Hello again
Mom's Birthday is approaching very soon October 12, and I ask again if you would be so kind as to send her a Birthday greeting. She is 87 years old. That is a long life and I don't know how many more Birthday's she has in her. At least a few, but because of the nature of the disease, Dementia, and the strokes she has had over the years, and possibly even more strokes to come. We just don't know.
Today I went to the PGT office. As they are refusing to answer any of my emails, so I know where the office is and I just went there. And asked to speak with KB or CK or anyone. Since they are the case mangers of my mother's estate. I will be speaking with them.
I was able to speak with KB OK it was MP who was with her and did most of the talking. While KB just sat back. Her body language was deplorable. Her facial expressions the same. I read her very easily today. Complete disdain for me. Very obvious with her facial expressions and body language.
She, because I am disabled and am not working. thinks of me as a lessor person. A nobody. Though I spend hours a day traveling to and from White Rock, taking care of my mother. And having to do what I did today. Plus the emails, the research. Not just dealing with the PGT, but also having to speak to staff at Al Hogg and deal with constant issues there. Still see's me with contempt.
I did start the meeting by stating that they are the PGT and take care of my mother's estate, I will be speaking with them. And if KB doesn't want to speak with me, to bad. Then find someone who will. Time to get another Case Manager.
I believe, well I will speaking on this at another time.
Mom today was with other's when I arrived. I did speak with the manager and we had a good meeting. I asked if the staff can turn mom's bed slightly, on her bath day. So she can at least see the TV. Instead of having the TV on and mom not being able to see it. As well as not to just put mom in the corner. She needs stimulation.
Other than that, mom is always happy to see me. We had dinner and off to wash her hair. I scratch her scalp while washing it. Since she can't even scratch her own head, anymore. Someone needs to do this for her. And mom just loved this'
We got her changed and into bed. Then what she looks forward to each night. The spa treatment. We were done early, so I was able to just stand there and hold her hand longer than usual.
I left and realized once again. I can stay longer with mom. As I had to wait 20 minutes for a bus. So that is what I will do from now on.
I ask again to send my mother a birthday wish October 12, and please include a photo of your land/country. She would love to see this.
Mary Rose is her name and you can send it to mylastnameis@outlook.com
Thank you
GOD bless and good night.
Please pray that I find a place out in White Rock. Something I can afford
Kristopher Schmuland
