Hello again
So it is Friday and it was to be a day for me to wash mom's hair. But I arrived to late and didn't start feeding her until it was after 5. It takes mom time to eat and have her dessert. Well we were not able to accomplish the hair wash tonight. It was my fault. I know mom missed this. I will, from now on, arrive early on Wednesday and Friday. To start dinner early and get it done by 6 pm.
Other than this, mom was a little bit tired tonight. It showed in her chewing and swallowing. The more tired she is the longer it takes for mom to chew and swallow her food. I wish I knew which days she would be less tired, so I can bring something easy for her to chew. I cannot predict this.
Other days it is not a problem. It is just these hair days that I need to arrive early. The staff come in a 6:30 to change her and put her to bed. When I say change her I mean her diapers. That is it.
After the staff came I just did her spa treatment than I went to wash the dishes. But there is this women who always wants to talk. A daughter of one of the residents. And she doesn't stop. If I let her she would talk for hours. And it is actually not talking, it is she complains all the time. I just want to do the dishes and get back to mom. So I can hold her hand while she falls asleep. Spend the quiet time with her. Not spend 15 minutes listening to this women complain. Look she is nice enough, but I am only there for a short time. And 4 hours is a short time for me, I just want to spend it with mom. I don't get involved. I am busy.
Mom is sitting alone all day, with no company, so it is my responsibility to take care of her. And I just love doing this for my mother. Without a doubt.....................
It is mom's birthday on Monday, October 12 and I ask again if you could send a birthday greeting to her and spread the news around. She is going to be 87 years old and needs to know she is loved by all.
Her name is Mary Rose Schmuland
You can send the greeting to my email, one of them, at mylastnameis@outlook.com
OK another day done and I am very tired.
I spent a half hour on the phone with an advocate giving her a backstory on KB of the PGT and what I feel this upcoming meeting will be about.
So I am tired. And need to go for tonight.
GOD bless and good night.
Kristopher Schmuland
Please pray that I find a place out in White Rock very soon. The back and forth is wearing on my body. Yet I will not stop, no matter what.
