Hello again
Well today was a meeting in which it was the first time in almost a decade that I was in the same room as mom's daughter's.
It went better than I thought it would go. I did, however, have to put an end to a irrelevant conversation chain that one of the girls was trying to start.
Yes it did go better than I thought. Oh yea thank you miss Schmuland for reading my blog, I am glad I can entertain you. But that is the end of it.
I feel sorry for both of them. The one sister who couldn't make a decision if her life depended on it, was quiet most of the meeting or spoke in such a meek voice no one could hear her, or at least I couldn't hear her. I do need hearing aids, so that could be it. Why I couldn't hear her.
The other tried to make herself look good by saying that she knows what mom wants and she looked after dad and mom for two years. I beg to differ. It was less than that. But I let her have this considering she is just trying to make herself look good. Yet where have they been for the last decade. Not taking care of their mother. As that is what I have been doing. Daily and for hours at a time. And would never change this for the world.
Yes mom and dad did live at her home, excuse me, the home mom and dad bought for her. The home that her and her husband were to meet mom and dad at a Notary public to sign a repayment agreement Who failed to show up and left mom and dad sitting there for hours.
Real nice don't you think,
I am going to stop writing about them.
The meeting was just a re-hash of everything I have been speaking about. Feeding mom, to give her tube feeding if necessary And how to proceed from here. For weeks now.
We are going to start to add Resource 2.0 into her diet. Just like ensure. But with higher protein
Then there was this women from Fraser Health who was explaining the decision making process. And proceeded to tell me that it is the decision of the three of us. I disagreed with her and she tells me I have the act with me. Yes I have it as well and have read it. I also spoke to a lawyer concerning this matter. Who is it that I will listen too. A Fraser Health employee or an attorney who specializes in Elder law. The Fraser Health employee job is all about protectionism. Plain and simple.
Anyways I was up extremely early today and I am very tired. I had to leave my home at 9:30 am to get out to White Rock for the meeting. Then I spent the rest of the day there, hanging out with mom.
So I am going to warm up my leftovers, eat and go to bed. Another early day tomorrow.
GOD bless and good night
Please keep praying for mom.
Kristopher Schmuland
