be, because of the danger she is in. And the uncomfortable position she is in now. Having to see the individual who did this to her everyday. Come on. The staff do not even take the time to listen to her. And when the police went their a staff member was present and of course mom is not going to say anything. And that is the way it should be. She should only of been interviewed with me present. And with no other person in the room, but myself, mom and the police officer. I do think that the officer did not do his job, Actually I know he did not do his job. I was not present.
I really think it is time to sue Riverview for medical malpractice By knowing that the anti psychotic drugs are dangerous and can kill and that their is the strongest warning the FDA can give. And to continuously give her theses drugs even though I have told them to many times to count. That I do not want mom on these drugs and I have given them pages upon pages of this warning and the side effects of these drugs.
And to sue the Public Guardian and Trustee of BC for gross misuse of my mother's funds. For taking a van away from me and giving it to my sister. With the promise of my sister to take mom out and do this with her. Which never happened as I said it would not. And then spending close to $85,000.00 dollars of my mother's funds on a companion service. Which I would of done without costing anything. And the companion not even visiting mom, even after they were around mom for three or more years. And making $25.00 an hour. For four or five hours a day, six days a week.
I want to do more for mom, but I am also in sever pain from this latest bus incident. And I am out allot of money because of this. I have been working on getting this company going and have been making money. But not enough to do anything with. Just get by. But this last month, with the appointments would of been great. And I have a list of people to phone back. But I can barely walk and am in great pain. Which I never show to my mother. My doctor tells me I cannot work and now because of this, my phone is cut off and I am now late on rent and all my bills. ICBC does not care and neither does Translink. I need money and I need it now. I have not been late on my rent in a long time now and neither with my bills. I really don't know what to do. I need at least $2500. dollars right away.
All because of a bus driver who does not care about his passingers. Oh by the way I have a web site up and running and it is my nonprofit business that I have been working on.
The web address is www.adsaac.ca It is named Alzheimer's Dementia Seniors Abuse Action Coalition.
So GOD Bless and good night
Kris
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